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Hey guys,
I'm 14 yrs old and I'm in 8th grade. I havn't exactly got my own life figured out but I'm pretty good at givin other people advice. So please give me your questions!!!!
Favorite Bands- AC/DC, The Beatles, Rolling Stones, Evanessance, Nickelback, Breaking Benjamin, Janis Joplin,(pretty much ALL classic rock)

favorite food- LASAGNA!!!!! (i'm not crazy i swear.......:P)
favorite quotes- just becasue i'm smiling doesn't mean i'm happy......In a world full of cheerios why not be a fruit loop?.....I was uncool before uncool was cool

so......geez thats all i can think of now sry if all that is crap 2 u. I'll work on it later. Much luv!
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How do you have phone sex? i dont have the first clue.... (link)
well phone sex is pretty much like this
instead of actually HAVING the sex
you just sorta....describe what you would b doing during sex to the other person over the phone

you say things to get the other person turned on
they do the same



Okay, first of all NO lectures.
there is this guy i really like, he is the sweetest. But he is ALMOST going out with this one girl. And she is prude. And one night we were talking dirty and he said that he had never talked to anyone about that stuff before except for me. And he was like i want to have sex soon, and i asked him if he wanted to do it with his almsot girlfriend and he said no. And then he was like bragging about stuff to me like his penis size and that he is a really good kisser. But he never says any of this to his almost girlfriend. One day i told him i liked him and i said that i shouldnt because i felt it was wrong because i would be getting in the way. and then he is likewell would it feel wrong if i liked you back, and i said no. He is definitely not the one to cheat on his girlfriend. But what do these signs mean?



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ok....im going to try no to lecture
but if this answer turns out to be one i dont really care if you rate me low, but honey you really need to hear this

First of all, no one can no for sure if he likes you or not cause we arent there. But, personally I dont think he likes you. Yes he may say things to you that sounds like he does. But he likes you cause your telling him that you will have sex/or mess around with him. He likes your sex, not you. If he liked you he would leave that other girl.

second, ever thought that there is more to a girl than whether or not she will do you? Maybe this guy likes the "prude" girl for who she is, and thinks she is beautiful. This is the way I see it. There are those people who have different values and are shy about kissing, making out, having sex or w/e(aka being "prude"). But you love them anyway because they love you, they are a beautiful person, and you click with them it doesnt matter if they put out for you. An example is, a stripper, sure all guys think they are hot and sexy and want them. But when it boils down they still love their wives(well...in therory)
I think this is how your relationship is

If you think that there is a possibility of a relationship with you and this boy, then have a non sexual talk with him and b like "hey...do you like me? Can we be together?" if he says no and gives you some reason about the other girl, then he doesnt like you for you, you make him honry and thats why he likes you.

I hope this makes sence, and I hope I didnt lecture. There isnt anything wrong with having fun and messing around, believe me its great lol But if you want a relationship, theres gotta be more to it


what is first second and third base?? (link)
well I remember it as the 4 F's
frenching(making out)
fondling(hands up the shirt, down the pants)
fingering(and like a bj)
fucking(sex)
its different I think from person to person, clique to clique, school to school


Why is it that when woman orgasms it sometimes shoot out this watery looking substance... I thought it was pee when it happened to me at first... but it dosen't have that urine smell... Is that normal? What is it cause it was a clear fluid.... and if this happens every time does this mean that your having an excellent orgasm or somthing? Just curious.... (link)
its called female ejaculation, your one of the few girls who can do it! its completly normal dont worry


Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help. (link)
hey,
ok so I think you really really need to think this over. Personally I think you are way way way too young. Is this guy really the guy you want to be your first? You are losing your virginity to this guy, something you cant get back or reverse. Its good that you are thinking about protection, but you are still way to young. Wait acouple years, if you are still together with this guy then maybe the time will be right. But being a teenager myself I know that relationships at this age never last long. I mean you guys aren't even in highschool yet!(im assuming) I hope I helped you make the right decision.
-marsbars


ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such? (link)
Well at that moment you decided you didn't want to. And I agree with you, for your first time making out with this guy(I'm assuming) that was going way to far. Plus you are only 14, I am the same age you age, and I know hormones are flying and stuff, but thats a big step up from just making out. In the end its a personal decision to take that step. If you aren't comfrotable with it then he should not care. And if he likes you, he wont care. He's just a horny teen age boy, they all are honey lol hope I helped xoxo


hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed (link)
hey,
I was SOOOO worried that I wouldn't get my period. But then one day unexpectedly it just happend. There is a really really really small chance you could get pregnant but I think you should go 4 the sex cause you probably wont get pregnant. hope this helps
much luv,
marsbars


i'm 13/f and i know its too early for me to have sex. but sumtimes i get rele horny and i get fantasies about me and a guy or occasionally a friend not minding masturbating with me. i'm not a lezbian and i kno that this doesn't make me lesbian but i dunno wut to do. i'm not very farmiliar with masturbation and i kinda want to but i'm also kinda scared. anyone have any tips? (link)
hey,
I feel the same way as you do! Its really good 2 know that sumone is like me. I'm a 14/f. Could you send me the info you get about this? please please please!
much luv,
marsbars


how do you give a hand job ? (link)
well, I really don't know. I havn't ever given one. I'm sry i could'nt help.
-marsbars




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