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I'm a typical 14 year old girl!! I'm no different then any others. I love to sing, act and dance. I love hanging out with my friends and helping people. So if you want any advice ask me a question, and I'll do my best to answer it. Enjoy my column. :o)

Jess

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what are some things two girls can do together? like besides making out, i mean things that lead into sex and everything, i just need some step-by-step things for me to do.

Two girls together can finger each other. Lick each other (if you know what I mean 69) And basically can play with each other. Be creative. If you need anything else just drop something in my inbox.
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When you finger yourself, do you need to do something to your finger?? like disinfect it or somethin?? Also, Will it hurt if you do it with long fingernails???

No, you don't need to do anything to your finger unless you want to. If you do put some kind of a safe lubricant. I wouldn't know if it hurt with long nails. I have a bad habit of biting nails so I wouldn't know. Sorry! But if you need anyting else drop something in my inbox.

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Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?

xoxo Alyssa*

I have heard the anal sex is very painful. Personally if any guy made me have anal sex I would kick his butt. You should get all of your feelings out. That may help the grossness go away. Works for me. If you need anything else just drop something in my inbox... I'll answer for you hun!

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Does everyone get mourning sickness when their pregnant? And how far along in the pregnancy do you get it?

Yes everyone gets morning sickness when they are pregnant. Usually you get it in the beginning of pregnancy. Those are signs that you are pregnant.

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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?

If you feel you should do it then go ahead. It is your choice... not anyone elses.

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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..?

Wearing a condom during sex is a safe way to not get pregnant but sometimes the condom make brake. If you want to EXTRA careful I would consider using a condom and birth control pills. Either way you will be safe.

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Jess

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im 15 and my penis is almost 6 inches long is that about average for my age?

Yes I would have to say that is average. Don't worry. The average siza of a penis is 5 inches. Your luuck ;)

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Jess

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When ur having sex..does blood really go everywhere?! i want my first time to be romantic not red!..do guyz know that happen? thankz..

It's true there is blood, but not everywhere. It's a little spot of blood you shouldn't worry about it.

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Jess

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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong?

This might mean that your a lesbian but not exactly. You could be a bisexual or you could just like to experiment different things...


No... I don't think being gay is wrong. It's your decision and interest in what ever you want it to be. Don't think it's a bad thing... I have plenty of gay friends and they are still the same..

Don't put yourself down...

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ok this question doesnt really fit under the category but anyways, when you are kissing like with you tongue are you supposed be moving your lips too?

Yes... by just moving your tongue look akward but with moving your lips it will be more cleaner and romantic...

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