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Well.....i am a 15 year old girl...and recently I have masturbated.....but....everytime I do...I feel guitly and dirty...and I don't want to continue...I want to ask my sister, or brother, or even my parents..but I'm scared to...I keep thinking they will laugh or get mad at me....and say that I am disgusting...so I just wanna know...Is it bad or wrong? And why? (link)
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No.
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
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Electric toothbrush attachment:
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My boyfriend is in the military and I have not seen him in over 3 months. He is coming home soon on leave. I have always been "tight" down there and sex has always been painful for the first 5 minutes or so. Anyway this is the longest I have gone in a while so I know it will be really painful. Is there anything I can do to make this less painful? ..I do not want to masturbate. Thank you. (link)
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Minimize or eliminate the pain:
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/from_ow_to_wow_demystifying_painful_intercourse
http://www.google.com/search?q=pain+first+time
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/tingle-tip.html
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So im a female of 16 years, and recently I tried too masturbate, but i didnt reach orgasm, is there any way of being able to reach orgasm while masturbating? Is there ah best way too masturbate? I wanted to ask my boyfriend to finger me for the first time, but im scared i wont be in pleasure, or wont find it pleasing. What can i do? (link)
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It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/tingle-tip.html
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I'm 19, female, and a virgin.
I'm a bit worried... I plan on losing my virginity to my long time boyfriend soon. I can tell it's headed there and I'm starting to feel more and more ready. HOWEVER, I have some fears...
I masturbate occasionally... but not much... it just doesn't do much for me. I can't really get myself wet and me touching ME doesn't really turn me on. I often just can't get off to fantasy land because I'm just too preoccupation with how frustrated I am and how sub-par it feels...
But... I feel like sex will be much better?
It it common for a girl not to be able to get too turned on when she's on her own but still have amazing sex with a partner because there's an actual person touching you opposed to touching yourself?
I'm worried I won't be able to get wet enough during sex. My boyfriend has been very respectful and we haven't really done anything besides kissing so I just don't know. Also, he took a semester off from school to be with family so we're separated for now. But just a text from him can turn me on more than trying to imagine sex I've NEVER had during masturbation...
Also, I tried using a small dildo and it just feels like a cold, uncomfortable object inside me... even if I move it in and out.
***Is sex better than masturbating once you get comfortable with it?
I guess in my mind I'm kind of comparing it to being tickled. I cannot tickle myself because it feels like nothing... but when someone else tickles me I'm a mess of laughter...
Is it kind of the same thing?
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Most women find masturbation to be more stimulating and are able to cum more easily with masturbation. Usually, masturbation is how you learn what you like and what it feels like to get aroused and cum.
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/tingle-tip.html
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Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and I'm 15 and he is 17 but we're really close with each other. When we hangout we make out and he'll feel me up and finger me but I never do anything other than kissing. This is both of our most serious relationships we've had. I feel like I should do something for him like a hand job but I'm not exactly sure how to. We've talked about having sex before, neither of us have done it, but we both want to. He just thinks we should do littler things first to make it less awkward and he has done just about everything when I've done nothing and he says "you can do stuff too" and I say "I know" and I feel awful because its new to me and idk what I'm doing. Please don't judge me anyone here! I would just like a step by step process of how to give a hand job, blow job, or any way to pleasure him that would be great! If anyone could give me some advice that would be greatly appreciated! :) thank you! Btw advice from woman and men would be great!! (link)
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Say, "I want to give you a hand job, but I don't know how. Would you teach me?" Have something like a clean sock or handkerchief read to catch his goo.
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So this is gonna sound really weird but im a girl and I have been masturbating for longer than I can remember. I can remember balling up my blanket at pre school and grinding against it at nap time. I can remember doing it in first grade while thinking about my crush and making up these fantasies in my head like playing doctor. But I was just a little kid!! I can remember finally learning that what I was doing was even called masturbation! The weird part is I've always know to keep it a secret. Before I even knew what it was I never told anyone about it and I knew to only do it when I was alone. I guess what I'm wondering is.. How did I know what this was? How did I learn about feeling horny and pleasure from doing this and thinking about boy and girl encounters before I even knew what sex was? And I knew all of these fantasies without thinking of sex happening in them but just knowing they made me horny. I'm 17 now and I still masturbate on a regular basis. I've never used my fingers I still just rub up against a little piece of balled up blanket. I've never had sex and I don't feel like a nympho or anything like that. Also when I do do this, I reach a sort of climax where it feels really good and then I wanna stop because I'm not horny anymore. This can't be an orgasm right? It's not intense at all it's just kind of like a second or two of pleasure and then I can't get aroused again. Plus it takes me like less than a minute to get there. Any ideas? (link)
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As an orgasm approaches, your muscle tension increases and you may begin breathing harder and sweating a little. When it is about to begin, you may feel like you have to pee, but you won't. Then, it begins when the muscles in your lower abdomen tense involuntarily like when you're about to sneeze. Next, those same muscles begin contracting and relaxing involuntarily. With each contraction you feel incredible pleasure. You have about 10 contractions in about 10 seconds. After it is over, you will feel very happy, warm, and relaxed.
See also: http://coolnurse.healthology.com/teen-health/article1424.htm
It is important to masturbate because it teaches you what brings you pleasure and what it feels like to get aroused and have an orgasm. When you eventually start having sexual intercourse, that knowledge will help you have a more satisfying experience.
The most popular ways are fingers, vibrator, dildo, Shower Massage, bathtub faucet, and humping a pillow. Most people start in their teen years, but a lucky few get started as early as 5 or 6 when they discover it by accident.
http://www.MyMasturbation.com
http://www.LetsMasturbate.com
http://www.Positive.org
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
http://teenadvice.about.com/od/sex/tp/common-teen-masturbation-questions.htm
Disguised vibrator:
http://www.NeutrogenaWave.com/
Electric toothbrush attachment:
https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/tingle-tip.html
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