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Heyy my names Julianne but a lot of people call me Jules. I'm almost 18 and a senior in high school. I made a column because I love helping people and its really easy for me to relate to a lot of questions because I've gone through a lot myself. I'm open to any question you have so feel free to ask me anything =]
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ok.. me and my mom aren't really close... and like when she tells me stuff like oo i need to buy u a bra or sumtin like oo lets go bra shopping i get like embarrased and she does it like in front of people... so like my friends wouldn't care to come with me cuz they would buy there own.. but i mean iim only 13.. and ive got some boobs.. but im not sure wat size.... but they are like small.. i would be no bigger than a a cup.. .and in bikini size im a medium.. so liek maybe you can tell me by that wat size i am or like wat possible sizes are small....
this site explains how to find your bra size:
http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/questiondetail.jsp?ContentId=ASK120
My Best friend, is honestly considering suicide. He's messed up so much in his life. He has cheated on his girlfriend twice, and he even cheated on me when we were dating and he messed up really bad during our relationship, his mom recently died while we were dating and i helped him so much and now, i dont even know how to help him hes so messed up. He does weed around 3-4 times a day he even goes to school stoned. I've tried to get him to cut back and even quit but its honestly useless. His girlfriend found about the 2nd time of cheating and totally bitched him out and wont even talk to him. He IMed me on Aim and tells me he's going to commit suicide and i've been trying to get him to settle down and talk through it i even left him a voicemail, and im just so scared he'll actually do it... PLZ HELP ME I DONT KNO WT TO SAY ANYMORE TO HIM...
THANK YOU IF YOU CAN HELP IM ON THE VERGE OF CRYING BECAUSE I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND I CANT TAKE ANOTHER PERSON DYING THIS YEAR...
--Kim
one of my really good friends was honestly talking about committing suicide as well a couple of years ago. when he told me i couldnt believe what i was hearing. it turned out that he had been experimenting with cutting too. he told another one of his friends, who happened to me my best friend. luckily she knew what to do and saved his life. he made her promise not to tell anybody for obvious reasons, and she did that for a while, however, she got really scared and wound up telling a physciatrist at our school. she immedietly began counseling with him and his dad (hes mom had also passed away) and soon enough he was better and living a much healthier life. youre doing the right thing by comforting him and trying to talk him through it and you should keep doing that, but if you love him as much as you say you do I would get help for him. tell an adult you trust as soon as you can because you dont want it to be too late. he might be mad at you after you spill his secret, but he'll forgive you once he realizes that you saved him from doing something very regretful.
Hello
I am a 15 year old. I'll be 16 soon.
I have been having my period since Nov. 2004.
I've had it every month from the 19th to the 29th
This month i didn't get it.
It's never been this late.
I got all the cramps, and the upset stomachs before it.
It just never happend.
My mom didn't get hers either this month.
This is the 1st time it's happend.
I WILL rate high.
THanks
I'm sure its nothing to worry about. it's normal for your period to be irregular during the first few years. sometimes it doesnt become fully normal until around 18. the first time i skipped a month i was a little freaked out too. but then it came the next month on time. as long as you havent had sex you cant be pregnant. so im sure its just because its irregular. as for your mom, im not positive this is the reason but i have heard several times that if youre around another woman or group of women (like a sports team) your periods become similar. my track team all gets theirs around the same time. that would be the only explanation i have for her. if you need more advice try www.beinggirl.com . theres a lot of helpful information there and an expert advice columnist ( ask iris ) good luck.
My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!!
You're not ready to have sex. That's it. If you have even the slighest doubt about having sex you shouldn't go through with it. If your boyfriend loves you he'll be ok with waiting until you're ready. If he's not ok with waiting he's not worth having, especially if he can't respect your choice.