Hey, I'm Kelli, better known as fabulous ;)
after a very long break from this site, I'm back and ready to help out anyone who needs it.
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I'm fourteen and in eighth grade.
I'm a crazy girl, and I always have a smile on my face.
I love to sing and dance, I spend most of my time doing one or the other.
I am nice to everyone, until they give me a reason not to be.
I have the best friends in the world, and without their love and support, I wouldn't be who I am today.
Ask me anything, I'm told I'm good at advice so don't be afraid to ask my opinion. I'll do the best I can to help you out! ♥
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I am going into Highschool next year, and I don't know anyone because I'm new to this area. I lack a lot of confidence and tend to make friends with girls that nobody likes, because I feel bad for them. Which doesn't help. So i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to become more confident. Or possibly any on how to make the right friends. I also receive good grades so I'm always worried people only want to be my friend because I'm smart.
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Hey. Moving to a new town is a way to totally reinvent yourself. These girls have no idea who you are so how are they supposed to know you aren't confident? This is your chance to make a lasting first impression and be confident. First and foremost, don't assume which girls are popular and only stick to them. Be friendly to everyone. In classes, just start off by asking someone to be your partner or just start up a conversation with your neighbor. Compliment her on something to get the conversation started. Also, try to join some after school clubs or a sports team to find girls who have the same interests as you so that way, you end up with friends that you really like, not just the popular people or the people that you feel bad for. Try not to let feeling bad for someone convince you to be their friend. They probably wouldn't like knowing thats the only reason you're hanging out with them. Be nice to them but if they're not the type of people you want to be friends with, then you absolutely don't have to be. Good luck in your new school, the best advice I can offer you is to go in with a smile on your face! ♥ fabulous
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okay so this is my first year cheerleading and im in 8th grade. yeah i think i started late but thats not the point. i joined it because i've always wanted to do cheerleading and people that i know are on my squad. then as a few monthes pasted, one of my good friends was online and asked, "should i do cheer?" i said yes in a heartbeat. shes doing it now. but now idk what im gunna do bc now she has this big problem with me and ive said im sorry and everything. idk how im gunna do cheer with her "hating" me. how will i do this? it's my first year, im so worried. please help me!!! (link)
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Hey. Wow reading this brings me back to last year on my cheerleading squad. Take my advice, it's from personal experience, JUST FOCUS ON CHEER! Last year my squad consisted of girls from all different cliques and we all fought like crazy. Our coaches were always telling us to keep anything unrelated to cheerleading practice out of cheerleading practice. I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure things between you and this other girl will work out. Believe it or not, sometimes being on a team and working for a common goal will bring you closer. It sounds weird but I know this for a fact. Good luck with cheer its tons of fun! ♥ fabulous
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You know how people say "if you want to know who your real friends are, when something bad happens, see who's there to comfort you"? Well I kind of want to see who my real friends are. The thing is, nothing really bad ever happens to me. Haha, I'm lucky. But what should I do? I kinda want something bad to happen to me, just something that makes me a little upset, just to see who will be there for me. Any suggestions or advice would be great. Thanks.
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Hey. I know how you feel but you don't want anything bad to happen. Just be yourself around you're friends and be completely open. You start to get a feel for who you're real friends are that way. Also, the problem doesn't have to be with you. You can see if people consider you a true friend if they come to you with their problems. I'm sure that something is going to come up in the future that tests your friendships out but for now, try to get a feel for whose close without tradgedy haha. Good luck ♥ fabulous
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What does exactly"attached" to a friend mean?
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Hey. It means that although one person in the friendship usually latches on to the other person. Whereas the other person may want some space, the "attached" one may have trouble hanging out with other people. ♥ fabulous
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well i have this best friend lets say his name is umm starr lol anyways i figured out a few months ago that he liked me...a lot and like i told him a few days ago that since we were friends i couldnt hide anything from him and i told him i knew he liked me.. but now everything is all akward but the thing is we`re trying to get ourselves through it and we`re helping eachother get throught it.. we call eachother everyday which is kinda weird b/c the problem is us. but i`m really glad that we`re helping eachother b/c if we werent it would be really akward.. i guess i do like him a little but what am i so confused about?? and what should i do? (link)
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Hey. I hate to say it but we have all been through something like this at one time or another. Its very natural for you to be confused because expecially since your with him all the time its hard to imagine being something other then friends. You need to talk this over with him and let him no where you stand right now and also let him now that you don't want things to be awkward because he does like you. Once you decide what your going to do just remember to value your friendship and try to have a mutual understanding that your friendship comes before anything else. Sorry if this doesn't really answer your question but I hope I helped just the same. Good luck to you and your friend
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okay well this might not be in the right catagory so im sorry...
but anyways, me and my friend just got out of a HUGE fight and weve been gettin along better but we still havent talked about our problems but i told her that we r gonna talk about them either tommorrow or the next day.. i just wanna know how i shoulld bring things up..((if you dont remember or didnt read the fight it is labeled: its about to be a .....GIRLFIGHT)) i know corny title but yea, please help=]
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heyy. I know it may seem tough to bring it up but it needs to be done. If whatever it was you fought about isn't brought into the open it could blow up again and make things worse off and you don't want to ruin your friendship. Get your friend to sit in your room with you or some other place without distractiona and say, I know this may be tough to talk about but its important. When we had our fight... hopefully she agrees that things need to be discussed between the two of you. Good luck with your friend. I hope things go well for you and I hope your friendship stays strong. ♥ Kelli
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ok so, there are theese girls at my school and they are deffiniatly wannabees. me and my friends are the popular group and you can tell ttry to act like us, like in a lunch room they flip there hair and stuff like that, and they are like '' omg he is soo cute'' and they just are annoying! what should i do about themm? (link)
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Hey. You just gotta live and let live. If they are trying to be like you take it as a compliment because immitation is the most sincerest form of flatery. As for the annoying part? Be polite to them but try your hardest not to sit near them at lunch or in class because you do not want to start a fight. I'm sorry if this advice isn't the best. If you need anything else just drop one in my inbox :-). ♥ Kelli
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