thank you so much for the advice you gave me on losing my virginity you really made me feel better about it, i know its different for everyone but how bad would you say it hurt? i know akward question lol
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? crazyblonde0514 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 10:53 pm: Well yes your right it is different for everyone, and i guess this will help you out a little bit. IT all kind of depends on, for lack of a better phrase, how "loose" you are. If your boyfriend and you have messed around a lot then it might not hurt that bad. But if you really haven't done much with guys then it is more likely to hurt more then someone who has. Another factor could be how big your boyfriend is! And honestly, my first time i couldn't even go all the way through with it becuase it hurt a lot. But once they get it in for the first time, and you kind of get started and get goin then you should be okay... at least until the next day when you will probably be soar!! Lol, it's nothing thats a big deal, you just might walk like you've got a stick up your ass haha. No but seriously, it's gonna hurt but I doubt if it is anythign that will make you cry or anything that will cause you a lot of pain or discomfort. And if it does hurt to much just tell him you might have to go in stages. Maybe just have him SLOWLY stick it in, and if it feels alright then go on with it but if it hurts too bad have him stop and then maybe the next time you can go a little farther until you are comfortable enough with it to go all the way!! Hope i could help hun! [ crazyblonde0514's advice column | Ask crazyblonde0514 A Question ]
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