Hey!! My name is Brandy and i am 17 years old and a junior in high school! I thought that something like this would be a swell way to spend my time lol and since i have so much drama going on in my life .. why not help everyone else out with theirs? :)
E-mail: notoriousbaby06@aol.com
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Location: Pennsylvania
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Age: 16
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people never ask me questions in my inbox. how do i get them to? (link)
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answer a lot of questions on your site and people will see it more and if you give good advice they will ask you questions. And maybe give your web adress out to all of your friends and such.
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ok, last month i got my period and i know that at first its not on a regular schedule but like how many days off will it be from last month? (link)
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A week or two before or after the regualr time.
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me and my bf r going to have sex. im a virgin and he isnt. how much does it hurt? and what are all the ways u can get pregnant? thanks (link)
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It hurts when it first goes in but after that it feels good.. :) So dont be scared. You can get pregnant by not using a condom or a form of protection. Hope I helped..
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What is the point in people fingering? I mean is it just for sexy feelings or what? (link)
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It feels good for girls and if you are doing it before you have sex it makes the girl more loose and its easier for the guy to get it in..
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me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?! (link)
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No it would be fine to lose it with him. If you want to it shouldnt matter if he has had sex before. Have fun :)
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im not trying to be so nosey or anythang, but im just wondering if anyone can go into detail of their 1st time. im just really curious on what to do, and how to get prepared!..THANX!
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The first time is just like any other time you have sex... lol except a girls cherry pops the first time she has sex and will bleed a little.. other than that its just sex usually the guy will be on top just so you are comphy but thats up to you. Hope i helped.. Good luck!
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Ok.. I'm almost 15 years old in the 9th grade.
Over the summer I started dating one of my best friends. (Jay).. Jay and I were really close. We were always hanging out. So anyway.. one night at my house we had dry sex. Is it true that you can get pregnant from that??? We continued dating the rest of the summer and on the 1st day of school Jay broke up with me. He's always all over every girl at school anyways. But I was still really hurt. He's the only guy that I've ever really cried over. So.. I've had anyother boyfiend from about 2 months now but I think I still like Jay. My boyfriend and I now haven't even done anything that is even close to dry sex. Is it possible that I just miss Jay because we actually did "stuff"? and is it fair to my boyfriend now that I feel this way?? (link)
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First.. no you can not get pregnant from dry sex unless clothes were off and both of you guys touched down there and im sure by now you would know if you were pregnant. Also i dont really think that it is fair to your boyfriend rite now that you have feelings for someone else, maybe you need to talk to Jay about how he feels and then talk to your boyfriend. You cant help how you feel and you cant tell your heart what to do so if you decided now that you like Jay and do not want to be with your boyfriend then yes it is unfair and you need to break things off with him, the longer you wait to do it the more he is going to like you and the more hurt he will get.
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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers! (link)
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Just tell them that someone gave it to you as a gag gift or that you had it just in case anything would ever happen. Are you sure your parents even saw it.. and if they did i wouldnt say anthing to them about it unless they asked you. But def. throw that condom away now because if it went through the wash it isnt good anymore and you shouldnt keep them in your wallet/purse because they are more likely to get holes in them!
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sorry its so long.. Well friday i was wit my boyfriend.. well its the first time we did anything.. well his cousin knos bout it which dont bother me.. well my boyfriends cousin told one my friends.. well the guy his cousin told is somebody to chill wit but not somebody to tell that kinda stuff to cause he'll tell everybody.. he's done it before.. so should i let it go and forget it or is there something i can do.. before it gets to everybody.? please help cause i dont wanna be made out to be a hoe or something.. i rather our business stay between us..Thanks alot LaDessa.. (link)
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LaDessa, You need to talk to your boyfriend about this. If you do not want people to know what goes on between you two then he should respect your decision and not tell anyone. But also dont care what other people think of you, if this is the first time that you did something with him then you are not a slut and if people think you are they dont know what a slut is. Ask your boyfriend to talk to the person who is not trusted and haev him ask not to tell anyone. Im sure he will understand. :)
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i was talking with mii boyfriend tonight, and we were talking about having sex for the first time. he knows i'm afraid of the consequence, but i want to do it ! he suggested pulling out (if u kno what that means).. is that safe or not? is there chances of me getting pregnant? **ii rate high for good answers** (link)
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There is a good chance that you can get pregnate from him JUST pulling out. Every girl is scared to get pregnant but there are a lot of ways to avoid it. Def. make sure that you use a condom even if he does not want to.. if he likes you that much he will understand that you are scared of the consequence. And have him pull out anyways just to be sure. You also could always go on birth control and if you dont want your parents to know you can go to planned parenthood, they give free birth control and they are not aloud by law to tell your parents anything. Hope I helped!
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy. (link)
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You def. should use a condom no matter what because there is always a chance for her to get pregnant. Even if you have sex when she had her period you can get pregnant. Planned Parenthood gives condoms out free you might want to try there or you can always just buy some they are a lot cheaper then a kid :)
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