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Our memories countless
Our friendship endless
There are things you don’t want to happen*
There are things you don’t want to know but you learn*
There are things you don’t want to know but you have to accept*
&& there are people you can’t* live without && maybe your just one of them?
do you think this quote fits for sa friend whos moving? but what do you think this quote means to you?
I think that quote is perfect for whats going on. To me that quote says that you had a good time with your best friend, & there are things you don't want to happen (such as moving) but you have to accept it, but at the same time you'll still miss them. I hope I helped :)
another question.
i'll try to eliminate as much detail as i can, so it won't be so long, but here goes. when i was 11, i used to play neopets (haha) and this other girl and i started talking on there, and then we talked on msn, and AIM and that was five years ago. i went and am currently going through some depression, and i lost a lot of my friends, just normal teenager things, blahblah. she is the ONLY person that has ever fully been there for me, and the only person that i can tell absolutely everything to. we talk every day, and we know eachother's most personal secrets. we're seriously best, best friends and i've never had a friendship like this in my entire life. i'm 100% POSITIVE that she's a 14 year old girl, living where she says she lives, with the people she says she lives with, and has the friends that she says she has. i'm certainly not a pedophile, and i know she isn't either, and we really, really want to meet so we can hang out in real life and not feel so weird saying we've never met our best friend. the problem is that we have no idea how to go about doing it. we were originally going to go to a summercamp together and then just tell our parents that we had met at the summercamp so that they'd let us hang out in real life, but that's pretty unrealistic. if i told my parents about her, i think they'd just be nervous and worried that i gave her a lot of my information, but i know they wouldn't make us stop talking, it's her parents we're worried about. we're worried that if she tells her parents about me, in an effort to arrange a meeting for us, that they'll freak out and forbid her from talking to me. we thought about having me tell my parents, because they'd be more understanding, and then have my parents call and talk to her's on the phone, so they'd know i'm really only a 16 year old girl, but she doesn't know if her parents would believe that they're my parents, and not some pedophiles. how should we go about telling our parents, or meeting, or whatever? we only live a state away, but neither of us can like, drive and meet, but we don't want to sacrifice our friendship by telling our parents about each other.
I was in the same situation not that long ago. My best friend lives two states away from me, and we were friends for four years before we finally met. We had to talk to our parents about it, and they finally agreed. My best friend was here for a week this past summer.
So maybe, if you don't mind telling your parents, just say that you would really like to meet her, and you know she's not a pedophile and all that. Maybe both your parent's and her's would agree to meeting, like having lunch or something? That way you could see her more often if they met. I'm not sure how else you could do that, but I hope I helped & I hope things work out!
I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?
Friends. I don't have a bf but if I did I'd try to spend an equal amount of time with them both.
okay so i just started proactive for my face, and does anyone know if it acutally works and how long
I used it for two months & it didn't work, but it works differently on everyone. So keep trying it for a little while and see what happens.
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I'm not going to prom b/c i have an AP physics final test two days later and i don't want to get distracted. But, my friends are mad at me b/c they are seniors and its our last year to go to a dance as a big group-their being mean "subtley"-like they'll slip in some mean things-wat do i do? and how do i not feel so miserable?
I think you should go. It's your last year at school & you shouldn't miss out. You can study for the test after you get home from it and the days before it. =)
ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Tell her something such as "I really don't want to hurt your feelings or break our friendship, but I just want you to stop lying about everything. You don't have to lie to make yourself cool, I think you're cool just the way you are. And I really don't want to see you get hurt if someone were to find out you were lieing." Yeah, it sounds like I've been through this before or something, but I really haven't. I hope you and her work this out! =)
i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hang out with her everyday until she moves. You should also get her address and phone number so you guys can keep in touch. =)
my family and just switched to a new church that my cousin goes to. My youth group is taking a trip to flordia to a camp and we just moved so i don't know anyone. i really dont want to go alone and i asked my cousin if she was coming and she said she doesn't know. and i dont think she likes me very much but i really cant tell. the trip is this month and I'm scared that i'll be all alone.
Don't be scared to go alone. This trip will give you a chance to meet the people from the church and enjoy the camp at Florida. From what I've heard, church camps are very fun. And if your cousin's going, it might give her a chance to get to know you better. =)
Ok i need some help. I'm 15, 5'2, kinda pretty I guess?? not the prettiest and not the ugliest girl in the school. The problem is that I'm shy. I know people tell me this all the time. I'm not shy around my friends at all, but when it comes to meeting new people I just dont know what to talk about! Nothing comes to mind when I'm around new people. and i dont want to say something stupid like "wow the weather is nice" or whatever. Help me! What should I say?? How do I become more outgoing with people? I think If i were more outgoing I might meet new people and meet new friends. am i right or wrong?
I'm the same way. But what you should do is ask them questions like "What's your favorite ..." and maybe they'll have the same likes as you and you can become good friends. =)
ok whenever my friends get together i get jealous like that i'm not invited...i mean obviously i cant be invited to everything but i get jealous anyway..is there something wrong with me?
Nope, there's nothing wrong with you at all. I'm sorta in this situation as well. Maybe you should ask your friends why they never invite you along. You can find out if you're doing anything wrong and fix it. =)