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For the record, Daniel is a real loser. robbin the cradle does make ahim a loser

You know what, FUCK YOU. I've had about enough of this. If you don't like it, IGNORE IT. He's not robbing the cradle thank you, we're LEGAL. If you have a problem with me and Danny, say it to my face bitch.

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my friend rebecca is dating this daniel dignazio loser. how can i get her away from this jackass?

No possible way. Sorry, but I love him. He's not a loser or a jackass, i don't know who you are but fuck you anyways. If you have beef with Danny take it up with him, he's here so feel free to respond.

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ok there is this guy at school that i lyk and he lyked me too but then he met my friend and now he stoped talking to me and now talks with my best friend all the time. Now he doesnt lyk me nomore, he now lyks her and now she lyks him. she knows that i lyk him and stuff but i dont think she understands wat i feel for him to be lyking her and not me....wat should i do?....ooyeah i am 15 and female

Tell her and him how you feel about it. Never shut your emotions up. Sorry it's short but that sums it up right there. Good luck to you.

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okay i have this friend who ive only known for like a year and weve only been good friends for like a couple months but anyways he is going out with my bestfriend ..and i mean i hate when people my age (14) say i love you if you can tell they dont mean it but i KNOW they do and i hangout with them like everyday and i have so much fun with them they are the two people i can honestly say i trust i love them both to death they are my bestfriends... but this kid got charged for raping these two girls..but he didnt do anything like that he would never do that...they are just stupid and try to start shit and thats not something to joke around with and so he was locked up for 2 months until he went to court...and his gf's (my bff) mom found out she said she wanted her to have NOTHING to do with him..he got out and we were over there everyday and she had been lying to her mom but then we got cought the other day and her mom was bullshit and told my mom the whole story and now we cant see him because neither of them want us going over there...my mom says i can talk on the phone with him and stuff and maybe go over in a little while when he gets off house arrest but i feel so bad he is my bestfriend and she loves him and he is the only one she has besides like me and a few others.... please helpp

I don't know what to tell you. You can try telling your mom that he wouldn't do that and you know it, but I don't know if it will work. If it doesn't, then just give it a little time.

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this one guy that used to be my best friend is being so mean to me lately and there is so much i wish i could talk to him about cause i really need some help but he doesn't giv a shit about me and it pisses me off cause i need him so much and i care about him. wat do u think i should do? just ignore him or tell him how i feel? (not that that will make a difference) thanx!!!

No difference or not, tell him how it makes you feel when he does this, and ask him why. If he still doesn't respond differently, leave him be for a while. He'll eventually come around. He's probably just going through some things right now. Good luck to you :)
Becca

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Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!!

Well it seems like she really wants to be your friend. I think you should give her a second chance just dont trust her you know? Accept the gift..gifts are always nice :)

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okay well i met this girl a year ago.. at her b/d party at the time she had a b/f after a while we started talking and i told her her b/f didnt treat her the way she should be treated.. so after a while so she broke up with him and we started liking each other.. but we never hooked up or anything.. after a while we started fighting and we stopped talking.. then she got a b/f after a while and by the beginning of this summer we started talking again and we became really close and started to like each other again.. so she stopped going out with her b/f and she even told me one day "one of the reasons im not with him is u" and now we talk every single day all the time and we hooked up a couple of times a lil while ago but she wont anymore cuz she says she doesnt want a b/f and she doesnt wanna lead me on or something but at the same time she likes me or would get mad at me if i hook up with another girl.. we hang out every weekend and we have fun all the time.. my question is what should i do cuz she wont give me a chance?

Actually I think shes being quite selfsih if she gets mad at you when you hook up with another girl, yet she thinks its okay for her to hook up with other guys. She probably just needs some time. If she says she doesn't wanna lead you on and that she likes you, then I guess she likes you. Just keep doing what you're doing but don't beg her for a relationship, that will bug the crap out of her. Hope I helped.
Becca

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i hav this friend and when we are in a public place he totally ignores me! i mean he comes over to my house and everything but as soon as we are in public he doesn't want anything to do with me...wat should i do? wat should i say to him? i really don't wanna lose his friendship!!

Tell him how you feel about it. If he's embarassed to be seen with you then he's not worth being YOUR friend.

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theres this one girl who calls me a whore...then she tells everyone else that I am N sum of the people she tells r guys...so they all wanna get sum from me but like...she hardly knew me so I dont kno y she called me a whore...its really messing up my life...I tried ignoring it but it just got way out of hand

Well this girl isn't very nice. Next time a guy wants some from you...tell him to go back and get it from her. Or else, simply say that you in fact are NOT a whore and that you won't do such things. Let this girl talk cause eventually it will get old if she sees it isn't phasing you. If that doesn't work...kick her ass.

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hey its me caleb i wanna know what to do about me and this girl i just met shes 12 and im 13 she about the same weight as me and the same height we both like each other and she thinks im hot what should i do i wanna ask her some personal stuff but, the question i really wanna know is what do i do. Do i ask her out on a date or do i ask her about her boyfriend and try to squeeze in between both of them get to know them both then ask him if its ok or do u have any other suggestions i should do besides that. O and i wanna know how u join this website i wanna answer questions too. Anyways im me or e-mail me u can ask me for my e-mail im not gonna put it on the internet that would be stupid. lol ttyl

Um..it wouldn't be smart to ask her boyfriend if you could go on a date with her. Ask her how she feels about you and tell her how you feel about her. Ask her if she wants to hang out or something. That should work. If you have any more questions, you know what to do. Hope I helped :)

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im 12, i fall for this awesome girl. after a few days of flirting she finally shows signs of her liking me too. a few more days pass, she tells me she likes me. Time passes and my best friend tells me to go for it. I hesitate. i wait to long. during P.E i finally decide to ask her out, but to my surprise. My best friend, has been with her this whole time, She lied to me and I start to hate them both. im stuck in the same elementry as them so i see them together everyday, i act as its ok but my rage for them grows by the day. Everything from this moment on just piles up becasue i don't let it out.2 years pass, im 14, i hate myself and pretty much everyone (im serious here) im disrespectful, i don't care, i have a short temper and i wouldn't hesistate to beat up anyone who got me mad, if they were stronger than me id still find a way to get them. i struggle in hi school, my best grade yet is a c+. my family says blames them self because they think they can never make me happy. they r wrong,they do but there is a permenant anger inside my heart that brings me down and makes it hard for me to smile. I can seem nice, but its all a show. i just had to put that here, i dunno y. its long story put short so u may not understand it.

I don't really know what you are questioning, but my best advice is to see a psychiatrist or talk to someone and get it out. I would hate them both too, but maybe you should just let it go. A lot of people in your life time are going to betray you and lie to you. Its just something you have to get used to. So don't trust so easily..people are deceiving. If you have anymore questions, IM me or drp it in the inbox.

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hello..im working on my profile and i need a good website that has scroll bars...cursers...the lines thru the page...pop ups...music codes...welcome sign...and n e thing else wuld help! thanx send as many websites as u can i will rate high!thanx

for music..try www.moozik-jamz.com it has really awesome stuff. For a profile, I'd try www.subprofile.com or www.madprofile.com. And for html codes..try this http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#star. They have really good stuff.

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Well i have been friends with this one guy who wears his mom's thongs, bras, and pantyhose. Everytime i'm talking to him on AOL, he always asks me if i can give him one of my thongs. He also always asks me if i get creeped out by it. I always lie and tell him no even thought it does. I don't want to hurt his feelings but he starts to creep me out because he swears he's not gay. Should i be supiscious...and how do i know if he's lying. I need some advice...Thanks

Just because he does that doesn't mean hes gay. He may just be a cross dresser. If he's very stylish and tell you that you're outfit is last season then hes probably gay. I would get creeped out to but hes your friend and no matter what he decides to do you should stick by him.

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I live in a TINY town. 4 all you other people who do too, what are some fun things to do without driving to the big city?

OMG I HATE IT! Um...go camping? hug a tree, go for a walk...? stay at home and be bored lol. thats about what i do...cept for the tree-hugging part..im not that in touch with nature lol.

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OMG!! I really can't take this anymore! Ok well all my friends and all are like you changed blah blah!! ANd i dont get the bigg deal it not like they havent changed either! Just cuz im turnin a lil Skater !!! I dont get the big deal and im really sick and tired of it .. what should i do and i tried talkin 2 them but it doesnt work at all !! Please Help me !! I dont kno what i wanna do and i feel like ______
Signed
FED UP!

its okay to change. If thats what you wanna be, then its wrong of them to try to stop you from doing something you like. Never change just to make someone happy so if they don't like it they're just gonna have to deal with it, they'll come around eventually.

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k well my friend tells me that shes goin out w/ this boi from by her dads house and wen he asked her out she asked this another boi named matt wat 2 say and he tells her 2 say yea and and she does and i got mad at her (im over it now and her other friends that got mad r 2 and i was just like w/e i dont give wat ne1 does this yr) and now i think she just made this kid up cuz i was talkin 2 her on AIM and shes like u wanna talk 2 jake her "bf" and im like idc and he IM's me and it was wierd cuz like he would IM me and i would say sumthing 2 her and him at almost tha same time and 1 would say my friend is typin then after she sent tha IM it would say he is typin and then hes like bbl g2g ttyl 2 me and im like k bye and then shes like bbl and she put her away up then he signed off like less than 10 seconds later

It definitely sounds like your friend is making this kid up. Even if she did copy something he said, her font would only be the same on the window she pasted it to. I think that you should calmy try talking to her about it, and if not, then you should give up. True friends don't lie to eachother and if she can lie about this what else is she lying about?

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i have been friends with this guy for like a year now well since last summer and we stoped talkin after i moved but now that i have moved back we started talkin more now and we r starting to hang out together alot more and i am starting to like him he is one of my first love...(ex boyfriends) friends what should i do should i tell him or keep it on the dL cuz i am scared he will freak out and it will mess up or friend ship but then agian i am scared that if i don't tell him then i will neva have a chance wit him..... plz help me what should i do...

"Always tell someone how you feel, mean what you say and say what you mean, opportunities are lost in the blink of an eye but regrets can last a
l i f e t i m e"....think about it

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ok here's the story: my friend ali was going out wit this kid chris (i hooked them up) then they broke up and he was telling me how much he liked me and how cute i am and how sweet and stuff. well i was all into it and i relized that i like him. the day after they got back together and i was crushed. i now feel like i am breaking them up cause i told ali that i like him. oh yeah THEY NEVER MET EACHOTHER!!!! i met him at the local theme park. I feel realli bad tho i think i am tearing them apart... what should i do?

A relationship isn't going to last with someone she never met...I dont understand why people do that. They really dont have anything if they never met eachother and are never around eachother!!! Just wait it out cause they will break up sooner or later.

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hey, I have a friend who is mad at me for sumthin I did N now she's takin it out on my other friend N she's really hurtin her...wut do ya think I should do?

Maybe you should talk to the friend thats mad at you, ask her why she is taking it out on your other friend..and make sure you tell your other friend (the one thats getting hurt) that shes only saying those things out of anger. You should discuss with your friend why she is mad, and try to resolve things. Try asking her nicely if she would please stop taking her anger out on other people. Try that...hope I helped some!

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Is it ok for your best friend to kiss the guy that you like a lot?

I don't think it is. If she had the same respect for you as you do for her, she wouldn't kiss this guy. You should tell her how you feel about it, and ask her how she feels too. If you don't want to throw away this friendship, talk things out with her, and come to an agreement. Good luck!

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