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describe myself hmmm well im a wild out going girlie!
im from england, i've been through a hell of alot with parents... counsellors... social workers... sex...pregnancy... relationships.. long distance love... all that so you can ask me almost anything!
my friends say im good at advice but i dno lol i do try my hardest if i dont know what to say or the best option i dont say it saving people getting annoyed with me lol hehe!
drop messages in my inbox im more likely to answer then on the site :) xXx
E-mail: sarahlouise_hall1@yahoo.co.uk
Gender: Female
Location: Englands
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Age: 17
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To be blunt, I have a ton of hair down there that goes all the way up to my anus. is it supposed to go that far back? is there anything i can do to get rid of it? f-16 (link)
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dont use nair. it can leave u with a rash after you have used it, my friend did it and she was in pain and its itchy too! x
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ok this prolly sounds weird but wen me and my b/f are 2gether we get each other in themodd and then we start having sex then i always stop him in like 5 min and feel gulty and start cryin, i prolly sound very stupid but y am i doing this? (link)
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heya!
maybe when your in the mood you think your ready but really inside your head you dont want to be doing it.
if its happened more then once then maybe you have to think deeper about it,
the first time might of been a one off but then when it happened a second time didn't your boy friend stop and say do u think u really want this. maybe talk about it before he gets you in the mood for it because when people get horney sometimes your feelings for something take control. maybe on the phone talk to him and just explain to him how you feel when you start to cry because of it.
xXx
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um. my boyfriend was fingering me the other day and he ripped.. i think it's called a urethra.. that thing above to vagina... it's been bleeding for a few days now and i have no clue on what to do.. and i don't know if this is a bad thing or a good thing. pleaseee help lol.. (link)
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my boy friend did that to me. no it aint nice mine bled for about 2-3 days. hurts when you piss lol it will heal i promise you that if there's alot of blood or if it bleeds more then 5-6 days i would go to the doctor cause you may have to wait for an appointment anyways! good luck hun **hugs**
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hey guys, alright one question.
i last had my period october 30th, and right now i have my period. at least i think i do. i'm not sure if its my period... or if it's cause i "had my cherry popped" or something. do you bleed alot when that happens? cause i think i have my period. but i'm really honestly not sure.
answer, please?
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how old are u? its not uncommon when u havent had periods for like more then a year to have periods that are a bit random i know i have had that before, one of my friends had a period then had another one 3 days later another had a period for 3 weeks but she skipped a month so it could of been that or it could be because of ur "cherry" been popped and that is common i know some people bleed for a few days after and thats perfectly normal the first time, hope it goes well if it bleeds for any more then 8-9 days i would go to the doctors and no need to be embarressed about it, i've been for something like that before :)
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i had a question. besides the risk of stds and pregnancy why are adults so against teen sex? like parents make a huge deal out of it and i dont see why if you use male/ female condoms and are on birth control. i mean there is always still of risk of those things but they arent the end of the world. (link)
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i know what you mean my mum i go to her what would you do if you found out i was having sex at 16 like the legal age and she was like i would go crazy and i was like why :S she just said cause and i was like but your allowed then and she go just because its legal dont mean you do it though, and she goes i know for a fact u aint ready but how she know if i am or not. it's your choice and only yourself knows if your ready right? but i thought about it and i dont think like parents trust teens that they're going to use a condom right like you know they always say teens do it rough well maybe they think it going to split your going to get something and i also think maybe they want us to be like keeping it special and once we done it once, they dont want us going round not caring about it no more
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i have had thought of suicide in my mind about 6 times now. i have attempted it, but i dont think i have really tried hard enough to kill myself. do you think i would be concidered suicidal? (link)
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remember:
Suicide is a permanent solutions
to a temporary problem
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Ok well me and this boy fucked on satday alright its monday and last night i started getting bumps and oucer thingys in my mouth we made out too well i guess you'd no that. But today i was talking to my bestest friend ed and i showed him and it spread all over the inside of my lip well you no right infront of your bottom teeth. He said its herpies. Is it? It was the first time we both had sex and i no hes kissed at least one other girl other then me this week or 2. And if this is herpies how can i get it to go away with out seeing the doctor?
*-*Plz help ill rate 5*-* (link)
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it could be herpes but it could be thrush, i kno you dont want to go to the doctor but its best they can really help and wont ask any many questions. i promise you i went through it last week lol good luck
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My boyfriend really wants to finger me and i just want to know from someone who has gotten fingered before... what should I expect? Thanks. I'll rate anyone with a serious answer. (link)
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well the first time my boy friend fingered me i got a multiple orgasm but ya know i think there a bit rare lol.
if it hurts u have to tell him, if it's your first time u may bleed because that thin piece of skin (dont know the name) breaks. but if you have used a tampon you dont have to worry about that..
thats all i can think of at the mo.
hope i helped!
ooo and relax!!!
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i need as much info as i can get on std testing like what they do to test u how long does it take. do ur parents have to know. say thing any one can tell me
thanx
blundered blonde (link)
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when my friend had it done it was this thing that looked like an eye lash curler that went up the "you know what" it lasted about 30 second it's doesnt hurt at all just a very lil uncomfortable, her parents didnt know but she hasnt had the results back yet thats tomorrow! for tohers there is blood testing!
it didnt cost my friend anything as shes under NHS
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Well heres the thing..
Sex..
im completely ready but im scared that the condom will break and ill end up pregnant!
any advice on the subject??
thanks
i rate 5's (link)
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go slow first time!!!! it's painful!!
it's not likely the condom will break at all,
it's like 98% safe!
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(it's long but it's necessary)
One of my closest friends has really low self-esteem and is often depressed. His mom is no help at all. She's a psycho Christian control freak; the kind of person who desperately needs therapy but goes, "Oh I don't believe in therapy because I have God." My friend's dad was sentenced to jail for rape when he was young, so his mom won't let him near girls (and I'm a girl=FRUSTATION), even though he has a girlfriend. She put him on anti-depressents which screw him up even worse. He was on one and now he's on another instead, neither of them work, they make him suicidal. He hates himself with a passion and nothing I or anyone else say makes a difference. He thinks he's worthless and that he's going to become a bum. He thinks very short term, he says he doesn't care about anything (which is so not not true), and he pouts all the time. I want to help him but I don't know how - HELP!
(P.S. I'm 14 and he's gonna turn 16 soon) (link)
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go to your doctor on your own and ask about him say his problems and everything what u just said above! see what the doctor says they have councilors and stuff there, if they want him to go along try and take him along if you can and see if they can help him out! good luck hun xXx
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my friend has been 2 months late on her period.. she took a pregnancy test and claims shes not pregnant. she said that if there are 2 lines, it means shes pregnant..well i saw 2 lines, one was darker than the other and when i said i saw 2 lines she threw the pregnancy test back in the box. shes been awfully moody lately and has been telling her parents she has gotten her period for the past 2 months. she hasnt been acting the same..im really worried. what do you think? (link)
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2 lines!! thats a faint possative and a faint possative is a possative!!! shes pregnant!! i would go to the doctor to make sure but from what i know shes pregnant!!
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hi, im 16/m and me and my gf have been talking about having sex for a really long time but i want to make it special for her. does anyone know any good positions or things i can do to make her feel good or turn her on? i rate high if theres a good answer!! thanks (link)
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remember if it's the first time it hurts and do what is comfortable for her!
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When i was seven years old my mom [lets call her tina] and her friend [lets call her jenn]went away and i was left with *jenns daughter shauna at *jenns sisters house [lets call her jamie] well *jamie has a son john who was 14 at the time. Shauna was asleep and john had his friend jeff over, also 15. john made me do it with him and go to third with him and he said if i didnt then he would kill me.. is this rape? i am asking this years later because it still bothers me=/ (link)
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YES!!! it is u were forced into something u didn't want to do!!!
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Well hey yall, The other night , well day actually Me and my 'boy' were just Hanging out, right? Well yes i am young, A minor ( too young for kids either way ) .. Well yeah we hadnt seen eachother in forever .. So yeah we hung out n stuff yeahh.. Then we ended up having..sex & I left blah well Later on, His father ( yess.. can you say Ahh? ) he walked in the room saying he smelt sex & Picked one of the.. four condoms up and realized it was broken, This was around 5-8 or so.. on a Tuesday night, so I'm gona get tested to be safe ( i guess, right thing to do right? ) on Tuesday.. night probably like 9. Well, Do yall think its better to have a plan what to do before I find out, and we need to make one ? Lately alls weve gotten at is, "Shit were gona be even more fucked" , Or should we just worry about it later? Also, He is going to be 18 next year, And I will still be a minor, I am NOT bragging at all I just want help, But we both have very wealthy families.. Not sure how this happened, with bright futures, and How to break it to them? His father knows ones broken though, Whats the best thing to do here? (link)
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prepare yourself for the worse! u cant tell over 1 week wait at least 2 or 3 and it's best the first pee of the morning! good luck!
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How long do you wait for a pregnancy test? If its an at home one.. About a week? (link)
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2-3 weeks but sometimes they can be really faint so most people say after you have missed a period! or go to the doctor they can take blood test and tell after about a week i think! good luck hun hope u get the answer u want :D
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