okay, this may sound gross, but i really need an answer to this question. there is this guy i really like. we had this lady come to our school and talk to us about sex a few weeks ago. a couple of nights ago, i had a dream that this guy i like got me pregnant. the dream didn't leave out anything. in the dream, we were happy that it had happened. does this mean anything? i am not perverted and haven't had thoughts like this before, but this couldn't be helped. it was a dream. i am saving sex until marriage, but in this dream, it was happening in the present. i need some answers! thanks in advance! i'll rate 5's!
I believe that dreams are very symbolic. They have deep meaning and can be mistaken very easly. It sounds like you really like this guy, and that according to dream he will fall in love with you, also it means that he may impose things on you that you dont want to do, like sex. Or it could mean that you and him might go out, but while going out he may keep asking you and begging you for sex. This is where you have to thing deep into yourself to really understand what you want. If you want to give yourself to him, that is your choice. If you are going to do this, make sure you use protection, or if you want a child and you feel the timing is right and he won't run out on you when he knows you are pregnant, then go ahead.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash
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Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?
No, it doesn't mean you "have" to stop watching it, but think..everytime you close that door. Your parents know what you are doing. It all comes down to wheather on not you have a religion you take after. Most practices do not think masterbation is a proper thing. Also why are you giving inot this corrupt society, exposing girls like that?
Cya when i see ya,
Hebasquash
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I'm 16/f catholic; and I masturbate. Is masturbating a form of lust, thereby making it unacceptable against the commandments? I was just wondering, as I found that I'm virtually addicted, and although it is healthy, I want to know whether it is morally wrong for me.
Cheers. I rate high
Yes, it is a sin, but in god's eyes no sin is greater than another. I had this problem a while ago, it was hard for me to stop also. If you really want to live a life in the lord's footsteps then yes you need to stop. There are other things in this world that can bring you the same pleasure. Look deep and try to find the answer god is giving to you, he is the ultimate answer.
Cya when I see ya,
Ian
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ok,(im 14 male and shes 13 female)and we were fooling around the other day.she was on top of me so on so on.I know shes not ready for anything oral or actual sex.I got really "hot and bothered" and i started undoing her pants and it didnt feal right.i asked her "are u sure ur ready"? and she says "I dont know not really but i REALLY want to beacuse i know itll feal good so im not going to stop you" i didnt want her to regret anything we did so i stoped.Did i do the right thing beacuse she says shes not ready but she wants to beacuse itll feal good?and should i ask if shes ready next time it happens?
Yes, you did the right thing, not many guys would of stopped, i'm proud of you. You guys have the rest of your life to find another time to have sex. Yes, she wants to feel good but there are other ways to enhance your "endorphans", those are what make you feel happy. Try taking up a sport with her or another hobbly, like book club (ok thats kind of Lame) but still find something else for now. She isn't ready, and although she said she was ready, she is just showing you that she trusts you 100%, dont ruin that trust. Also last, if you do go ahead and have sex, I suggest a type of protection.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash
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