my+names+ali,+but+i+go+by+lex,+allen,+that+cool+chick...+or+whatever+strikes+my+fancy.++++++++++++++++++++++im+16,+but+that+doesnt+mean+i+know+any+less+than+anybody+else+on+here.+++++++++++++++++++++++++i+give+honest+answers,+and+if+you+dont+like+them,+then+go+ahead+and+bitch.+i+dont+care.+++++++++++++++++i+have+an+addiction+for+putting+extra+holes+in+my+face,+and+putting+ink+under+my+skin+where+it+shouldnt+belong+%3A)++++++++++i+absolutely+adore+my+boyfriend+ory+daniel+smith.+hes+amazing+and+i+love+him+%3A)++++++++++++++++++++++++ok+so+even+though+my+s%2Fn+here+is+holly22co+(hollister+company,+est.+1922)+does+NOT+mean+that+im+a+preppy+stuck-up+blond+chick+without+a+single+thought+in+my+pretty+little+head.+i+wear+hollister,+and+i+love+that+store.+the+fact+is+that+i+wear+what+i+want,+and+chill+with+who+i+want.+im+a+random-ass+cheerleader+who+loves+moshpits.+how+messed+up+is+that%3F++++++++++++++++++++++++i+dont+have+a+pic,+because+i+dont+know+how+to+upload+them+from+my+mobile+phone.+RaWr+bitches+%3E%3A)
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when a girl gets an orgasmn what does it feel like in the vaginal area? (link)
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its like a deep contracting pull, then a release. its different for everyone but it feels amazing and you can always tell when youve had one
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okay, is it true that is you give a guy head, then her explodes, then you swallow, that swallowing can make you sick? if you go to the doctors can they tell what you did (link)
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semen contains a sort of "bodily bleach" to dissolve through vaginal secretions to ensure the sperm can get through ok. thats why it can sometimes have a bleachy smell. it might make you gag, but thats about it. it can sometimes make you feel a little, because every guys semen tastes different. depending on their diet and what they take in (i.e. eating lots of red meat or smoking) but no, the doctors cant tell what youve done :) hope this helps :) -ali 16/f
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the longest an orgy ever lasts for me is liek a few seconds, and then it takes a while to have another one.. is there a way to make it last longer? (link)
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umm... welll... an ORGY is a bunch of people having sex at the same time.. i think youre talking about an ORGASM. haha. theres a few things you can do to make them last longer. do your kegals every day (exercising your vaginal muscles, they can be felt when youre peeing, its the muscle that makes you stop.) that will make your vagina more sensitive & orgasms will last longer and feel better. try reading this months issue of GLAMOUR. they have a section in there for that. have fun :)
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I've been on the pill for nearly a year now. From the first month, everything was fine. I had my whole schedule down so no surprises. But I've started to gain nearly 15 pounds in water weight and it happens before and after the period week. I can't find any comfortable jeans and now I have PMS. I've had my period for years and never experienced PMS before. I didn't know I was that bad until people told me. I don't even want to see my friends because of it. It's just constant mood swings and i know it's affecting my relationships and work. I can't concentrate at all. I've been thinking about switching to YAZ.. but when I looked it up online.. and the bad experiences worried me.. I'll like to hear some experiences from here. Does it really affect the physical and mental issues or make it worse? (link)
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its normal to gain & lose water weight before & after your period, so i wouldnt worry about that. just buy a pair of fat jeans haha. but it sounds like you actually have PMDD, not PMS. but im not a doctor, so i cant say for sure. PMDD is like PMS, just alot worse. you cry for no reason, yell and HATE your boyfriend, bitch at your best friends, fight with your parents, and generally hate the world & everyone in it. plus you have horrible mood swings.. i know about this bc i have PMDD haha. i just tell everyone my "really mean aunt is visiting," and they know what i mean. but YAZ is actually a birth control designed to control PMDD, so you dont turn into a raving bitch every month haha. there are horror stories and side effects to go with every birth control, so the safest thing to do would be to look up PMDD, talk with your parents about it, explain about YAZ, and go to the doctor or gyno to ask question and gain advice. hope this helps, its the most rational thing i can think of haha.. sorry its long :) -ali
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i was laying in my boyfriends lap, my head kinda on his stomach but he was sitting up. and he started fingering me, and he has many times before but this time was different, i don't know why but it was like it was so good my body went into shock, i didn't moan or breathe heavily like usual, i just had trouble swallowing. and after that i sat up and we started making out, and in the middle of making out, i started crying.
i have no idea, it wasn't a bad cry really, i wasn't sad, i just started crying.
can anyone tell me if this has happened to them or why it happened? (link)
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ive never heard of that happening, haha but theres nothing wrong with you.. since you had trouble swallowing, it was most likely that, making your eyes just water. like when youre choking or throwing up; your eyes water. thats the most logical explanation :) i cant really think of anything else it would be. hope i helped :) -ali16f
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Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".
How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.
Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.
Thanks. (link)
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this might be long :) ok well if you feel the way you do, like i did, you most likely wont regret it at all. when your at his house alone, & you decide you finally want to, you dont have to tell him, jus start hXc making out on the bed..one thing will lead to another..then you can tell him you want to. be sure to have a condom with you, just in case he doesnt. theres nothing more dissappointing then preparing yourself to have sex for the first time, then not being able to =/. my first time was last year in january (i was about to turn 15..a little young, i know.) but we were up in his room alone (his parents were downstairs) and his sis & her guy were in her room. well stuff started happening & clothes came off..he asked me for a b.j. but i didnt feel like it, so i just said lets have sex. so he got a condom. it didnt hurt..but it didnt feel great either. but after litterally one minute, it was great. (for your first time, id do missionary, alott easier.) hope i helped :)
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alright so my boyfriend is coming over here this weekend for the first time to spend the night.. and I'm suppose to get my period sometime this week, it sucks but would he be like freaked out to like sleep in the same bed as me? i mean i will obviously have to tell him since we wont be able to do anything like sexually besides me giving him oral.. well at least thats all i can think of does anyone else no what we could do since sex is out of the question? (link)
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oral is pretty much the most sexually charged thing youll be able to do..but there are always romantic things you could do..massages, watching a movie, cuddling :), hxc making out haha..etc. if you wear tampons you should be fine. when that happens to me, like last saturday, i just tell my boyfriend my "bitchy aunt is visiting." that way he knows, and we can talk about my "aunt" without being gross and freaking him out :). he shouldnt be too grossed out..if he is, tell him hes bein mean, bc thatll shut him up (and it is mean.) this usually works, hope i helped!
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What makes a guy think that a girl is good in bed? (link)
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wanting to please, and showing enthusiasm. either or, but both together earn major points
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15/f.
the last time that i had sex was around february 6th or 7th with my current boyfriend of the time of 5 months [we just broke up not too long ago] and he didnt use a condom. Recently, i just finished my period. [it started around the 23 or 24th and ended yesterday february 27th] However, for the past few weeks i have been feeling a little strange. my stomach hurts frequently and sometimes i throw up, my stomach always itches, my vision has been a bit blurry at times, and im always hungry and tired. in school i feel like i cant focus. is it possible that i am pregnant? or am i just scaring myself into thinking it? any help would be appreciated. thank you. (link)
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the same thing happened to me last year, but i wasnt. but its very very possible youre just scaring yourself. its very possible to be a hypochondriac when this happens. i cant say for sure, but since you just had your period its unlikley. when your pregnant you "spot," which means you only bleed for a day or two. the only way to know for sure is to get a pregnancy test. theyre about $10 at drugstores. hope i helped, good luck! :)
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I think im getting an orgasm but i really dont know.
when my boyfriend licks my clit or when im in the shower and i put the shower head to a setting and put the water stream running on my clit it feels good to the point where if i kept doing it, i'd probably scream. but when i get to the point where i cant handle it anymore i start getting all squirmy and it feels really good.
but is that an orgasm? (link)
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haha the shower trick is timeless and works great. if your doin it then get "squirmy" and moan, then you most likely are having an orgasm. another way to tell in the shower, is after all that happens, if you feel very drained, like youre gonna fall down, or if you absolutley cant stand it when the water hits your clit again, then yes, you had an orgasm. hope this helped :) -ali 16/f
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ok, i feel like i'm horrible at sex! whenever me & my boyfriend have sex his dick always comes out & we have to keep putting it back in and stuff, is that becaise he's too small or what? and also i don't really know how to move, when i do i feel like im doing it wrong.. help! (link)
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i used to have that problem, i dont think many people feel great at sex. it just comes with practice. you should move with him. when he thrusts in/down, you should raise your hips up to meet him. (when your on the bottom.) try bending one knee and keeping one straight with your legs spread; this should help with him popping out, which is kinda a mood-killer haha. hes probably poppin out bc hes so exited that he pulls back too far. but your moving with him, as mentioned above, should help alot with that too. good luck! -ali
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arrite i have really small boobs, i was wondering if anyone knew how to naturally make them grow, if thats even possible. i know that victorias secret used to sell this cream that would just soak into your skin and it would enhance them, well they discontinued it and i was wondering if theres anything like that. im not looking for pills or anything that my parents might have to be envolved with. please help :] (link)
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ok this has been around since like, my grandma was a teenager, but it really works! ive done it bc i have small boobs too xD ok what you'd do it.. get something squishy but that will still offer some resistence, and hold it up&out in front of you, so that your fingers are laced but your palms arent touching, and squeeze the object between your hands like that for as many repititions as you want. this works your pecs, the muscle right behind your boobs. so if that muscle gets bigger, your boobs will stick out farther. haha :) itll take a lil while to see results, like with any workout, but its worth it. its esp. good bc you can do it in bed at night if you cant sleep lol. hope this works for you, it has for everyone i know! good luck :) -ali
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okay I need to find a household lube for masterbation I am a 16 year old girl can you use unscented lotion or vitamin e or aloe vera. Please tell me something I can use (link)
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Noo dont use lotion itll give you an infection. Use baby oil or vasaline. Baby oils the best. Hope this helps :)
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If a guy fingers your anus will his nails tear your ass hole? And will it hurt because my guy wants to have anal sex and I don't want him to hurt me (link)
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I had anal sex with my last guy, and i will tell you... It wasnt fun lol. If youre not sure about it, its probly not for u. Guys shudnt really have finger nails at all, but if he does he might tear u. Theres really no yes or no answer to that. If u do have anal sex, just be sure to use lots of water based lubricant and a condom that self-lubes. That help alot, even though itll still hurt. Hope this helps :)
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ok so after i have sex with my boyfriend it burns hella bad like excruciating pain i d k but like sometimes if he doesnt cum in me it doesnt burn at all lol i used to think i was allergic to his cum but im sure thats not what it is cus usually it happens either way and it seems like every time he rips me open too and that happens as soon as he goes in and its not like im dry well usually im wet but either way i rip and end up bleading so i d k w t f is going on and i was wondering if anyone can help if you know whats going on with the burning thing and the ripping too and if you know what might help if you need anymore details let me know and i can tell you everything
much thanks (link)
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ok well if you rip everytime you have sex then youre reallly tight. this sounds kinda..gross..but if you masterbate using something inside you, graduating from smaller objects to larger, youll be looser, & it wont hurt as bad, and you wont tear. as for the burning, guys cum smells kinda like bleach, because it kinda is, in the way that cum has bleach-like chemicals to break through vaginal fluids so the sperm can impregnate the girl. so the burning is normal, but if its really bad, youre probly a little dry. try making out hXc (which makes for greatt sex :) or have him eat you out. that works really good lol. hope this helps! - ali, 16/f
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okay i know i sound dumb but what are all the bases?..i think 1st base i s makeing out and all the way is sex but i dont know..yeahhhh (link)
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1st base is making out, 2nd base is feeling up boobs, 3rd base is fingering, eating out, handjobs n blowjobs, and 4th base is sex. hope this helps :)
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My Skin down there is covering over my head (penis head), is this normal? (link)
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yes, it just means you werent circumcised. most guys are circumcised when they were either a baby or small toddler. it just makes the penis easier to clean. and such. i guess you could always get circumcised if you want, although i dont know, because of age. ask your parents why you werent if you want. hope this helps :)
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ok well when my boyfriend tried to do this pretty much all he did was do what he would do with his finger when figuring me and i guess it tasted HORRIBLE and i even washed and scrubbed down there and what not and it didnt feel good isnt he supposed to like lick the rest down there? cuz ya what he did didnt feel good and idk if i will let him do it again because it tasted that bad. so ya is he doing it wrong if so what is he supposed to do? (link)
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not to sound pervrted or gross, but hes supposed lick, nibble , and suck the clit, and go inside your vagina with his toungue. the main focus is on the clit though. hope this helps =)
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are girls supposed to have hair on their pussy?
Or no? Whats better? (link)
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yes, everyone has pubes, but most guys prefer it completly shaved or waxed. shavings a pain but waxing hurts like shit. altho it does last longer. shaving is your best bet. good luck =)
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Ok thoday was my first time fingering myself well i had some blood on my finger.I'm a virgin still and did i pop my cherry? (link)
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Yes
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