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Q: so.. basically.

im 13. turning 14. and i have been thinking alot about sex, but i dont want to yet.
and i tend to like guys alot older then me.

so.. [3] queations.
1) How old were you?
2) Do you regret it?
3) Did it hurt?
i was 13 when i lost mine. i was not going out with the boy but i thought i was in love, but i wasnt. i now have a wonderful boyfriend of 6 months who i am madly in love with & i wish i would have waited and lost my virginity to my boyfriend. it hurt alittle but no so bad. hope i helped =]

Q: I have thought about having sex with my boyfriend!!! but then it seems like it would hurt really badly!!! so what can I do just to keep it from just being so painful!!!


Plz help me!!!
Signed Helpless!!!
my first time didnt hurt that bad because right before we had sex the guy fingered me so it wouldnt hurt as bad. tell your boy friend to go really slow and it wont hurt that bad. and remember, after like a minute it will feel great =]

Q: hey boys this is ilovepink101..well im in the 8th grade and i need advice from the boys..
ok theres this guy i like his name is garrette..and i told him i liked him a couple of weeks ago..and he just totally started acting alot nicer and flirting..ALOT!!and i always wanted to ask him if he like me..but you know im kinda shy..but im the kinda gurl that i dont care what people think about me and my realationships..but garrett is a whole diffrent story..he cant go outr with girl like me because im not a jock or a prep..and he carse what his friends say about me..and i dont know what to do..so a coulple of days agao i told him ilkied him..and he said i know!i wasnt suprised..but im like do you like me..and hes said no..so heres my question..!!
he always touches me and puts his hands down my shirt and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he just always FLIRTS WITH ME ALWAYS!!and i want to know if this sounds like he liks me..but he said that were just friends with benefits!!but i think he likes me!!and do you think i shouild sit around waiting for him evn though he dont supooslvley"dont like me"????i rate 5's on anyone..i just need help..helllllllllllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette
im not a guy but i just had the same thing happen to me but me and the guy made out a couple of times and we werent even going out and he was rubbing me down there and then he told me he hated me like a couple weeks ago so this guy your talking about might break your heart sorry to say

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hey in 17 im a cosmetolgist and i like to help people =]



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