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3 months into going out w my boyfriend things got very heated and we tried to have sex. we were both kissing completely naked. i went to move foward sexually but i noticed he wasnt hard. he tried to help the and get himself hard but that didnt seem to work either. after a few more tries at seducing him i stopped and asked him if anything was wrong. he said no and that he didnt know what was going on so we left it at that. the next day we talked about it ad he said it had only happened once bfore with his first girlfriend and that he was sorry and embarrassed and didnt know what to say. i have a low self esteem so it hit me pretty hard and i thought i was the problem, even though that had never happened to me bfore with any other guy, but after talking to my girlfriends they made me feel as though it was something normal that happens to every guy once in a while. a couple months after that we tried again. this time he got hard only after i gave him oral sex and after i stopped i continue just kissing him and he went soft again so he asked me to do it once more. I did so and he got hard again, but as soon as he put the condom on to move foward, he got soft once more. we've been dating for 5 months now and honestly im terrified of trying again because i really dont know whats wrong. does anyone have anyy idea what it could be?? or what i should do?? or what i can say?? this has Never happened to me before and i really enjoy sex so i really hope i can figure this out soon! thanks! (link)
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when you guys get too close to having sex, he gets nervous, and therefore not hard. try to get him to relax.
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I am a 24 year Male from India. I am a Gay and I always wanted to live a bachelor life in peace. I graduated 1 year back and I had a problem with my family regarding my post graduation and future career. And I fractured my right elbow 6 months back in a motorbike accident because my brother forced me to learn to drive motorbike. I told him I was scared to drive. I had to undergo surgery to fix my elbow with pins and screws. It still hurts. Nobody else know that I am gay. I dont honestly want a gay marriage either.
Doctor told me I cannot lift heavy weights again. It feels terrible to think that I have to live alone with a compromised right arm all my life and I spent 3 hours finding out ways to commit suicide in google. The thought of the moment of accident is just painful. I need someone to encourage me and advice me. Please help!!!!!
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you should find a good therapist, and take the time now with your arm healing to figure out where you want your life to go. maybe you need to move to a different city/state, pursue the carer that you want, ect...dont kill yourself.
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Okay, so I've always considered myself to be straight since I have never had a crush on a girl or anything like that. I don't have the same feelings for girls (sexual tension) as I do for boys. My relationships have always been with boys, and I've never thought of a girl as anything more than a friend.
However, sometimes I like to imagine myself having sex with women. Sometimes a threesome or more. Something about the naked female body intrigues me. Female porn turns me on. I've often wondered if I'd ever sexually experiment should the right person come along. But I don't really want to be bisexual, since I'd never have a relationship with a girl. So am I still straight? (link)
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well, there's nothing wrong with being intrigued by the female body, and studies show that most women have have had or have sexual fantasies involving other women, and do not necessarily call themselves bisexual. you are the one who gets to decide if you want a label put on you or not, but id say exploring your sexuality in such a way would not make you bisexual...just curious!
xo vivi
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I'm a 13 year old female and i've been getting the urge to masturbate.
-am i too young to masturbate?
-does it hurt?
-how do i do it?
please help me! i dont know anything bout it but i've just heard of it. (link)
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you most certainly are not too young to masturbate. masturbating is a safe and healthy way to express ones sexuality. there are no real rules as to how to masturbate, and if it hurts then adjust what you are doing so that it feels good. the most common way to achieve an orgasm is to stimulate the clitoris, which is located at the upper end of the vagina(the one thats closer to your pubic area)begin by gently rubbing it, and proceed until you feel the need to stop. you might want to use a lubricant, such as vaseline or olive oil(i know, it sounds weird, but it is a safe and effective method...hope this helps xo vivi
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