Hello, i'm Liz Udale! People call me Lu or Lulu because that's my initials (L.U)! I would love to think that i can help you with any worry you have! Don't be afraid to ask me! I won't be embarassed to answer, and i will try to be truthful, but nice at the same time! I'm only really here for advice, not like how does my ipod work or something, because i wouldn't have a clue how to fix it or anything lol :D Also my specialist subjects are just what i'm best at, but i will try to solve any questions! :D
I'm very experienced with sex questions and will always be interested!
Love, Liz xx
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okay so i was just wondering, but can you get pregnant if sperm or seman or what ever is on the loo seat or any were like that ? thanks (link)
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No, the chances are pretty much impossible. The sperm would probably just die off if they were somewhere out of a body like that - they usually need the body heat. x
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can you have sex when you are on your period? (link)
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Yes, you can have sex. It's still important to use contraception though! The only thing about having sex when your on your period is it's a bit messy, but if your ok with that, then its fine! x
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I was married back last June to my wonderful husband. We dated for a couple of years and everything was just like the perfect fairytales you hear about. I know fairytales aren't true though...
My problem is that I have no sexual desire or drive. I don't really care if we have sex or not. I'm fulfilled in all ways without sexual interaction. I don't "get horny" and I've never had ANY desire to even masturbate. We've had sex before but it's not pleasurable for me at all (it isn't painful or anyting either).
My husband is concerned as to why we never have sex. We've been married all of this time and we've had sex just a handful of times (maybe 4 times total). I know that he desires sex and I want him to be fulfilled but it's strange for me.
How do I tell my husband that I don't have sexual feelings? I need to explain to him that the reason I'm never turned-on is because I simply don't GET turned-on by anything at all, ever. He deserves to know why I never desire sex with him, I understand, but I don't know how to tell him this without sounding like a freak. It really isn't him at all, it's me.
We've had a few slight arguments about sex recently because of my disinterest. Since I never think of it, I cannot predict when he might be interested in it. It isn't that I'm not attracted to him either...I think he's a wonderful man inside and out. I just...don't care about sex? I don't want it, really? Should I see a doctor about this because surely it isn't normal, right? Help? (link)
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I think the most important thing is to remember that there are two people in a relationship - he needs to understnad how your feeling just as much as you do him. You could have sex for his sake a bit more often, but also let him know that you don't want to do it all the time. If you haven't really talked to him about it, then you should probably expect a few arguments - to him it could be saying 'You're no good in bed' 'I'm not very attracted to you' or something else that will hurt him. Just talk to him - tell him what you feel like when your having sex, but explain that it's not him personally.
Tell him your willing to try things - you never know, you might find yourself having a really good time, whatever your doing. Just whatever you tell him, make sure you let him know that you really love him.
:) x
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Well, being honest, I am 16 years old/M my girlfriend is 17/Fm. Any who we've have sex twice now both our first times. The first time we had sex she skipped her period for over month, This time shes late, or at least I think she is. Shes getting a "very light period" so she says, I'm curious if she may be pregnant being as though it took so long for her period to start. I'm not really worried at all, but she is, (She was also worried the first time we had sex.) (Yes we use condoms) But anyway she is like I said earlier getting a light period and I think that means shes not pregnant. She also says, its never been this light before? Help me out so I can put her at ease please? :( Its been around 16 days since sex, and her period skips around a lot. (link)
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I'm often late on my period, nothing to do with pregnancy. Ask her if she's on the pill? If she is then the chances of her being pregnant are very very slim (especially as you used condoms). It does sound like she's not though because of her irregular periods, but i wouldn't mind betting your still not pregnant. Ask her if she wants to go on the pill if she's not already? This can also make your periods regular, helps with period pains, and much more - not just contraception. Don't stop using condoms though!
I'm sure everythings fine :) x
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year.
for our 1 year aniversary i want to get him a really sexy gift. like a box of anything for like foreplay or like teasing him and sex and stuff like that....I have a few ideas...but more would be good...any ideas? (link)
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well you could buy some sexy langerie(SP?)(Fancie Pants) and pose for him - perhaps take some pictures and get them proffesionally printed to tease - give him the langerie and tell him you havent washed it - probably best you dont (wash it). Or perhaps you could dress up in a sexy revealing dress (with wite long gloves - not sure why but they usually like that) or something specially for him. Like somebody else said, Coupons or Vouchers (Eg. Chocolate mouse - 1 tub on you(or him) and you'll wear either his pants - or none - for a day etc....) Hope you fun =P
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okay. yesterday, my bf and i kissed for the first time and today i have scrapes on my hands. do i have stigmata? can you get stigmata from kissing other people? also, does this mean i could be pregnant?
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i dont think you have stigmata (im not sure on that one though), but i do know that you r definetley NOT pregnant, you need to have sex with him for that :D
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i had sex about exactly 2 months ago in february.. i was supposed to get my period around march 1st but i ended up getting it a week late.. and that sometimes happens with me .. but so far i havent gotten my period and i was supposed to get it around the 6th of this month because thats when i got it last month.. i still havent gotten my period and im about 2 weeks late. so is there a possibility that im pregnant even though i had my period in between the last time i had sex and now? (link)
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no your not pregnant, but take a test to be sure of it :D If the test says your not (which it most likely will) maybe go and see a doctor about the irregular periods. you can ask for a female doctor if you prefer, but every doctor for that sort of thing deals with it all the time, so you will be fine with whoever you choose to have! If you had your period last month then chances are you most likely not pregnant. also if you bled a little a couple weeks ago, then that may have been all for this month (some times you have them really heavy, other times normall, and others like non atall!)
Hope you solve you problem :D
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i'm not looking for songs about love...just sex..they can be about sex or just have a good beat i don't really care but i don't like r&b very much...rock and alternative rock and punk and stuff are good...i like things with a fast pace and dirty lyrics
k thanks (link)
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Sex Bomb is quite good (by Tom Jones)
Modern (lol)?:
some kinda rush (by booty Luv)
in fact most things by booty luv are what your looking for
Hope you find something you like :D
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alright so i fingered a girl a while back and it was my first time ever doing it haven't done it since and when i was down there i like couldn't get in her? it felt like i was going abou half an inch in and then i hit like a bone or something and i tried going a bit lower but same thing, it was dark and i couldn't see anything so any ideas? (link)
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You have to be sure your not hurting her, because down there is quite sensitive, you may have been going the wrong way in or that could just be how her body is (everyone's different). talk to the girl, and if you try it again, ask her what she thinks (you'll just have to be blunt about it i'm afraid :D)
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15/f. Well all girls have feelings of horneyess lol, although guys do too. What do yall think its fair that guys can be open about this feeling and its all good, like asking girls "can you suck me up?". But girls if they express any of their sexual feeling or disires they are kind of like a slut or hoe? What are your feelings on that? Cause its been in my mind for a quick minute. (link)
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i totally agreee! To guys it is just a joke and it makes them look cool to say stuff like that, but if a girl says it, then they are slutty. It is just stereotypes, i think
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ok. i'm young. 14. and i have considered having sex with a boy that is a year older than me. he refuses to have sex without a condom. but i know even with it, it could break or whatever. i want to have sex with him. i feel ready. the only thing is i want to go on birth control, but my parent can't find out. 1-i live in a rndom place, the closest planned parenthood is pretty far. so where can i buy it. like wal-mart, walgreens ? what is a good kind that isn't that much. like i can pay like up to $40, maybe $50 a month for it. and do you need to have a doctor's ezam or whatever first ?
thank you so much for anyone that helps. :] (link)
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If it were me, i would use double dutch. Thats wear you use contraceptive pills AND a condom. They're not very expensive, but you will need to go to a chemist/doctor to buy them/pick them up. Although you are under age, so you do know that it is breaking the law? you may need to have a Dr.s exam, i'm not too sure sorry.
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ok so i babysit for this 10 month old and i have been since he was about 6 months old.. and latley ive just been having these weird feelings like i want a baby of my own.. like i look at baby clothes and stuff online and i dont know why im feeling like this i think im way to young im only 16.. but i just want to know why im having these feelings? like there really strong to. (link)
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My best friend's mum recently had a baby and every time i look after him/go and visit them i feel like i want one too. It's not quite the same because i dont really babysit him , but your probably feeling sort of motherly, looking after him and you miss him when he's not there, like anyone who looked after kids as long as you have! Waot untill your old enough and you want a kid with someone you love, and then it will be even more special :D
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last night april 5th, my boyfriend was fingering me, not actually in the hole, and im so afraid that i might be pregnant. I was stroking his penis and i felt wet stuff coming out if it, but im not sure if it was sperm. and i asked him if he touched himself and then touched me and if there was something on his hands, but he says his positive he didnt have anything on his hands and its fine. im supposed to get my period sometime this week. they vary between 20- even about 30 days and im on day 26. im just reallyyyy scared. im screwed if im pregnant. please answerrr. im just so scared. (link)
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It's really unlikely for you to get pregnant this way, and as you still have a couple of days to go I wouldn't worry! The more you think about it the longer it will take for your period to come, just luck that that happens when you wait for something! It will be fine!
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