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so im 13 and gave head to these 4 boys and then people heard bout it and i want to know does it make me a slut my friends said no because i can do what i want but i really am regreting it i mean i dont know they gave me sexual favors but i dont know 13/f HELP! (link)
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Hmm, at 13 and giving head to 4 different boys isn't considered very pure to be honest.
At 13 you should be more interested in what new films are out or the latest single, trust me it will be gaining you a bad reputation.
When you get older, you'll meet the perfect man and he'll ask how many you have slept with etc. and alot of men would be very put off by a large number. Do yourself a favour and stop making it so easy for these boys to get their way with you. It is your life and I won't control it, but, in my opinion you are not giving yourself the best start to becoming an adult.
goodluck x
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For a while now me and this guy have been having really good sex, I'd say about 3 days of the week, 2 or 3 times each day I see him.
Things were going REALLY good sex wise with him, and I think both me and him were loving it; we're both quite highly driven people, constantly horny etc. haha
So about three weeks ago I got my period during sex with him and naturally we stopped things as soon as we noticed. He got thrush about three or four days after that (whether it was linked or not I don't know) and we couldn't have sex for two weeks because of it (he said it was uncomfortable or painful for him). So that was about 2 and a half weeks we couldn't have sex. Then we tried it again and he came quite quickly so it wasn't that great. It's been three weeks now since we had good sex! We tried again last night and i started randomly bleeding from my urethra (god knows why!) so we had to stop. Then it just wouldn't stop bleeding so that was that evening ruined.
I'm getting so horny!! I am seeing him again tomorrow evening and I want to make sure that nothing goes wrong! The bleeding i experienced yesterday was a one off; i have had no pain at all and no more bleeding since then so i don't think it will happen again. There's no cuts.
How can i make sure that nothing gets in the way of us having a good evening?? I can't leave it any longer without sex!! Another thing... if it does go wrong, how can i stop myself from feeling grumpy and annoyed? I've been feeling pretty depressed since last night :(
Thanks!! (link)
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Well if it had been a while since he had sex after the thrush that probably explains him cumming quickly that time, as for the random bleeding I suppose getting it checked is the best thing.Just enjoy your evening together and try to not think of sex as it puts an added pressure on the evening :)
As far as not feeling grumpy I'm not sure what you could do, if he finishes too quickly again you could ask him to pleasure you until you have done yourself perhaps, although if you start bleeding again I'd stop and go see the doctor
Goodluck x
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In the past I went threw this stage where I thought the only way I could get guy's to like me was to send nude pictures of myself, and I'm over that now.
I made a mistake of doing that and now my boyfriend's grandmother has my photo's with her.. so in case I screw up, she'd have them.
I don't want the past ones showing up later on in my life, I want to become a lawyer some day and I've matured. I still have low self esteem but I won't ever do anything like that again.
I just don't want my life ruined down the road ;/
Any advice? I know what I did was wrong, I don't need a lecture.. (link)
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Hey sweety, I've been there, I think what you should do is talk to your boyfriends grandmother, don't lie at all be genuinely as honest as you can tell her that the only reason you did this was because it was all you could think of doing and you regret that decision. Tell her also what you want to do in the future and tell her how if these pictures got out it would destroy your chances, and try to prove you have grown out of this phase and would never do anything to hurt her grandson.
she is just trying to protect him after all, (remember back when she was young the only men who saw you naked would be you father when you were a baby and then your husband) so she probably doesn't understand why you would do this and has her own idea's set about what kind of girl you are, so you may have some work cut out to prove her wrong.
If this all fails, you have two options, hope she is not the kind of woman to do anything to spite you or tell your boyfriend. If you have been together a while and trust him entirely I would go with the second option, and tell him the exact same things you told his grandmother, he may be mad of course but if he loves you and knows you have had issues in the past he should forgive you, and may help you talk to his grandmother.
I'm afraid this is a bit of a pickle but hopefully you're with the right man and his family will forgive you. I honestly wish you luck as I know how you feel right now :)
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hi just wanted to ask I am small girl with big boobs size almost fills Dcup do guys like them or is it just too big is turn off? (link)
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Well, the typical view is "the bigger the better" but that's kind of just a guy joke, in reality every guy is different.
Some people like smaller boobs and some like extremely big while other prefer the middle range and some guys don't really give a toss about boobs and focus on the legs or the ass.
But as a girls opinion a size D sounds pretty good, thats a bout the size most guys can go for I'd say, not too big to be a bit scary and not too small to be barely noticed in a push up bra. But in general, don't go for a guy who is focuses entirely on your boobs, remember your a person and men should respect you for your views and attitude not your body :)
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what is sex? (link)
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You are obviously either too young to know or live a very sheltered life. Sex is a form of affection shown between too adults involving heavy psychical contact and if done between man and woman can lead to children :)
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im 12 and i got my period when i was 11 im wondering if there is a way i know when my period is coming so im asking how to schedule my period. i dont get cramps or anything to know when im getting it like some others, im happy about that but im not happy about not knowing when its coming. (link)
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Typically you have a period every 4 weeks, if your regular that is. it can be a bit of guess work but the best way to schedule is to get a calendar and mark the first day of your period and the last, then after a few months you should see a pattern begin to emerge (such as it's always the last weekend of the month), but that won't work if your irregular
The other option is to go onto the pill which essentially stops an egg being released until you reach your last pill of the month, then you have a period again and pick back up on the next months pack. that way you can decide when you want to start your periods each month and it will always be the same
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me and this guy kinda have a thing and he wants to have sex but i dont know if im ready yet...im sixteen and he is eighteen and he has had sex multiple times and im scared he might have an STD or something. he has asked me if im still a virgin and i said no because i didnt want him to think i wasnt cool or anything. was it a bad thing that i lied to him about that? and should i tell him the truth? im also scared because this will be my first time and i dont know how it feels, i dont wanna bleed because i think that would be embarassing, and i dont wanna scream because if it hurts too much! and some of my friends say save sex till marriage because you can never get your viginity back..what should i do? (link)
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First of all, no shame in being a virgin and definitely no shame in wanting to wait until you're ready, nobody should force you and if this boy respects you he'll wait. Most people actually find it admirable to be a virgin. I do understand why you lied however, as I was a virgin at 16 and a large emphasis was placed on sex back then, once I became 18 everyone had large respect for me for keeping innocent for so long, so don't worry yourself about that.
Also, as far as saving sex till marriage, it's your choice, some people would rather loose their virginity to their husbands as a sort of show of trust I suppose, some people would rather be married and be able to please their husbands from the start, admittedly, it is increasingly more difficult to save yourself until marriage, so do what you feel is right there.
Onto the boyfriend issue, STD wise, you have every right to refuse until he is checked (be cautious that he may be lying to get into your pants though) and I do recommend you tell him the truth, more so if you decide to have sex with him solely on the grounds that usually men have to be much more gentle than usual when they are with virgins, and if he doesn't know, it could be very painful for you.
As for the feeling, I personally found it very painful, but I didn't bleed, and since I was with someone who cared they went slow so it never made me scream or anything. Every girl is different however, I've had friends who screamed and I've had friends who bled a lot, I think its a combination of the pace you move and what kind of person you are. Just remember to have a lot of foreplay before you begin (kissing, touching etc.) and don't be afraid to ask him to stop at any point if it becomes to painful, just apologise and tell him that you can't do it yet, he may be somewhat annoyed, but if he loves you he should be fine, and if he doesn't then you don't need him anyway :)
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I'm 16 and female. I am super tight. I havent ever truely been fingered. I have had plenty of guys play with me but never really finger me. I want to have sex but I am nervous becaus I can't even get a tampon in and i do it properly. I relax and push the applicater all the way in and then it just pushes itself back out. I have have guys try and finger me but they have only gotten in 2 centimeters before it got extreamly painful and anymore than that I start crying. Any tips on what ius wrong with my bodyy if its my body and what can I do to loosen up??? (link)
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I know how you feel, I was really tight too and it's one of the most painful things ever. All I can say is to be with a guy you know is going to be loving and patient who'll take things slowly, like using one finger first and when that doesn't hurt use 2 and it should eventually get better though it'll take a bit of time so that's where having someone whose patient and will understand and go slow is important.
Other than that, just try yourself, and do the same thing I said use one finger and see if it still hurts afterall, your the one whose going to be more likely to stop if it hurts :) good luck and remember to be careful and use protection!
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I'm 13 and my names Gracie. I'm not having sex and I don't plan on doing it anytime soon so dnt worry. I'm just curious (link)
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Sex for the first time hurts usually, how much would depend on the person and how "tight" you are, it was really painful for me but just a pinching sensation for my friends. To be totally honest, your first time you may not enjoy, its not until the third or fourth time that you can really get into it, and then it feels great and is a special bonding between you and the person you love. Just remember, be safe not sorry! :) condoms and the pill are the best combination so make sure you are safe.
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Um so well I had a dream 5 nights ago and it was about me having sex with a girl who lives next door to my grandmother. But my problem is she's 8 and I'm 13 and I want her so bad but I think it might be rapist so should I have sex with her or not and if so what can I do to make it happen because she likes me to (no rapist jokes)
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You may like each other and you may think "im old enough!" because after all, consent on both parties makes it fine right? well no, no it doesn't, fact is when your young you copy people who you look upto, if your brother/sister are having sexual relationships you will probably think you can too.
Unfortunately, the legal age is 16 in England and (I believe) 18 in America and other than the series of legal cases and controversy that would follow is the fact that at 13 and 8 neither of you have developed, it can be an extremely painful experience for a girl when she's fully developed so if she's just 8 it will be traumatic. Also, the last thing you two need to worry about at your age is "is she pregnant?" and having to go to a clinic to get yourself checked out.
Wait until you're really ready or you will regret it.
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