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heyy i am Sarah& i am 13. feel free to ask anything you want i am always here ! =] rate me please !
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this is gonna be long so bare with me!
i was dating this guy from December 23rd to April 24th. he broke up with me because he said that he never got to see me enough. i thought i was in love with him and i would have given up everything for him. i was ready to give him my virginity. i didn't though (thank god) because i found out that he was going around and messing with other girls. i had begged him before i found that out to come back to me and he said "when we start school i'll think about it because i still do love you." well about a month later i met this really amazing guy named tim and we've been together since may 22nd and i love him more than anything in the world. he treats me so great and he would never hurt me like that. i started school today and this girl that i've known since i was really little, she had gone to another elementry school than me, i found out that she might go out with him. i told her not to because of the things he did to me. she wouldn't believe me at all. so i told her if you want to go out with him, fine, but if you come crying to me telling me that he's been messing around with other chicks i'm just gonna say i told you so. she said okay. she told me later in the day that he still had feelings for me and now she's not sure if she wants to go out with him or not.she won't believe anything i say! she thinks i'm just doing it because i'm jealous and i'm not. i love my boyfriend and i DO NOT like this other guy anymore and today i found out that she gave him HEAD and that's she's not a virgin. If she did that to him then that's the only reason why he's gonna want to be with her is because of that. and if he finds out that she's had sex then he's gonna want to have sex with her as well. He treats girls like shit and i can't take it... she came up to me today saying "em, it makes me really annoyed that you say that stuff about rob and it's not even true." i was like okay... and you definately know first hand? she's only known him for a month... NOT EVEN! THEY ARENT EVEN DATING! should i just be straight forward and tell her what he's gonna want from her? or should i let her get hurt?
it seems like ur friend is being a real shithead. let her get hurt because then she will see you were right and for the first couple days if she admits it give her the silent treatment to make her feel bad, but dont wait too long or shell give up so after like 3 days shove it in her face that you were right lol. she deserves it !
alrighty then my best friend that i've been bests friends w/ for like 4 yrs won't speak to me. and i had no idea why until yesterday --- i'm going out w/ chris and i just found out that she had feelings for him and i told her that i'd break up w/ him just so she could try to have him and she wont say a word and i try to talk to her but she just ignores me so i dont know if i should break up w/ chris...i mean i really really like him and he treats me right.....doesnt try to have sex w/ me, he just holds my hand and kisses me, and is always there when i need him most...i just dont know wat to do...help please i need it
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its not your fault, you didnt knoww she liked chris !! and you tell her you'll break up with him but she jus ignores you ? thats really rude. i think you should stay with chris until your friend desides to come back and open up to you again. give her a taste of her own medicene: dont talk to her. it will annoy her cause your not trying to talk to her anymore. and wen she wants to break down and talk, then you 2 will work it out.
I have a big problem. Its this boy that i know but he is my friend though but i like him as more than a friend. But when we are talkin on the phone its like were boy friend and girlfriend.I had went out with him b 4 we b came friends then i ask him would he ever cheat on a girl and he said yes. So should i go back with him?
if hes gonna cheat on you then no way !! its hard when you know you like him but you have to realize he might do something like that. so dont go out with him !
hey - i had these 2 best friends from 6th grade. then in 7th grade i gotta another really close friend. so i became really close with her but started drifting away from the 2 other girls. but now that it's summer i haven't been hanging out with any of the girls. and now those 3 girls have gotten extremly close and do everything together. now it's as if i'm not even there. and i really want their friendships. what do i do
well sinse it seems you might have gotten a little closer to the 1 girl, maybe you should talk to her and start trying to hang out with her again. either that or your 2 other friends. whichever would be more comfortable to you. and maybe you should try doing things with them and try to be better friends again, or wait for school to come and try to get closer through that if you dont want to call them or anything.
Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??
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okay theres a good and a bad side of this: if your really good friends theres a chance of you telling him and he might feel the same. the offset is, if you 2 a that good of friends he might tell you he just wants to stay friends but on top of it all, yes i would tell him.
okay well i have 3 best friends one is emily i've had for 3 years and the other two brittany and meghyn and i spent the night with meghyn and brittany this weekend, and emily is always like your ditching me.. sometimes i feel like i have more fun with brittany and meghyn then emily well see meghyn and brittany are popular and brittany is in my class so we hang out alot.. so hanging out with them makes me popular but emily is not so popular... what do i do about it? me and emily are good friends but sometimes it gets annoying we have been best friends for 3 years.. what do i do? mods please dont delete i really need help.
its okay that you hang out with your 2 other friends , but you shouldnt do that jus cause the fact that their popular. thats a little thing people call "using" explain to emily that they are in your class and you jus are happening to get to know them better ! or maybe you should all 4 try to hang out sometime and maybe your other friends will like emily too. its nice to have new friends but always remember to keep your old ones ;]