I'm 15. Been in a relationship so far with an amazing guy for two years. I absolutely love helping other people, although I might not always be of any help, I try my best! I'm not a judgemental person, nor do I ever intent to be.
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Age: 15
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probably not in the right category but do guys find it sexy when a girl has muscle definition?
for example i have muscular quads and calves. and i have a slight outline of a sixpack but im not like ripped or anything. and you dont have to tell me that i should find someone who likes me the way i am because i've already done that and he likes every bit of me but i was just wondering in general do guys think its sexy if girls are muscular. (link)
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Hope you dont mind, but i asked my boyfriend his opinion. He said he wouldn't find it attractive if a girl has huge arm muscles and like an eight pack. But he said he feels it's deffinatley a turn on when a girl has a tight stomach and legs, and maybe a little bit of an arm muscle, nothin too bulchy though. After he told me that, I got a membership at the gym, ha. I hoped this helped!
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so my dischare is transparent and clumpy. it doesnt smell or anything. is this bad though?
cos i hear it's suppost to be liquid. (link)
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No your fine. It comes out how it comes out, some people are different. Watch out for the color though. And smells too. But from the sound of things, you're all good.
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I'm 16/f. I don't know how I'm going to tell a guy, who I might possibly want relationship with, about my sexual history. I've had sex with three guys, I feel terrible about it and one of the guys wasn't even planned (I was almost passed out drunk when it happened, if I was sober it never would have happened) The first guy is the only justifyed one because I went out with him for a year, and we did it on your 6 months. The second guy was to get over the first guy (he ended up being abusive and I needed to feel loved by someone) I was 15 when all of that happened and I haven't had sex since. But I don't know how a guy will react to hearing that I've already slept with 3 guys and I'm only 16. I regret it every day and it makes me feel guilty thinking about it. I've taken a vow to not have sex until I'm with a guy I truly love (and sure about his intentions) for at least 6 months. I'm afraid guys will be disgusted by it or think I'm a slut if I tell them about the three guys and not want to go out with me, but the other 2 guys were truly mistakes. Do I tell tell a guy everything or not tell him about all of them & is there any chance the guy won't care? :/ (link)
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I hope this makes yu feel better. I lost my virginity at 13, I'm now 15 an only had sex wit two guys (I'm currently with the second for two years) I told him about my first, an it was a breeze to him. He had sex wit 3 girls before me, I was his 4th and he's only now 17. Most guys now days, have been around the block. Most aren't virgins and haven't been one for awhile. So if I were you I would tell him about it and just explain to him that two were a big mistake. If he loves you, he'll understand.
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Okay, so I’ve kinda lied about my sexual experience. Not just to one person, but to everyone I know. When I was 14, some of my friends started losing their virginity. And I didn’t want to be the odd one out, so there was this guy that they knew I liked, and he was moving. So I told them (untruthfully) that I had sex with him the night before he left. They didn’t have his number or anything so I knew they wouldn’t ask him. Anyway, so all my friends thought I wasn’t a virgin anymore. And whenever people would ask me I’d always say I wasn’t, usually because I was with my friends.
Now I’m 17 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve just never had a boyfriend that I was serious enough with to have sex with him. Well now, I’m really serious with my boyfriend and I’m totally into him, and given the chance I would definitely have sex with him. We’ve come very close a couple times, but I was drunk so he wouldn’t go through with it. The problem is he thinks I’m not a virgin, but I am.
I’m afraid that I’m not gonna know what to do when the time comes that we actually do have sex. I mean, if he knew it was my first time, I wouldn’t be so worried, but he’s probably gonna expect that I know what I’m doing, and he’s not a virgin so he’s gonna know.
I don’t want him or anyone else to know that I lied about it, so I need to find a way to make it work so that he doesn’t know I’m a virgin. I know I might bleed and that’ll give it away, but if he says anything about that then I know I’ll just say something like he’s bigger than the last guy I had sex with. So anyway my questions are: (they may be dumb but bear with me)
1. What should I do with my hands while he’s actually thrusting? Like what’s gonna be the hottest for him?
2. Should I kiss him during?
3. Should I give him a blowjob first?
4. How do I subtly let him know that I want him to lead? (most important) Because if he’s leading, that’ll probably take the pressure off me a little bit.
5. I’ve heard that sometimes the guy doesn’t fit…how do I make sure that doesn’t happen to me?
Please don’t give me any of that lecture “if you’re not ready…” stuff. I’ve been ready for a long time I just haven’t had the right guy.
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Honestly, you must care about him a lot if you're willing to have sex with him. So if you truely care about him, then I'd tell him the truth. Trust me on this one, lies catch up with you and it could ruin a good thing. but to answer your questions...
there's no way to have sex right.
Go with the flow, when it's happening, you're not going to really be thinking about every little detail. Kissing makes it more intiment. Everything will fall in place, if you're ready, just go for it!
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Ok im 17/f .. Im about to be 18 in august and im like really wanting to have a baby..like REALLLY REALLLLY BAD..and im on birth control would it be wrong if I stopped taking my birth control without my boyfriend knowing just to get pregnant?..we want a baby just not now maybe in 5 years he said. But I want one now... (link)
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Well I know that I'm like three years younger then you but I hope this atleast helps. My boyfriend is seventeen and we've been together for over two years. I asked him about your question. He told me that if you were me, and I stopped taking my birth control before telling him, he would be PISSED. If I were you I would talk to him about wanting to have this baby. Maybe he wants to also, he might just be afraid of what comes with it. I don't if it helped but I hope so. I just feel that if you really care about your boyfriend then you wouldn't just spring something like that on him.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month, and he's already trying to do sexual things with me. Yesterday, he fingered me. And today he tried going up my shirt. I didn't really care, except he like, stuck my hand down his pants. For some reason, it made me feel like hes using me or something. I really love him, and I hope he's not. But I need other opinions.
Is he using me just to do stuff to me or get stuff done to him? (link)
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A month? Hmm.. well I'm not saying he's deffinately using you because I obviously don't know him. He may just be doing these things before he feels that's what you'd want. Talk to him about it. If you don't feel comfortable talking about it, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. I'm 14, and he's turning 15. We haven't had sex, but we have talked about it. The problem is, there are other couples in my school having sex that haven't even been together that long. Basically, I'm pressured all the time to have sex with him. I feel like we have waited way too long and if everyone else is, then why aren't we? I know I should wait until I'm ready..but it's been over a year and I feel like we have to. What should I do. (link)
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I'll put it like this. I'm 15. My boyfriend is 17. We've been together for two years. I've been having sex since I was 13. If I could, I would have waited much longer before I lost my virginity. If I were you, I would wait a little longer until you know if he's the right one. Because I lost mine to a boy older than me that I thought I was in love with. Well I was only with him for 5 months. I really wish my current boyfriend would of been my first, but unfortunately I felt pressured. Trust me, your not missing much. If you waited this long with him and he's still with you, then there's no reason not to wait longer. Personally, I think that will make your relationship stronger. Hope I helped. =]
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