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Okay so I'll get down to it, and because I ramble, I'm bulletpointing it all.
1.) yesterday my boyfriend and I had sex. He wore a condom, it didnt split from what I know, but after about an hour he fingered me. I am due on my period today; it hasn't come yet and I'm not too worried, but I was wondering if there could be some risk I'm pregnant? I believe the chances small but I feel the question has to be asked.
2.) I've been really itchy 'down there' for about 2 and a half days there. It's not an STD, my boyfriend, having had a girlfriend before me only when he was 12 and them splitting up due to the fact they couldn't even bring themselves to kiss, was a virgin when we first got involved sexually and he definitely didn't inherit anything from his parents. I know that for sure. I've heard of UTI's and yeast infections though and have worried about this. It is extremely itchy down there but it doesn't hurt, it just feels irritated but at times it feels fine. I'm not sure if the discharge is any worse or yellower than usual because it's always pretty much the same but it has been sticky and yellow recently, although this is reasonably normal for me. It doesn't burn or anything when I go to the loo. Could it be some kind of allergy or does it sounds like either of the above? The two days its been like that I was wearing sanitary towels because I was expecting my period, but I've never had a reaction like this although my twin sister says she has.
What do you think it is?
3.) If it is anything like that what should I do? I know the doctors seems obvious but can you get any meds for these things without a prescription? my mother knows I am sexually active but my father would probably disown me if he found out - my mum is very laid back about this stuff. Problem is, she's not here to tell for 2 weeks and its damn itchy, I don't really want to wait that long. If I were to ring up, what would I say on the phone?! Would I ask to see a gynocologist or someone else?
Geeze. Thank you :) (link)
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If it doesn't smell there's probably nothing wrong. You can get creams to help the itching at your local drug store, and if it's still bothering you when your mom gets back you can go to the doctors.
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How old do you have to be to get the pill from there? I heard you have to be 16. I live in Utah, if that makes any difference.
Thanks :] (link)
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I was 15. My friend that went and got some was 14. I think you have to be 13.
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My girlfriend keeps tellin me that she cant have sex with me because she is on her periods ,is she right or is it just a trick girls use as an excuse not to have sex (link)
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Well... technically she can, but unless you want bloody, messy, gross sex, I wouldn't go for it. My boyfriend and I always skip sex when I'm on my period. All that blood just isn't attractive.
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my boyfriend of 2 years and i recently just started having sex. we bought condoms, and he still pulls out before he comes to be extra careful. however, i'm still paranoid. i want to go on birth control but i DO NOT want to tell my mom. she would freak out and probably forbid me from seeing my boyfriend. (my whole family has waited until marriage) so i was wondering how i could get birth control without actually going through my mom who would in turn go through my doctor. also, are there any other options besides the actual pill? i've been told it costs about $35 dollars through planned parenthood .. thanks! (link)
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I got birth control from planned parenthood and it was free. it's free as long as you're still a student i think.
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Okay..I seem to quiff every time I have sex. Afterwards, I mean. It's really embarrassing even though no one comments about it. But is there any way to prevent it? Someone told me doggy style increases quiffing but then I don't know.
It's not that I do it once afterwards.. it's like 4 or 5 times.. and I'm pretty sure my boyfriend thinks I'm passing gas freely .. I don't even know if he knows what a quiff is! (link)
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Yeah, this used to be a problem for me too, but like the second time it happened, i made a funny remark to my boyfriend, "ha, look what you did" "what??" "you made me queef" "what's a queef?" "all the air that's pushed into my vagina as you're pumping in has to come out somehowwww" "ohhhh ahah"
and now we laugh every time it happens. it's not something embarrassing anymore, it's something that's expected. maybe try that with your boyfriend.
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So me and my friend made like a dildo or whatever, and we put a condom over it and used lube. As we were penetrating the dildo in our vagina, it would like STOP going in... it was like a wall htat was stoping the dildo from going in.. and when u would hit the wall, it was like really bad cramps. What is this wall??
its like 3-4 inchs in me....
THANKS (link)
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Even though the people before you said hymen, it's definately NOT that far into your vagina. It could either be you hitting your vaginal wall or the cervix at the end of the vagina.
Also, one person said making a dildo was dangerous and i'd agreee, but because you guys are putting a condom over it, i really don't see a problem. Just make sure it doesn't break.
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My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for a year. The problem is I'm petite and he's well-endowed. We've tried several different things to try to ease the discomfort of sex for me. It's only a problem for a few days then my body seems to get used to it, but if I don't have sex for more than 2 days the problem comes back. I'm just trying to find a new possible way of making sex more comfortable after a break in time.
We've used lubricated condoms, KY jelly, different positions, and lots and LOTS of foreplay. Nothing really seems to make it any easier until I've had sex a few times. I've bled and I sometimes have pain urinating, but that's usually only if the sex got a little rougher than usual so I figure that's just due to that. We have both been tested for STD's and we both came back clean. I've had sex with 4 other guys and it's never been this big of an issue. I've measured my boyfriend's penis at 8 1/2 inches.
I'm just hoping someone has an idea that I haven't thought of. Thanks. (link)
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on the days you wait, you may want to masturbate with a larger dildo. it will keep you stretched out. Other than that, i can't think of anything that might help besides the things you've already tried.
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15/f - 15/m
sorry in advance if this is a tad long...
Tonight my boyfriend and I has sex for the first time. I DO NOT regret it all, I really do love him no matter what anyone else.. you can't tell me how I feel about it. I understand alot of people are against intercourse at young ages, but please don't lecture me.. just help.
The Problem: We both had never has sex before this. We were comfortable with it, but still nervous at the same time. First time gitters I guess. Anyways, as he began to cum, he started to pull out. As he pulled out the comdon slipped off. Still half way in and half way out... as soon as we noticed, I pulled the condom out. We stopped and didnt continue at all. We are both scared. We are not sure, if anything accidently fell in or what. I think we are over thinking the negatives, and not focous on some of the positives. Anything that can help us. We CANT tell our parents, they would kill us.. and we are both the oldest so no older sibling to run to... If it helps anything, I just got off my peirod last week around Thursday. We need people who know what they are talking about. We're scared
I guess one the worst things that could have happened did.. Things go wrong, and I guess it just wanst our day.
Please anything..
Thanks so much !! (link)
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same exact thing happened to my friend about two weeks ago. They went to plan parenthood together and got a morning after pill (it works for about 72 hours after you guys had sex.) Plan parenthood gave them it for free as well as a 6 month supply of birth control and about 20 condoms :]
they have a lot of locations in almost every city. go to their website http://www.plannedparenthood.org/ and look up their location. They also have information on the pill and everything. It'll say that you have to pay, but my friend didn't so i'm assuming you don't have to if you're under 18.
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14/f
i have done everything sexually except for intercourse and well anal but thats just gross.
Now i dont wanna hear all the stuff about oh your too young. because what you say will not effect me.
i have had the same boyfriend for a good amount of time. i havent done anything sexual with anyone but him. now i would like to know if a doctor can tell that ive gotten oral, fingered, givin head, and all that stuff? because if they can im screwed. lol
answers please (link)
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I know doctors can tell if you've had sex from your pap-smear, but I'm pretty sure this doesn't apply to everything else. Hymens can break from riding a bicycle and stuff like that, so you should be fine :]
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So me and my boyfriend were going at it the other day in his favorite position. I was sitting on his face kind of and he was licking me out and i orgasimed and from the excitment i sort of got a little rough, slammed down on his mouth, and got a small cut just below my clit. Is this bad? It doesn't hurt at all today (1 day removed) Is there anything i should do to take care of it? Can me and my boyfriend still fool around without hurting it anymore? (link)
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Naw, your ok. As long as your careful and are sure not to hurt it more. If it starts to look infected or anything though you should et it checked out.
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Are your chances lower of geting pregreant after your period? (link)
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yes...because the egg hasnt been released yet...it takes at least 3 days for the egg to travel down the fallopean (sp?) tube...and that is the only time you can become pregnant
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so if i'm fooling around with a girl in my hot tub and we're NOT having sex, but like she gets me off with her hand or orally, can she get pregnant from the sperm floating around in the water? the jets are pretty powerful and could possibly float it into her. how likely is it and *sigh* do i HAVE to wear a condom? thanks.. (link)
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it wont get her pregnant...the sperm cant survive in the heat of the hot tub
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