Hey all. My name is Jordan Rae. I love helping people and being helped myself when I need it. I am a Christian and proud of it, so if you have any questions at all, or any discussion points, let me know!!! :D
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I have this friend who I'm really getting close to, and I really like her a lot. She seems more awesome each time I talk to her. She is a wonderful christian gal that has a passion for the Lord. You could say that there is almost no problems with our relationship. But sometimes-and you'll have to forgive me for the broadness of this next statement-it seems like there is little tiny problems that are extremely trivial at the moment and I'm not entirely sure how to deal with them. If you could give me some advice as to how to deal with these small problems, other than consulting God, because I have and I believe that he wants me to get advice from a fellow believer. Thank you,
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Well, thank you for your question.
Mmk. I think this is the hardest question I've received yet, but I'll do my best.
Your relationship with this girl sounds amazing. First of all I want to say STAY FRIENDS WITH HER! No one wants to lose a friend. Especially a good one (i'm assuming you are). Well, I'm sorry that you are having little tiny problems. Is this like... you're not sure if she likes you that way kind of thing? if so, maybe you should ask her about her morals, standards, whatever you want to call them. Maybe she does want to date you, but the subject hasn't been broughten up much, so she hasn't gotten to tell you how she really feels. But if she doesn't want to date you and she thinks of you as just a really great friend, cherish that and hold on to it. No relationship is greater than a strong friendship. Or if she doesn't want to date at all, respect her choice and reassure her that you'll be there for her and remain her friend.
Well, that was a long enough answer and if i didn't answer your question at all, you can just disregard this. heh.
Just remember, with a lot of love comes just as much hate. So don't get into anything too deep or let things just fade away. Strong friendships are best. :D.
Under His Love, jordan rae
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