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Do guy's like it when girl's give them hand job's? (link)
depends on if you are good or not. My boyfriend loved head but then one day I wanted to give him a hand job and he lovessss it now. He says he would still prefer head but does not mine at all if I give him a hand job


K, soo a few days ago my bf fingered me for the 1st time and it was the 1st time I've ever done anything sexual like that w/ a guy. So I tried to return the favor (if you catch my drift?) but I started and stopped after about 10-15 seconds because I freaked out. Like I thought I was doing it wrong and I got scared.

Is that normal? How do I get over my nerves and fears and just do it?

Oh and I told him I was really really sorry that I didn't do it and how I thought it was unfair, and he told me it was completely fine, and did it to me 2 more times that night.

From a guys point of veiw, is it like a turn off or something if you do it for a girl and she doesn't rtf? Or do some guys really not care much? (link)
I did the same thing. except he hadnt done anyting to me yet. He whipped it out and I was getting ready to give him head and I freaked out and he put it away. He said he prolly should do stuff to me first and then maybe I would feel more comfortable. A few days later it happened and everything was good. Do not ever give head if the guy has morning wood. It takes like an hour. Let him jack off himself in the morning haha k


okay, i do alot with my boyfriend, and we dry hump all the time which makes him so turned on he actually groans, but we both want to do more, not straight forward oral sex, we want something a bit different that still makes us both feel good, any ideas? all answers welcome! (link)
Let him mess around with your boobs. It feels good and really turns you on. Same with nibbleing on his ear and his neck. Dry humping is also alot of funn! =]


when do you stop giving a girl head? I mean obviously you stop when she wants to, but if she doesnt say something, what do i do? I know that guys are done once they cum, but what do girls do that guys know to stop? any help appreciated. (link)
Just keep going till she says stop.


what is oral s e x mmean (link)
Oral sex is mouth to private area. It can be mouth to vagina, penis, or rectum (which sounds so gross) haha. A guy doesnt have to cum in your mouth while giving head. If you ask him to he will get a napkin and cum in that so you dont have to taste it.


i've had sex like 7 times now and i dont feel any orgasms is that normal? when i hump something i feel really strong orgasms but when he goes up my you know i feel nothing but i want to feel it bad i want to moan for him and get into it like he does. because he feels it but i dont so its not enjoyable to me and i dont want to keep faking it. (link)
Have him rub yout clit. Thats what makes it feel good.


here the deal..
me and my boyfriend have had sex about 4-5 times i think and i lost it to him like a month back i feel nothing .. IS THAT NORMAL?? when are you suppost to feel pleasure? how many times do i have to have sex with him to finally feel something? and well i dont think he feels anything either because he never comes (he didnt loose his virginity to me he's experience). whats wrong with me i cant satisfy him and i feel nothing as well ! during sex does he HAVE TO COME to show that he felt pleasure? because he has never ever come and we had it 4-5 times now .. and i want to satisfy him i really do but me not feeling anything doesnt really motivate me to do much during sex. i try and attempt but i dont know it feels awkward .. i really want to pleasure him.. i neeed help !! >. (link)
mess around before sex.


when you shave your vagina. is it supposed to shave your entire area. or just the sides so theres still a strip of hair going down the center? how do guys prefer a girl to look down there? please dont say like there not gona care once your naked please help me! thankyou in advance (link)
if you are going to shave it, shave it all or as much as you can. I know my boyfriend likes to have it cleaned. I mean he doesnt really care if its a little prickly or anything but he rather have it shaved. Its also easier to have it shaved off if you are on your period. (I know that sounds gross but its true!!) When my periods are really bad and I dont shave for awhile, blood gets like in the hair and its not pretty.

Im just being honest.


Hey there i was wondering can a man be circumsized at any age? also does being circumsized inhance sex and make it last longer or is that all mind over matter... Sorry if this makes no sense lol

Thank you for listening (link)
Yes you can be circumsized at any age. It sucks if you get it when you are older because you will remember the pain. I really dont think it helps sex but it does help you not get any bacteria or infections around the prepuce (foreskin).


hi so im melinda and im 20 years old. i have a bf that is 22 and weve been dating for 2 years. my values were that i would wait until i got married, but i realized i should just wait till i find someone i love. i have never had sex and neither has he. are there any tips in avoiding pregnancy or any tips at all because im very nervous. (link)
The only thing that can really help you to not get pregnant is obviously abstinence. Do not change your values for someone. Stick to them. You are strong. Just because you love him does not mean he will be the one you spend the rest of your life with. You may regret it.

If you do decide to have sex, try a birth control called the Essure procedure. It is like this "T" shaped thing that a doctor puts inside of your cervix and it prevents pregnancy. If you ever decide to have kids, they can remove it. Talk to your doctor.


Okay here it goes. I got my period last week on the 20th of April.But it was not normal at all it was ver lite and brownish pinkish red color. And now I got my period again on the 30th of April.And its the same as my first period. But I didnt know when my first period came and it lasted 4 days and when it normaly last 5 days. And now this period came and im so confused about everything. And the last time I had sex was April the 11th and he cum inside of me twice but different time we had sex. So can someone help me out here.
thanks,
Southern Gurl (link)
are you on Birth control? maybe thats the reason.


what Does It Fheel Like To Have Your Cherry Popped.? (link)
Sometimes you dont even know that your cherry had popped. Most girls pop their cherry while using tampons and you dont even know it. If you never use tampons and are a virgin and have sex, its more than likly going to hurt when you experience it. I know it did for myself. Usually the first time or two is going to be hard to get through but after that life is good. haha


I started my second package of TriNessa birth control the other night (the white pills) and woke up around 4 am feeling nauseous and the same thing happened this morning as well. (which was my second night taking it)

Is this normal? Is it from the birth control? (link)
I am on Birth Control as well but never experienced feeling sick. Maybe you should see your doctor or call him and ask about it. You should consider changing your BC if you continue to feel sick or have other side effects.




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