WelL im funny..i give really good advice because i had so much stuff happen to me that sum people dun realli understand..im 5'2 im 90 pounds..i have like light brown hair sum blondish highlights..green eyes..uhmm..if u wanna ask me sumthin IM me..hehe
E-mail: sillycow9101@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York/ Long Island
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Age: 13
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female/13 ok ..... I have a friend who that when ever she needs me I am always there , but when it is put the other way around she doesn't do the same for me . I am sick of being in last place , whenever I ask can she go to the mall with me she ditches me to go with some other guy , but if she wants to go and I have am not able to she gets mad and gets an attitude , and when ever we fight it is always MY fault . Like last time she got mad cause I tld my other friend something that I was going through with my amily and I refused to tell her cause she wouldn't understand cause she has both of her parents. What should I do ? (link)
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wow! am i sure i didnt right this? haha ..this sounds so much like my position with one of my friends right now..AND U HATE IT RIGHT!!! urr..whenever she needed boy advice i would give her all the advice..or when she wanted to tell me a story bout one of her dum boyfriends..i woule listen! and then when it came to the point that i wanted to tell HER a story she sed to me straight out *idun realli care* wow that got me mad! yea and she tells ppl all her secrets first and not u and ur best first..but n0 she gotta tell other pppl//but then if u tell sum1 sumthin first she FLIPS! right? shes the kinda person u dun trust..bc in the long run every tyme u do sumthin wrong..she goes out like a baby and tells ppl stuff about u..shes the one that..its all bout her all the tyme..its annnoyin..just tell her the truth..be like *why is it ok if u do this..but then when i do it u flip out?* then i kno what she will say.she would b like *no0o that never happens* and then she will b moody for like a couple of miunutes and then come bak bc thats the kinda person who always comes bak when they need a favor..or they need a tampon..lol..and then we are the kinda ppl who just keep on going bak..start to not give her things..not tell her stuff...and just kinda not tell her things bc as soon as u guys get in a flight she goes and tells ppl..and tats not nice..yikes..lol xOoOx
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Hey, i have a problem. I have this friend and she has a Boy Friend i really want to spend more time with her but she always is talking about him or with him. I HATE IT. i really hope you can help me with this problem, thanks.
Amy =( (link)
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yea i kno how u feel =( but wen i had a dum boyfriend named dave..everytime he signed on i wouldnt talk to any of my friends..and then my friend did that and i was like *wtf why..friends come first* we got in2 a fight..and then i noticed that u shouldnt do that if ur b/f comes on or anything..bc when she did it to me i got pizzed..just tell her..wen she isnt with her b/f be like hey! how come ur different every tyme ur with ur bf? we were friends first and then everytime a boy comes in u gotta act different! AND I HATE IT!
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Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do? (link)
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dah! invite all of them! and say its ur party and u dun want any1 fightin! and u want every1 to met sum1 new
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My friend lets call her "trish" and I both like the same guy!! I told her I liked him first and now she likes him!! I cant believe her!! (link)
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yea this happened with me and my friend..and since my friend is really pretty she ended up gettin the guy..i was mad but i just let it go..but u no what i kno that if i did that to her she would have gotten all mad at me! sum tymes i just dun understand grls sum are so gay! lol..just ask the guy who he likes better..or u could just find another guy this way u adn ur friend dun get into a fight..
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ive known this girl 'jill' for about 2 years. this year at the beginning of the year we got really really close. then i got a boyfriend so things were going great. she even hooked me up with him! what i didnt know is that she liked him and never told me. So after a few days of being together, me, 'jill', my boyfriend, and 'jill's boyfriend all went to 'jill's house then to the movies. my mom picked me up like 3 seconds after the movie ended, so i gave my man a kiss on the cheek and left. what i discovered a few days after that was that when we were at 'jill's house they (her and my current b.f) made out, she pulled him aside saying she needed to talk to him and made out with him (while i was in the room next to them) and they made out after i left the movies. now since we were really close i just let it go (but didnt forgive her... i still havent yet) and this year its been on and off me and her liking the same guy and she always got him. now we were both single for like a month and things were going great, i found a guy! after a month or so of liking this guy, i heard she liked him too. and my friend got a confession out of her that she did so i was a little mad. the other day she told me that she didnt like him, she just wanted to 'break him of his innocence' (hes a good boy lol)... now next week me her and him are going to a party with a bunch of other ppl, and im gonna tell him i like him this week... anyone have advice on what i should do with 'jill'??
thanks... and check out my advice column the name is tmc089 (link)
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wow! this story sounds so firmilar with my friends! lol (old friends) just b like to ur friend..why do u want all the guys i like? thats not that fair..talk about it instead of fightin..ask ur friend why she did that to u..hook her up with sum guy! this way (hopefully) u dun have to worry about it..yea and ask that guy out..and have fun! xO
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my best friend and i are in a huge fight! she is callin my house callin me a hoe/bitch/whore/slut u name it she called it...i still really like her as a friend..but if she keeps on callin me that im gunna try to lay off..u no what i mean? plz write back bc idunno what i should do! (link)
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ok.. well i always get in2 fights with my friends..over boys..just stupid stuff..if they call u dun pick up the phone bc it will only make u sad..grls are realli mean! especially when u like *there* boy..they think that they own every guy they go out with for like 2 days..well guess what that isnt tru at all! i think grls can go out with whoever they like..(but thats just me)....yea and i think u should tell ur friend that ur mad bc she cant treat u like ur nothing! BC U ARENT NOTHING! she is just as important as u are bc u are all from god..! :) and i kno what ur going thro..its hard when ur best friends are mad at u bc then u fell like there is a big piece in ur heart missin bc friends are always there..and as i found out boyfriends just come and go..just tell ur friend ur sry and if she doesnt except it..just dun keep on sayin sry leave her sum tyme to work it out herself..she will call..they always do! lol if u need anymore help just IM me..
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Ok wat do u do if your best friend iz leavin the school that ur at but ur afraid that u wont be able to keep in touch wit her and be best friend 4eva.Cuz She means alot to me but im afraid that we wont be as close anymore.Cuz i left alot of school and me and my friends neva stayed close togatha.So wat should I do should I talk to her about it ro what???!!!???!!.......
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ok..well i no who this person is...u can always talk on the internet..phone and there are always weekends..u can go to like sports plus or anything they have..movies..sleepovers..just bc they dun go to the same school dun mean u cant b best friends..bc i have a lot of best friends and they go to selden..mercy..lots of different schools..just dun lose her bc then she wil think u gave up..so just talk to her regurly..lol idk wat else to say..
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