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i have no idea what to get my best friend for her sweet 16.
Money is not a big problem so if you have any good ideas for gifts please leave a link to the gift or tell me what it is
thanks =)
I gave my best friend a "Free Monthly Magazine" delivered every month, and paid for it online. She loved it a lot. If that doesnt work then try a homemade gift card, and some form of personalized jewelry. You can spend on an engraved ring or a Tiffany necklace or charm braclet with an engraved charm. Like or you can make a sort of scrapbook filled with memories and pictures and just basically things that remind you of her.. But before doing what I suggested already, get her something she would like. You know her, you know what she likes and dislikes.. you know what is special to her and keep that in mind while chosing her gift. I hope she likes whatever you give her.
i've recently started talking to a friend again. we haven't talked for so long, and now that we started, i don't really wanna stop. but everytime we start talking to each other, there's some awkward silences every now and then. what are some things i can talk to him about? i'm a girl and he's a guy, if that helps. he likes poetry and a lof of the things we've been talking about is about life. we don't go to the same school and he's a year older than me.
what are things i can/should talk to him about?
thanks.
To make awkward silences from happening just say whatever comes into your mind. Like if you see something and are observing it, then say look at that. Or if you like something about him compliment it. Like if he gets out some of his poetry. Talk about life, and about your day. Something funny will keep him more interested. You really have to think of what to say and really work out on it. He probably wont care if its stupid or out of nowhere as long as you have a subject to talk about then thats completely fine. Or on the other hand get to know him more by asking him questions about himself. Or do the 20 question game. Again let him do the talking if you dont know what to do!
I have known this guy for a couple weeks, and he doesnt trust girls at all. He's gotten hurt in the past, and you can just see the hurt in his eyes. He acts tough just to try to forget about it. What can i do? I care about him.
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Support him when he needs it. He seems really in need for you or people. Comfort him, get to know him more as an individual. Once you know somewhat about this guy who has gotten hurt, you can maybe help him with his problems, and he will feel comfortable with you. Help him out with anything he needs help with. Just show him you care by doing special stuff for this guy. In time he will feel better about this and appreciate you for it!
Ok here's the deal, My friend and my bf can't stand eachother. Now my bf doesn't care if I hang out with my friend he just says while I'm with her he won't be around. My friend doesn't want me going out with him. She told me to dump him because she "Just doesn't like him." Should I try talking to her again or get rid of her or what? i've been friends with her for awhile but I don't know what to do.
Well that sucks. Guys dont really care about girl problems they just go with the flow on everything. You know what it really doesnt matter what your friend thinks of him, she could hate him or even worse more stuff she doesnt want you to be with him. The point is you are the one with the feelings for him. Not your friend. And if she did then that would be a different story. You aren't doing anything wrong. It's just your friend, and your bf. They must get along...have them talk it out and maybe have a deep talk with the 2 of them. That is totally immature and stupid how they hate each other. They need to stop this. Its annoying and tell them to look on your point of view. Dont get rid of your friend, help her out with this, but if she just will not do what you say then I do suggest it. But you guys have been friends for a long time, so stay strong! Dont worry this mess will end sometime soon. Stay true to your heart, and expalain that this is ridiculous so everyone can get along!
I dated this guy for a month.
He's a nice guy, but have bad temper. There're so much differences between us. HOwever, we also have the same option on the overall view of life. We fighted a lot (2 out of 3 times when we went out)considered the period of time we dated.
Now, he doesn't talk to me at all. No emails, no txt, no calls. I know we couldn't work out as couple, but I'd like still be friend, but he obviously doesn't want to...what do I do?
You have to understand that most relationships arent perfect and couples do get in fights. If you know that you guys arent going to work, then believe your intuition and follow it. It's your best instinct to everything in life! Since he isnt communicating with you through emails and text etc. Then what do you think he is trying to tell you? If you know that things arent going right for you and a guy you are dating then the best choice is to just leave him...but since you said that you still like to be his friend. Maybe that would be better for the both of you! I bet it would work if you guys starting to go back to the friend mode. Try it and if he doesnt want to then thats his problem. He shouldn't make it a big deal for you. It's your life, and he just wants to make it difficult so the best is up to you!!
I have had bad experiences with throwing parties, but im getting baptized and its very important. So, i really should throw a celebrations. And i guess it really wouldnt be a 'party', but a dinner. But Im afraid that besides the food, there would be anything to do, and I am nervous thart no one will come, or everyone will be mad tht they came. We are having it at a big townhouse, but my list has expanded to about thirteen different families, and about fifty people (because its a dinner, parents will be coming also), but I need ideas to calm my nerves, so it doesnt end up corny or boring.
You can talk. Since there's going to be a lot of people. Socializing does quit the silences whenever the party is happening. Write down any ideas that pop into your mind. Like for example, do some games that people will enjoy. Dont act like you dont know what you are doing. Have everyone watch a movie or something. Put some music in and have everyone dance!!!! That will sure to make everyone alive and not bored. Put some slow songs and some songs that people can just break dance to. That would be total fun! Make up some activites where some people can participate in like a game show where they have to answer questions or like that. Whatever you do have fun at the party it will be great!!