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Q: So ive been taking birthcontrol since thursaday..
saturday i didnt take it..
this morning me and my husband had sex. and the condom broke.. we're not sure if his sperm went inside..
can i still get pregnant even though ive been on birth control for a couple of days? :[
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It is very possible to become pregnant at this time in the game. Birth control doesnt really kick in until about the first cycle, meaning about a month of bith control.
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Q: How old were you when you lost your virginity?
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I was 17...
If you are looking for an appropriate age to have sex, there isn't one. Do it when you're ready and with someone who you think deserves to be the one you give it up to. Also for next time, It would be advisable to leave a little more information on your part like age and sex.
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Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while, and we've had oral a lot, but when it comes to full on sex, it just wont go in. =| i dont know why! im pretty sure im too tight, but what should i do, we have condoms and everything, but it just wont go in.. i donno, maybe we arent trying hard enough, but we are usually just in the mood, and really want to, but it wont work?! (yes i realize this is pretty embrassing, but i really dont care, i dont get awkward, or embrassed)
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Many people are embaressed. Sex is a natural part of life and it is good that you accept that. As for your problem, there are a few things that you could do. One, you could try masturbating by yourself and maybe even with toys to gradually stretch yurself out. Two, you could have him perform oral on you before intercourse to relax your muscles and loosen you up, or three, you're not relaxig enough, you may be stressing the thought of him actually getting into you so much that your muscles are conciously not letting go.
Hope I helped
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Q: Ok, Im a sixteen year old male.
Me and my girl friend decided it would be romantic to lose our virginity on valentines day- I don't want any lectures about underage sex and what not. We did use a condom.
But she has been complaining about her chest and lower stomach hurting...I'm not wanting to think about it but could she be pregnant? There wasn't a break in the condom so I have no idea...
But I really hope not, I'm not saying that to be mean...But my parents told me if this happened I would be kicked out of my house...HELP.
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First I want to say congrats, sex is a big step and it sounds like you guys too enough precaution. I can almost assure you that she ISN'T pregnant. Those pains can just be from the sex alone or she might even be sore for other reasons, like maybe she is premenstral. Give it a few more weeks before you worry about anything.
As for you using a condom, that is good, always wear one! I can tell you truthfully that it does feel even more incredible without one, sometimes its not worth it! And condoms dont always work, even if they dont break, there are so many ways they could be defective. If the hought of your girlfriend getting pregnant at such a young age scares you, to be more precautious, I would reccomend using a spermicidal condom (if thats what you used then good for you). Spermicidal condoms are already lubricated (Trojan) and they are scientifically proven to reduce the number of active sperm if any sperm was to get around the condom or the condom broke. As for you parents, don't worry, they told my sister the same thing and then they begged her to come back, that's what the majority of parents do because they don't want their young children to have to grow up so fast and lose their time to live for themselves.
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Q: So when you shave down there, it's never entirely smooth right? because you shave with the hair so you don't get razor burn? So there's always a little stubble? lol
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yes, but if you want it to be nice and smooth use extra shaving cream(or conditioner does the same) and a good way to lessen razor burn is to use rubbing alcohol. At the end of your shower, gently rub the alcohol where ever you shaved, IT WILL STING, so keep a cold rag in your other hand just in case, for some the sting is bearable for others it isn't. After you towel off make sure you lotion well and the next day or even the same day, just put a little more on when you use the bathroom, it wont sting as much then. It lessens the razor burn about 75% of the time. I highly recommend it and it doesn't matter if you shave against or with the hair. Hope I was some help.
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Gender: Female Location: Long Island, New York Age: 17 Member Since: February 3, 2009 Answers: 33 Last Update: November 17, 2009 Visitors: 3756
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