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Q: okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?

first things girls notice are hair, smile, and eyes. Always. But girls like guys that are funny, nice, and have a hot body. But just becasue a guy is hot, doesn't mean a girl will go out w/ him if he doesn't have a good personality

Q: When we make out, my boyfriend starts to move his hands up my shirt and/or down my pants. weve onlu been going out for a month. is this too early?

I dont think so. If you dont mind, it shouldn't be.

Q: Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!

You've heard this abillion times, but you need to tell someone. or else, wait for him to find someone else his own age. untill then, wear pants, ignore him, etc. just stay away from him.

Q: My bf's been hinting that he wants me to give him a blow job, but im not sure. i want to, but im not sure . we've been going out for 3 months. thnx

If you want to, then you should. see how easy that was? It's fun for the both of you ;)

Q: My bf and i have only been going out for a month, and we're already kissing. Sometimes, when we kiss, he'll run his hand up my shirt and stuff. Like, the other day, we were alone at his house, and we were making out, and he started to stick his hand down my pants. I don't think we're going tooooo fast, but would me thinking that make me a slut?

If you dont think it's too fast, then its not. all that matters is what u think anyway. and you are only a slut if you sleep around. if u think it's fine, and that's what matters, as long as you dont go telling everyone.

Q: My boyfriend wants me to sleep with him, but i dont know if i should. i love him, and i know he feels the same way about me, but im not sure. we're both 16, btw.

Then sleep with him, but dont have sex with him. It's that easy! But make sure he's not just saying he loves you, and isn't a loser like that, u know what i mean?

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