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Holla, My name is Heather
I am 15 and in 9th grade and i go to school at Ferndale High School. I love to talk on the phone and comp, hang out with friends and of course give advice. I am a cheerleader, takes dance at school, volleyball player. I am single and looking right now. If u wanna know some thing u can im me on aim or msn or yahoo or email me.
E-mail: troubleinventor@hotmail.com
Location: j-town
Occupation: student at Ferndale Area Jr/Sr high school
Age: 15
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Yahoo: mommyslittlebaby
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Member Since: October 20, 2004
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Last Update: December 11, 2004
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socalblondie0202
im 16 and my girlfriend and i are thinking about having sex but ive held back a bit my worry is my penis is not real big and im not sure what she'll think should i worry and does it matter to girls? (link)
don't sweat it it will be ok and if she really liked u than it don't matter of how big ur penis is so just be kool with it..


i hope you can help because everythings really weird and i cant figure out what to do. ok there's this guy and i met him about to years ago over the summer. we went out for about a year all together (it was an off and on relationship & he had other girls and i dated other guys) but i cant shake the fact that im in love with this kid... even though its been about 3 months since the last break-up and hes had 3 other girls. i like too other guys and the both like me. ones older ones my age (im 15 - if it helps any) the older one i like more ... alot more and hes always there but he wants sex. the one my age we hang out and always have fun but im not quite sure if hes on the same page as me... please help!! soon
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well u got to talk to him about how u fell and if u are a vigin than tell him that u wanna stay that way orwhatever just tell that u want to wait and how ever u feel and if he acts like a dick u didn't need him it seems like u are a beautiful young girl who can date other ppl who will understand



I am no stranger to the behaviour of most guys. Very sexual, like the jokes about sex but I have a slight problem, I don't know how to react. I have a few guys that are bothering me at this time I will explain. Well this boy called karl right he's 17 and i'm 14, well basically he wants sex and he keeps pestering me he tried to touch me up and I don't know what to do. Some boys just fancy me and I can take that. There's this other boy called Steve who's 16 but he thinks i'm going to go out with him and tries to get me to cheat on my boyfriend and his girlfriend which gets me in trouble with his girlfriend. Another boy I don't see but he's really nice, prob is he calls me all these names and keeps asking me out. A little younger boy who's a few months younger than me is asking me to strip i don't know how to answer these there a no but how do I say that assertively? (link)
well if ur not ready to do this like have sex cheat on ur b/f or strip than say no and stick to that no matter what the say to u


i need help FAST how do to get rid of a hickey!?!!?! thankx!! (link)
well u could use some cover up or if that doesn't work than if u have long hair where u hair down a hickey dosn't always go away in 24 hours it is broken bloodvessel under u skin and there really isn't anything u can do what i did one time was use a comb and brushed it out yeah it hurt but it went awya faster i did that every day hopefully this works


Ok i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and all we've done is makeout everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast. and i shave so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do? (link)
maybe he is shy and don't know if u will let him so next time u guys plan on doin this and he starts to go down ur pants tell him that it is alright and u will let him and of thats not the reason ask him y he does it i know that it is a weird ? but tell u were wondering


hi am 17 senior in h.s i was planning on going to college and everything. i was dating a guy who 25 and we broke up 3 weeks ago about one week ago i found out i was 5weeks pregant should i tell him?? how can i tell him?? (link)
well u have to tell him thats the right thing to do and if he doesn;t want part in it than be like ok than but u should tell him and the best way to do it come right out with it the only best choice u got


what happens during a gyno appt.? (link)
well all doctors are different but they mostly do the same thing like u get a paps smear done thats when they check ur vigina for std and other stuff that could be wrong and they ask u questions thats most of all it really depends on what u are there for...


Hi. I have been having this problem with my blatter. I haven't been able to tell weather i have to pee or not. I have recently done some drugs that I beleive could mess up my kidney's but I have also had sex. I am wondering if sex can make you not know if you can pee, and also give you a felling of for example. A day when you havent pee'd for a while and you need to go really bad. That feeling...but when u sit down..nothing comes out. Could that be from sex? Or no. Plz do not delete this. After this question I'll never ask it again! Plz and thank you.
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no it prolly isn't from havin sex takin pills can mess up ur kidneys and other stuff plz email me back to let me know what u took but u should go to the doctors so u can be treated


I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
well.. if thats what u wanna do is have a baby than go for it it don't matter what ppl think as long as u and ur b/f are ready to commit to this idea email me back and tell me how things are..goog luck




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