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heyy im very anxious about having sex 4 the first time!!all my friends told me it hurts like hell.is it true????? im really really scared

sorry but it hurts like hell. i had tears in my eyes the first time.

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okay.i know this is gonna sound really bad,and keep mind i usually dont do anything like this.but this guy basically got me drunk and took advantage.i didnt want to but was 5oo drink to really say or do anything.it was my first time,and i already asked questions cause i was hoping i was too tight for him to get it in all the way,my hyen didnt break or hurt or bleed or anything.so if this is true,could i still be considered a virgin?
also,if it didnt go in all the way and he wore a condom,can i still get pregnat?
if so,is ther anyway to tell really early on?

and if true,is there abortion places that you can get it withouot a parent?
please help,all ive been doing is crying and hoping otherwise

alright dude first... put the fucker in jail. People are messed up and most likely he'll do it to another girl too. You're not a virgin but forget about that it wasn't your fault... you can be pregnant just take an at home pregnancy test if you miss your period. going to the doctor would be your best bet and get checked for std's because you don't know if he had anything and you need your parent to get an abortion if you are under 18 but don't worry about that right now, just get to the doctor asap.

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I know there are different ways for a doctor to take a pregnancy test. I also know the most common are blood or urine.

My question is, what is the most efficient test there is? I am going to my gynocologist next week and he will probably give me a test when i tell him that i haven't had my period since last november. So, I have to be prepared to answer as to which kind of test i want. Any information would be useful. Which is more efficient, or which will give quicker results, or the one that doesn't come back quicker, how long does it take to get the results?
Thanks guys.

they probably won't give you a pregnancy test because you would of already had the baby and what not... but if you think you could of been and had a mis carriage early on they might do an ultra sound and either way they will know pretty much right away

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hi im 15 f,

ok well i like watching people having sex like n theintenet n stuff and rent porn movies with people well doinit does that mean im bi or gay? and if im not what am i?


plzzzzz help.

curiosity : )
me and my friends will do it sometimes for fun or just to watch it. it doesn't mean anything i'm a girl and i definitely like boys, but i'll kiss my girl friends and do whatever. it doesn't mean anything

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how do you make out/french kiss?

okay this is kind of hard to explain but just kiss the guy and kind of kiss him a couple times and then slowly open your mouth and put your tongue in his mouth and massage his tongue with yours but don't suffocate him just lightly do it once you do it you'll get the hang of it, you just have to experience it to learn

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is there a term for a guy sucking on a girls chest???

not that i know of. no one i know of calls it anything special.

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what are the sex positions?

go to cosmopolitan.com it talks all about sex and good positions one of my fav. sites.

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ok, is it possible to have vaginal sex without your hymen being broken, like letting him go in but not all the way? can you still get pregnant if your hymen is intact? i know you can still orgasm, but what about the guy, will he be satisfied?

YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNANT
if you're going to have sex my advice is to use a condom always and just do it all the way because it feels better and the guy will like it better and either way you can get pregnant. if you haven't had sex yet for warning it does not feel good the first time for most girls because there's something going inside of you that is much larger than anything that has ever been there.

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i want to give my boyfriend reallly good oral sex. does anyone have any tips or tecneiqcs? answers asap!!

thank you =]

never use your teeth and grab the shaft you don't need to stick the whole thing in your mouth and then just kinda change things up sometimes suck hard sometimes soft use your tongue and never make it seem like it's something you just have to do otherwise they won't enjoy it as much they'll think you don't like it

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