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HEYY im THE RACK !!
im 16F and livin it up in Rhode Island. I love to just kickback and relax. I think i'm pretty mature for my age and have a interesting view on life.
iv been on this site for years, but i just made this new column. so i've prolly given you advice before, i love giving my opinion, i love helping ppl with what they dont know, so feel free to ask!! =]
Location: Rhode Island
Age: 16
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Im like afraid to even touch a guy down there ...like it grosses me out so how do i get used to it?? (link)
just play with it.. lol have fun.. its actually kinda funny looking and flops around when its not hard, so it kinda makes me laugh. and there really sensitive so a smack or flick here and there is pretty funny.


Ok so me and my boy friend have a long distance relation ship I'm a model and he is a raper so I sent him some of my resent picks of my modeling and he wants me to take naked picks of myself. So I don't know how I should take them or where I was wondering is I should get my besty to take them but she is kinda into me and I don't have that time for girl on girl you know. Then he don't trust any one els looking at my body and I can't take them myself so I told him I would just wear panties and he said oook. Now how are ways I can pose I need boy and girl answers and where is a good place I can do it at thanks. (link)
I would think this through first, and definitely do not include your face in the picture. do it where you feel comfortable, in your bedroom. but if you dont feel comfortable sending the pic or have to think twice then I would wait until you do.


Hey so i am 16 f and me and this guy from my school that i know welll are kinda planning to hookup. he asked me if he could finger me and do stuff to me. and then asked if i would do stuff to him. Well anyways it would be my first time doing anything!! so he weeks saying .... in a week. and im just not sure what to do really cause i get my period that week, and so im just gonna be like i got my period today. but still i wanna do something with him. What should i do and please dont say to young or something cause i raelly wanna try something fun. not necessarliy just bj and hj and fing. and eat. But don worry i am NOT going all the way. haha! anyways just i would like some advice.


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doing it all in one day can be overwelming, try just making out. then hang out with him again and let things progressively go further, but afterwards you might not feel good about yourself, so really think it through first. Don't let this guy just think your willing to do anything and your like a piece of meat.


My girlfriend is an emo, and she wants me to cry on her "to increase sexual pleasure". What shall I do? (link)
lol cry?
umm well if you dont want to cry, tell her and suggest other things that you can do for her. theres a lot of things she will like better than crying. =]


odk what it is and i knw it all wnt owrk for me bt wat do u guys do in materbation? give me detail (link)
well it is not a "clip" it is a Clit. Which stands for clitoris. And i think your asking what do girls do to masturbate. Girls can finger themselves, use objects such as a vibrator, or rub up against stuff. If you want to know what guys do, well they just jack off.


Hi, im 14/f and my boyfriends 15. I'm an August baby, and all of my friends are september - even though we're in the same year at school, their almost a year older than me. In septmeber, when they turn 16, they'll be starting to have sex with their boyfriends. Even though i've been with my boyfriend for just as long as them (coming up 9 months)i wont be having sex until august 2011 - im not sure it's worth waiting that long.

We both love each other, and i'm not on about having sex now, maybe may next year? but i wanna know why its such a big deal to be over 16?!? should i wait - obviously i only would have sex if im ready. can i get some opinions?

Bearing in mind he'll be 17 next year. Thanks x (link)
I dont get why you have to be 16 to have sex.. like why are you basing it all around turning 16. who cares when your friends are having sex.
if you want to have sex and he wants to and you wind up doing it, well who cares when it happens, just be protected.


1) How much is it?
2) What brand would you recommend?
3) Where can I get it?
4) Side effects?

I want birth control pill sfor two reasons:
1) I hate my period. It's completely unpredictable and annoying and I hate having to wonder WHEN I'm going to get it.
2) I want to have sex wiht my boyfriend soon. of course he's going to use a condom, but I want to be prepared. Because there is no way I can afford an abortion and no way that I am going to let a pregnancy get in my way of going to college and getting a degree. I dont' want a stupid mistake to mess up my life. (link)
with insurance coverage and stuff mine came out to be 3.50 a month. but it always depends on your insurance and on what brand you get. the generic versions are less expensive than a brand name.
I recommend ones like Seasonique where you only get your period 3 times a year. but there is a higher chance of spotting between periods, how much spotting or if there is any at all depends on the woman. The side effects that are possible are weight gain, breast tenderness, headaches, spotting or breakthrough bleeding, increases the chance of heart problems if you smoke, vomiting, unusual tiredness. But you may not experience any of these symptoms. If you take your pill at the same time everyday and take it how it says than you should be fine. Ask your doctor about ones like seasonique, and ask for the generic version, but it is cheaper. Mine came out to be 7.00 a month and you pay for 3 months at a time, because you take the pill consecutively for 3 months. Its wonderful. Basicly talk to your doctor about your period and she can also recommend what brands will fit you based on whatever problems you have.


My husband and i want to spice up our sex life. Do you have any ideas on what i can do? I want to really pleasure him. What do you do with your men that they really seem to like?

Thanks! (link)
Role play. Put on sexy costumes, ex. female cop, nurse, school girl.
Use sex toys.
Heavy foreplay.
Different positions.
Also, just ask him what he wants.


The idea having sex just grosses me out, it looks disgusting, I was sexually abused b4 nd luckily it did not led to anything else. could this have something to do with it, im a female (link)
Sometimes people are just grossed out about it. I can have to do with your age if your young and inexperienced. But i would say being sexually abused definitely plays a role on how you view things. Some take it the opposite way and become a little too involved in sexual activities.


hey i was wondering..are the trojan ectasy condoms the same size as the regualar trojans? i just bought them the other day and the square packages look a little bigger than the regular? i fit in the regular trojans,..i hope these are the same size =[ (link)
Yeah they are designed differently. They have a flare head. A bit bigger further up. You'll be fine, open one up!


I don't know whats wrong with me but I can't feel it when i have orgasms. Or i'll barely feel it. I know i'm having them because sometimes i'll even squirt. My whole body shakes and then i just kind of relax.. but i dont feel anything. Is there anything i can do to make them feel better? (link)
There are vibrating condoms.. =]


Today on the bus some girl said there wa a difference between a blowjob and giving head so i said i was going to google it and see and google brought me to this website. (link)
lol dont listen to that first person, there is no difference.


Im 20 years old and I want my boobs bigger without the surgury..any wayy i can??? (link)
look up a pill called Beauti-full, something like that. There are a lot of pills for breast enlargment but that is supposed to be the best one and its way cheaper than surgery and its all natural.


So I had a miscairage 3months ago and I want to get pregnant!!! Im 15 and need tips on how to conceive. Thnx (: (link)
I dont think anyone is going to give you tips on how to CONCEIEVE at 15.. your young, and your body is young, you should wait longer to develop, young women who give birth at a young age have a higher chance of giving birth to babies who are underdeveloped and premature, causing them to get sick. Think about what is best for your child. You are in school, probably arent rich, and probably have a young boyfriend who is looking to have fun not have babies. You dont want to be tied down with that responsibily. Go be a babysitter for a while and see if you still want a kid.


My Boyfriend of 4 months and I just had sex for the first time. Although this was my first time ever, it wasn't his, he's been with other girls of all shapes and sizes. He's very confident in his... sexual abilities. Anyway, we tried it a couple different times, and he just could not hold an erection. He said Its the first time that's ever happened to him, and he didn't know why he couldn't cum. He kept reassuring me that it wasn't me, and that he was interested, but he just couldn't stay hard. I Don't know of any other reasons why this problem would occur if he's done it so much before. is there anything I could do, or are there any other reasons why this could be happening? Thanks guys..
Sincerly, First time Failure. (link)
try giving him a blowjob right before you have sex. he'll get more excited.




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