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Hello Everyone!! I'm Ashley and I am an 18 year old Senior. I'd be more then happy to answer ANYTHING and EVERYTHING! Giving advice is what I do best, so if your looking for someone to help you out I'm your go-to girl!! : ) I'm planning on going to Ohio University next year to study child psychology and I think this is a great start to my future career!ANYWAYS... enough about me!! Ask away and im more then happy to answer your questions, and by the way i NEVER reject a question! If you can take the time to write to me then i promise i will take the time to give you my best answer!
Oh and I would REALLY appreciate your feedback... whether good or even bad, I really like to know how i'm doing, so I can help better. I've had a lack of feedback lately so if you could help me out for helping you out, I would LOVE it!! 1 or a 5, just be truthful! Thanks so much!!!! And Goodluck!
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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?
Wow, well first of all you need to get this loser out of your life. He obviously is someone who does not deserve the right to be involved in your life, or your childs regardless if he is the father or not. If he is willing to put your baby's life in danger and put you in harm, then he needs to be dealt with ASAP. You need to tell someone about this as soon as you can because he has the potential to be even more dangerous. I can't say for sure, but I don't think that he killed your baby. But you definitly should go and get checked out to make sure everything is okay. I highly advise that you stay away from him at all costs. Tell your parents or another adult that you trust about this. I'm really sorry that you have to experience these types of violent acts from someone who is suppose to be supportive of you and caring... no one deserves to be abused, especially and innocent child that obviously has no way of defending itself. The best way to assure your baby's health is to keep away from him. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you can get help hun!
Ok, all my friends are using diffrent words refuring to sex. Such a, boner, oral sex, and giving head... i no this is an acword topic :/ but please help me! Thanks
Okay, well i will try to help you out here!! A boner is when a male gets an erection, which you may know what it is, if not then um it's pretty much when a guys penis gets hard when he gets turned on which could be caused by lots of things. Like seeing a naked girl and things such as that. Oral sex can be done to either a guy or a girl... Which is the same thing as giving head or eating a girl out. It's pleasuring your partner using your mouth (hense ORAL) Um this would be sucking on a guys penis, or a guy "eating out" a girls vagina. Not too get too gross but licking it and such.... So i hope i could help you out hun!!! I tried my best! lol
thank you so much for the advice you gave me on losing my virginity you really made me feel better about it, i know its different for everyone but how bad would you say it hurt? i know akward question lol
Well yes your right it is different for everyone, and i guess this will help you out a little bit. IT all kind of depends on, for lack of a better phrase, how "loose" you are. If your boyfriend and you have messed around a lot then it might not hurt that bad. But if you really haven't done much with guys then it is more likely to hurt more then someone who has. Another factor could be how big your boyfriend is! And honestly, my first time i couldn't even go all the way through with it becuase it hurt a lot. But once they get it in for the first time, and you kind of get started and get goin then you should be okay... at least until the next day when you will probably be soar!! Lol, it's nothing thats a big deal, you just might walk like you've got a stick up your ass haha. No but seriously, it's gonna hurt but I doubt if it is anythign that will make you cry or anything that will cause you a lot of pain or discomfort. And if it does hurt to much just tell him you might have to go in stages. Maybe just have him SLOWLY stick it in, and if it feels alright then go on with it but if it hurts too bad have him stop and then maybe the next time you can go a little farther until you are comfortable enough with it to go all the way!! Hope i could help hun!
hey last week my boyfreind fingered me and I gave him a handjob. What base it that gong to?thanks!
Well well, i know this may sound weird but depending on certain circumstances, your friends, where you live, ect... i guess the bases aren't exactly the same everywhere you go!! Different people have different interpretations of them! But according to my book i'd say thats 2nd base! (1st would be like making out, him feeling you up, 3rd would be oral sex, and home... well we all know what a homer would be! lol) So yeah thats my best answer for ya!! Hope i could be of help!!!
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 5 months now but we have been involved i guess you could say for like 2 years....weve always been really close. now on valentines day we decided we were ready to lose our virginity to each other and i was just wondering if there was any advice you could give me...if you dont wanna answer this i understand i just liked your advice you gave
Well i would love to answer your question! However i'm not 100% sure what kind of advice you would like so i will give it a shot and if it isn't answering you question right then just ask me again a little more specifically and i will give you a better answer!! : ) First of all make sure that both of you are totally positive that this is what you want, and that you are ready for sex because it truely is a big deal. I lost my virginity when i was 16 years old to a guy that wasn't the right one for me. I kinda felt pressured into it and now i totally regret it. Your virginity is something really special and you can only give it away once and then you can never take it back. So think about the long run and make sure this is what you really want! Something i suggest to make sure its romantic, make it be something that you can look back on and be like wow, the first time that i was really intimate was magical. Trust me, that is something that is important! Talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him that you want it to be special. Also, make sure that he wears protection! The last thing you want is a baby, and something else that you may not know is that there are lots of places that you can go and get birth control with out your parents and free of charge. Do some research into this because birthcontrol is also something thats important when you are planning on being sexually active. If your not sure how to find a palce like this you can e-mail me your city and state andi will try to look into it for you! (crazyblonde0514@yahoo.com) You might want to also try to wear something sexy for your boyfriend to spice up the mood a little ; ) Something simple like a lacy red bra and matching underwear is easy and attractive!! And another thing is it's probably not going to feel so great, so make sure to let your boyfriend know to go slow... reallllly slow lol. And if it is hurting don't be afraid to let your boyfriend know! So I'm not sure but i tried to cover everythign i could think of about losing your virginity!! Lol, i hope i could help... if i didn't answer what you were looking for then just let me know and i'll be more then happy to give you a better response!! Have fun and be safe!!
What does it feel like having sex.. And how do you "eat a girl out" im 15 and im wondering.. thanks
Ummm to be honest it's kind of difficult to explain what sex feels like... other then that, for the most part, it feels good! lol. It really is different with each person so you can't necessarly describe it. I've had a time where it has felt awesome, but i've also had time where it has sucked. It's all depending on the environment, your mood, your partners mood, how comfortable you are with that person, and all different types of variables like that. And when it comes to eating a girl out, i've never really done it so its kind of hard to tell you how to! I wishi could help you out a little more but these questions all depend on the type of girl you are with! Different girls like different things. You pretty much just do what will satisfy your partner, so if you have a girlfriend and want to experiment don't be shy to ask her what she likes or ask her to help guide you. Relationships are all about communication and belive me, she won't think any less of you for asking... when you're done she'll probably thank you!!!
im almost 17 and my penis is quite small im worried what my girlfriend will think about it
will it matter that much?
Hey! sorry it took so long to answer your question i've been sick with the flu! But anyhow, there is nothing to worry about. Honestly i have dated guys with not so large penises and it really didn't matter to me because I liked them and thats all that counts. If she was to make a deal about it then she isn't a girl that is worth dating. Anygirl who likes you for who you are isn't going to freak out and be upset about your penis size. Trust me, most girls really could care less weather or not your penis is 7 in or 2! I know it may sound like a stretch but i promise, she won't mind!
my boyfriend wants to finger and i was wondering does it hurt ? do you bleed? and do u use two fingers or one? it seems like it would hurt if you used two ? and what should i do about "shaving" down there i don't want to get embarrased but eerytime i shave down there its all stubbly and it get rashy and i get razor bumps! HELP PLEASE!
Hey sweetheart! First and foremost make sure that you are totally okay with your boyfriend fingering you, don't let him pressure you into anything! Second of all yes it may hurt a little, but only because its your first time. But make sure he is aware of this and that he knows to be gentle and it may be more pleasuring then painful if done right! It is possible that some bleeding could occur, but in most cases this shouldn't happen. He could use one finger, two or more, but since its your first time its more likely he will start off with one and work up to two or more fingers as you feel comfortable. If at anytime you think its too much make sure to let him know to stop. As for shaving I reccomend doing it while in a bath and soaking yourself in some warm water for about 5-10 min before you start shaving. Use a clean razor and try going in a downward motion to prevent razor burn. I hope i could help you!