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(♥) Lynsey (♥)


::im 15
::im really hyper
::i dont have a bf
::i go to m.h.s
::i love soccer..its mi life
::im kinda short > 5'2
::and ya ill answer any ?'s u guys wanna know :)

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i know you are going to read this and think its me, its not and actually i don't care what you think..anyways, my friend thinks shes pregnant. shes 2 weeks late on her period. she got some kind of infection where she had to take medicine that might delay her period a little bit. she took a pregnancy test and she said that if 2 lines show up, then shes pregnant..she showed me the test and i saw 2 lines, one was slightly darker than the other..but i saw 2 lines. she claims shes not pregnant, but is going to take another test. i dont know what to do for her...?

ok so im answering this because I thought i was pregnant about a week ago. it is soo scarey. but my friend and i went to planned parenthood and told them i need a pregnancy test. everything was totally free and confidental. it took long the wait was like four hours!! but everything was FREE! they gave me a card since im underage and have no medical benefits because i cant tell my parents and so if i was ever pregnant i can get free help/abortion or whatever i want to do. i can get free birth control and examines too. so take her there. call 411 and ask for a local planned parenthood in ur city.its free AND they dont tell ur parents :)

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14/f
I'm a Christian so I want to be a virgin till I'm married, but lately it's been real hard to stay that way. I'm letting my hormones make me too curious. (I've never actually even seen a penis before.) I get really horny a lot and sometimes I ever masturbate to get over it. I'm way too young to have sex but lately I've wanted to give a handjob or even get laid. How can I keep motivated to stay a virgin? I know I'm not ready for sex.

hey umm maybe i think you could like give a handjob and you get fingered or something because thats not having sex. but its still "doing sexual stuff"...so maybe if you want to remain a virgin..do stuff but dont actually HAVE SEX...but do that if you have a serious bf...not with just any guy...

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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help!

well he is your boyfriend and he must love you the way you are or he wouldnt be with you....dont tell him oh i dont like *watever you dont like*about my self! because that will just make him notice it even more and hell stare @ it trying to figure out why you dont like it...just come off as really confident and pretend you love EVERYTHING about your body and he wont even notice...or just do things in the dark if you dont want him to see...

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ok i have a question, whenever my boyfriend does something to me "below the belt" my legs start shaking and twitching is that normal and what does it mean?

it could mean that your uncomfortable or nervous...like you know when ur scared and your legs twitch? thats how it is...tel him to stop if your not comfortable!!

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?

what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx

OKKKK first you cant be madly in love w/some one only in a week relationship....TRUST ME!....i was just like that i went out w/this guy and i was like OMG im soo inlove with him blah blah....but then i met someone else...and we been going out for 5 months...and thats more like love...but i mean if hes already talking about sex...and its only been a week...that might be the only thing he wants...=\....yes, guys are so like that....if you really think you madly in love with someone youve only been with for a week...and if you totally ready then i guess go on and do it....but if your having second thoughts, which you most likely are, or you wouldnt be asking for advice...then wait..and see if he really loves you or jst loves you body...*think of this...i read this on a fact site*...if you are in love with him....you would be comfortable farting infront of him...LOL i know its cheesy but hey its kinda true...so just think about everything...

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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!

OMG thats happened to me once too just say you got them passed out in health when you guys were learning about sex ed....or say that you were at the mall and they were handing free ones out at spencers!! if she freaks out tell her your not having sex and if you were atleast your being protected...and if she doesnt believe you tell her she can take you to the gyno to tell if youre having sex if she doesnt believe you...but if she asks just stay calm be like OHH haha the condom! they were passing them out at the mall outside of that one store called spencers! chances are she probly didnt even see it because the zipper could ahve came unzipped inside the washing machine

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sorry its so long.. Well friday i was wit my boyfriend.. well its the first time we did anything.. well his cousin knos bout it which dont bother me.. well my boyfriends cousin told one my friends.. well the guy his cousin told is somebody to chill wit but not somebody to tell that kinda stuff to cause he'll tell everybody.. he's done it before.. so should i let it go and forget it or is there something i can do.. before it gets to everybody.? please help cause i dont wanna be made out to be a hoe or something.. i rather our business stay between us..Thanks alot LaDessa..

act like it doesnt bother you one bit...and if people call you a hoe say no a hoe is someone who sleeps around with random guys....this guy is your boyfriend....dont act like it bothers you and if he trys to spread it around ask him if he has a life because thats pretty stupid hes gotta go tell your business like that he must have nothing better to do....and if it gets really bad go talk to him and threaten to say stuff about him if he doesnt shut his mouth soon

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i just lost my virginity nd now im freakin out cuz we were dumbasses nd didnt use ne thin i forget wen i last had my period nd i don remember wen im supposed to get it next nd im like freakin out bout maybe bein pregnant or sumthin wut r my chances of bein pregnant?? i kno that there is a chance cuz theres always a chance but like is it a big chance or a small chance lol idk im freakin out so sumone lemme kno! thnx!!!

ur chances r VERRRRRy high (not 2 scare u) if he didnt take his dick out b4 he nutted....if he did and none got on u or in u....then ur gonna b okay...but if he kept it in then u got a very high cchance....good luk

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