Hey I'm Anjela I'm from CA livin it up...started the site so I can give some advice to people. I've been to peer counceling classes so I know how to handle the "hard" questions about mostly anything...so ask away.
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My boyfriend & I have been trying to have a baby for the past 4 months, but I can not get pregnant! We already know his sperm is good because he has 2 kids from a previous relationship. Could having a disease cause someone not to get pregnant? What kind of disease? How do you know if you are in-fertile? Why would I be in-fertile? WHY CAN'T I GET PREGNANT!?!? :0( (link)
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go to DOCTOR
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I'm 22/m and my sister just turned 16. We're very close with one another and usually can share anything. Recently, however, she has become more sexually explorative, which is fine, but now seems to be obsessed by it. She told me yesterday that she wants to hook up with this 19 year old freshman in college that I know. They're not dating, but are considering getting to know each other. My sister used to be so righteous and moral and I feel that she's going to just end up hurt with this new sexual discovery. She's thinking about getting ahotel room with this guy this weekend. What should I do? I don't want her to get hurt and frankly, I don't want her to turn into a slut. Thanks =Concerned Brother= (link)
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If i was this girls brother...1st off the guy wouldnt be alive and 2nd the sister would get some sense talked into her
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice? (link)
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"Mom...I got my period"...she'll probably want to take you out for lunch and give you lots of hugs..so be ready
~Anjela
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I was having a conversation with a guy about sex between the same sex, and of course he was very excited to hear about my girlfriends and I open mind in the subject. After I told him about a personal experience, he felt free and conferrable to tell about his with another man. The feeling of disappointment and discuss was automatic, and he asked me to explain why? where is the difference? why was it okay for me, and so wrong for him? I was out of words, there where no explanations, this has never been open for discussion. At this point I think that maybe if I can't be open minded about both ways of same sex relationships then I need to rethink my ideas of two girls together.
How does everyone feel, and if the same as me, how would you explained. why do we accept to girls and not two men? (link)
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It really matters on the person wether they decide if they want to "accept" that idea or not. Tell him that you have your views and he has his.
~Anjela
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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help! (link)
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You need to get checked out by a doctor...periods might be affected by changing what you eat or exercise or even stress...so I suggest get checked out.
~Anjela
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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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There's nothing wrong with you...it's called hormones..everyones got em..yes that includes you. That's how the human brain works for most people.
~Anjela
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP! (link)
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Hm..you know rumors spread fast..there's really nothin you can do to make them stop calling you names..it'll blow over sooner or later...just ignore it as long as you know the truth that's all that matters.
~Anjela
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
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Well first off..you will not be deamed a "slut"...you need to know that you're ready to go to the next step sexual wise. Remember that it's only your boyfriend's and your business what you do especially because you've been together for so long. Now your "cherry" can only "pop" when something is put up there so yes it probably will but it DOES NOT mean that you were devirginized...it MIGHT hurt you..it really depends on the guy and you. good luck with the decision
~Anjela
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