i'm dan. i'm 20. i'm from cherry hill (south nj, near philly). i'm a junior at william paterson university (north nj, near nyc) majoring in english. i want to be a music critic or at least a music-centered journalist, or snag a record deal...whichever one comes up first. i'm the president/editor of the school's literary journal and english club. i'm in love with a beautiful woman named Korey who I've been with for 2 and a half years. i just put out my first record. i'm an outspoken fat admirer and size acceptance advocate. i am living proof that a high school experience involving depression, abuse from classmates, failing grades, attempting suicide, hospitalization, and generally the shit stacked against me can all be overcome in college. i am happier than i've ever been in my whole life. feel free to ask me anything, but be warned: you're gonna hear the horrible truth. i specialize in sex and music questions. my blind spots are sports and cars.
Website: dan ex machina
Gender: Male
Location: NJ
Occupation: rocker
Age: 20
AIM: danexmachina
Member Since: July 9, 2005
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Hey there.. I rate fives no matter the answer..
so yeah dont laugh but i am a slut. I know i am.. i sleep with anyone with a penis and now i'm pregnant for the 2nd time but im not going to have an abortion and i cant tell anyone becuase i live on my own on a street corner.. so yeah i dont have enough money for like a DNA test to see who the father is.. but i really want help or a place where i can go to help me and the new baby.. Babysafehaven isnt working for me. I've already tried.. thanks a bunch!
love,
worried mom (link)
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try planned parenthood. why isn't baby safe haven "working"? also, if you're going to continue "sleeping with anyone with a penis", as least have more respect for your body and the man's and use a condom. it's only some pocket change to get one. stop taking unhealthy risks with your body.
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Ok, i am a 17/f, and VERY innocent, lol, i've never had sex, but i masturbate, and why is there white and clear discharge "inside" of us? Thanks, I rate Very High! (link)
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it's just vaginal discharge..the fluid that makes the vagina moist when stimulated. it's totally normal.
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does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help (link)
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if your hymen (your cherry) has not been broken yet, it will likely hurt a little more your first time. i've been told that it hurts a little, but it's easy to get used to, even during that first time once you ease yourself into it. i'd recommend the girl on top position and so you can control the speed and make yourself as comfortable as possible, plus that position provides the most stimulation for females, so even if it hurts, you won't be getting cheated your first time, unlike the guy on top position, which often does not stimulate the clit.
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well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?
no dumbass answers please
ill rate 5s if you give good answers (link)
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"honey, can we talk about something personal?"
even if you're both virgins, it only helps you trust each other to take an std test and be on the safe side. always, always, always use protection. condoms are fine, i've never had a trojan or lifestyles condom break. durex isn't as good. buy the lubricated kind with spermicide. i'd say use condoms for the time being but when you get more experienced, save up some cash and go to planned parenthood for birth control patches. they work great for me and my girlfriend, and you change them every couple weeks. only you will know when you're ready but remember this, if you start having sex, and you don't feel right, do not force yourself to continue. only do it when everything feels right and protection is in place.
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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me (link)
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do not be embarassed to tell your principal, guidance counselor, your parents, or an older sibling to have the situation handled immediately. because that is sexual harassment, and you have the right not to put up with it.
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what is STD? i have seen people write about it on here and i don't know what it is is it short for aids? or something? (link)
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std is short for sexually transmitted disease, which can include aids, but also herpes, gonorrhea, genital warts, and other unpleasant things you can get if you don't use a condom or other protection.
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