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hey, i'm sarah.
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Okay, 3 of my very good friends think they're fat... and they're NOT!!! we're only 13 years old and they've been going on all these diets. They hardly eat anything at lunch! I cant convince them that they're not fat! I'm really afraid they're going to go anorexic or bulemic. I dont know what to do, or what to say to them to convince them they're not fat. I've talked to them MANY times about it, but they just dont believe me. It really bugs me that they think they're fat, cuz they're not fat AT ALL! please help me!

there's a couple things you can do:
1) Give 'em a taste of their own medicine. @ all times (just for a little or untill they stop), start psychin' out on them, complaining about yourself, and see what they do. Or,
2) Go somewhere with just you and them, and tell them calmly (or crazily) that they're NOT fat, and if they can't realize that they need a new friend or
3) Go on a hunger strike, and if they really care about you, they'll start eating normally (or something of the type.)

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Well ther is a boy I like at school who is really ugly but hez extremely funny and none of my friends know cuz they have crushes on him too! So this is a total secret but anywayz hez like my best friend thts a guy! Well Monday  he had a bee stinger stuck in him and well he hasn't been to school since monday.... i know this is really stupid but i'm scared hez allergic to bees and they couldn't get the stinger out...I am scared okay! I have his number cuz its in our school directory...but I wouldn't call him unless my friends were over n i'm havin one come over saturday..if he doesn't show up at school tomorrow should i call n see if hez ok? Also tell me if I should be scared!

Please Help Me I am soooooo scared!

1f you reall1 care, just ca11 and ask h1m!!! how he feels, and 1f he's ok! g0od luck

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ok welll im for bush and this one group of my friends are completely anti-bush. and whenever they start talking about the election they totally bash bush in front of my face. they say mean things about him that arnt true. and it really bothers me.....and like i feel like there almost attacking me whenever i tell them that bush was a good leader...what do i do?

ohm dont worry... im in the same situation, (except i like kerry) like every1 i know is 4 bush, but its not a bad thing. express your opinion. sometimes its even fun to debate stuff.

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I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him?

unless, you really like him and believe he wouldnt cheat on u, dont count on him... u dont want a bf who cheats

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OMG!! I really can't take this anymore! Ok well all my friends and all are like you changed blah blah!! ANd i dont get the bigg deal it not like they havent changed either! Just cuz im turnin a lil Skater !!! I dont get the big deal and im really sick and tired of it .. what should i do and i tried talkin 2 them but it doesnt work at all !! Please Help me !! I dont kno what i wanna do and i feel like ______
Signed
FED UP!

If you choose to be a little "skater" its your choice, and if theyre really your friends, theyll understand. what you wear, and what sport u choose is completely your decision, and if theyre mad @ u for doing what you want, then that's theyre problemo.

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ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her

don't worry about it... i get scared really easily w/ scary movies 2... if you know your gonna be scared, just don't watch them. as for a girl, i think she wont mind if cuddle up against her lmao... she's prolly just as scared, and shed be happy.

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my best friend is having her sweet 16 on september 4th. my question is, does anyone know any good sites online to shop at? like girly stores. thanks.

bed bath and beyond, the body shop, i would try getting her like a certificate to go to a spa all day with you; it's a great present that both of you can enjoy
'.:sarah:.'

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I've always been one of those people who got along with almost everyone. LAst year there was a girl that really didn't like me and I didn't know why. I still don't. Everyone thought she felt threatened by me, they said I had more friends or I was more punk, i dunno anyway. She's been starting rumors about me like I'm a satan worshipper???? Weird huh? What do you think I should do about her or say to her?

If u didn't do anything to piss her off, then it's not your fault, and (lmao) "satan worshipper?" i mean, come on. that's not even a good insult. if she feels threatened by you, just talk to her, and try to set everything staight.

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I have this friend. Well I think we are friends. We used to hang out all the time. This summer things changed. Nothing really changed with her boyfriend and things have been a little wierd. She does get into fights with him... alot... but b4 she used to always tlk to me about it. Now she talkes to other ppl and yea. We have been in a fight lately... and ppl have been tellin me and her both that we tlk about each other really bad... but the other day when I tlked to her she seemed lyk she didnt believe me about not saying anything bad about her. I really didnt say anything and I want to be friends with her. I dont know if she is lying to mr about being friends or not.I mean we used to go crazy about our virginity and stuff... I thought she was gunna loose it first but nvm mind that... I need sum advice... do yOu think we are friends... we are tlking again but I just want to know???

.:*Erika*:.

erika-
if u had a realli good friendship b4, then dont lose it over that. just talk to her about it, and u'll probably find out that she felt teh same way.
.:*-Sarah-*:.

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There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other.

I'm not sure... he could be this old perverted rapist, and you wouldn't know until you met him. I wouldn't meet him unless ur COMPLETELY sure who he is... maybe you could like send someone to see who he really is, or like (lmao) secretly stalk him for a day and just make sure who he is b4 u really meet him.

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