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I am an attractive guy (35) and she's an attractive lady (28) but I'm forced to initiate sex 9 of 10 encounters and when she attempts to initiate lately I don't take her seriously to the point where I'll brush her off saying, "you're joking, right", then go about my business. She likes sex early in the evening whereas I like late nite romps, I enjoy sex to music, she likes to play the television while I try to sleep, she insists that I go places with her when I'm tired from working 2 jobs about 4 days per week while she works one job maybe one time per week, etc. We're polar opposites in many ways but my main question has to do with how I can explain to her that even as a guy I would like to be treated as an attractive man and have her initiate on an equitable basis. (link)
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I initiate sex all the time with my bf...mainly because he doesn't. If it was up to me...I would have sex everyday...even better, twice a day. I don't understand why she doesn't initiate...maybe cause she doesn't want it? Idk. Have you asked her?
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Ok here's question that might be hard to answer .maybe not .my problem is trying to get my wife to want sex as much as I do .you see I have to initate everything .but I want her to be in the mood and just grab me ,rub me,kiss on me ,or anything to that matter .I want to be wanted in that way where she just can't keep her hands off me .I'm a verry atractve man .so what is the problem .iv talked to her about it but all she can say is I am atracted to you .but saying and doing is two different thing .sometimes I fell like a looser or failure because I fell so rejected .my sex life is just not there .anymore and I'm only 39 .sure I can spice it up and do different things but that doesn't get me what I want .sure lll get sex but not how I want it to be .like you see on the soaps hot seamy well you get the idea .it just doesn't happen she just lies there and let me do all the work .so what's the point in that anyways .so if anyone has a clue what I'm talking about or has been in my shoes please by all means give me some pointers of what. Can do (link)
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I feel for you...im in the same boat only the gender is switched. I wish my boyfriend couldn't keep his hands off me. Im very sexual...would love sex everyday but my bf says it isn't possible for him. He says my sex drive is higher than his. Im tired of initiating sex all the time. I do everything possible to turn him on...sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. I too am considered a very attractive woman. If im in the mood and HE ISNT, im pretty much on my own no help from him. He says im selfish to keep asking if he isn't in the mood.
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