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Q: hey..well, my friend and i are both 15/f. and we have an a.p euro class together. well, there we take notes. the teachers lectures us. and my friend was absent last week for one day. i took about like 45 pages of notes that day. not even kidding. and now she's asking me to scan them and give them to her. should I? I really don't want to. I know she's my friend and all. But I consider this course a strict "only study yourself" course. like, don't help people out, or you're gonna get stuck yourself. I don't know what to do. I would like to help a friend. But scanning 45 pages of the notes that *I* worked so hard on, listening to him and gathering info on. And letting her HAVE it without any effort on her part...well that's not very fair. And plus, when I used to ask her for help, she rarely helped me.
What would you do? :|
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You let her copy. why? because she was ABSENT its not like she was just lazy. If you were absent would you want that same consideration? I know I would. It's not that big of a deal honestly. I mean i could understand if she just didn't do it, but she cant help that she was absent. I honestly think that, thats selfish.
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Q: where can i get a cute pair of skinny jeans
that look like some of these
(and dont say kohls or jc pennys cause just eww)
http://i7.tinypic.com/5xnd5oj.jpg
http://i18.tinypic.com/4lzaoaq.jpg
http://i13.tinypic.com/674ccaw.jpg
thanks
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They used to sell true religion skinny jeans at macys which looked exactly like those, however skinny jeans were last fall so i doubt they still sell them there but you can check. Also, those jeans are going to be over 100 dollars and i dont know if you want to pay that much for jeans. You could also try Abercrombie/ Abercrombie and Fitch/ Hollister or Ruehl if you have any of those in your area because they still have skinny jeans or they used to before they got their fall stuff in, but im sure they still sell them there.
Also, I dont think you should talk about Kohls and JC Pennys like that because some people cant afford anything else and its not there fault. Thats really stuck up and bratty of you. No Offense. Rate me low for saying that and ill report you
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Q: Okay so i have this friend lets call him jack. well i think that jack cuts himself. because i asked him and he said dont worry about it. and he kept saying that. and yeah. so i think he cuts because if he didnt he would just say no right?
any ideas what i should do about it?
thanks in advance :)
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In all honesty. he probably does, because as you said he would have just said no, but the medical reason that people cut is because it releases electrolytes (or some other term?) that causes the person to feel better, however you need to get him to stop because even if he has no intent of killing himself he could slip up and hit a major vain. My advice to you is to tell someone that you trust that you THINK hes cutting, but also let him know that you are there for him no matter what and basically just talk to him about it. Pressing the subject might not be best because then he'll probably grow angry, but just be on the alert and let someone know.
hope i helped =)
good luck. I hope your friend gets better.
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Q: Ok so my friends do these things they call bashings. It's where we sit in a circle and tell esch other what we don't like each other. I hate it i think it's ridiculous casue i feel like their trying to stream line me so i'm some form of perfect friend robot.
They say it's so we don't talk behind each others back. Whenever i say i think it's stupid and it hurts me they just say i'm so sensitive and can't handle critism.
What do you think is it a good idea or stupid?
What should i do?
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I have to agree with you on this one. I think that is extremely stupid. Who are they kidding? If you can tell someone what you don't like about them to their face then you can definately do it behind their back. The thing that I have to question though is if they are all really friends because I could never tell someone what I hated about them to their face and in front of a ton of people. Sure, I could pull them aside and tell them to stop something if I didn't like it, but never in a group. I dont know maybe I just have good friends, but in a friendship you shouldn't be tempted to talk about your friends behind their backs. It's called being a friend and I knwo I couldnt sit there and listen to my friends insult me to my face because once they insult you how could you go to them and complain about someone else insulting you? My Advice to you is to just not attend these bashings and if they say that if you dont then they wont be yoru friend then you need to find new friends because this to me doesnt seem like they are really each others friends. Expand your horizons and maybe find another group who doesnt feel the need to do this to hang out with. It wont be easy, but if you really try you can definately make new friends.
Hope I helped and sorry its so long. I just had a lot to say on this subject.
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Q: I'm a 14/f and I dont have a best friend. I mean I have friends.... but they're not that close. Like a lot of people I know, are going to the mall with their best friends, and since i dont have a best friend, i'd only have a chance to go to the mall with my mom... ughh and I soo totally dont want to do that.
Well, my point is that in school, we have about 20 minutes before school to do anything we want. And well I am hanging out with my "friends" and they don't really include me... so if they're having a conversation, and I ask a question, they wont answer me and just ignore me. I always feel so alone. I know you might say "just have you're family be your best friends" but I REALLY dont want to have my family be my best friends. I want someone that's my age, and who I can have sleepovers with, and go to the mall with, and just hang out with... but none of my friends don't like me that much. It's like this world doesn't even know I exist.
So my question is How can I stand out to people and try to make friends? Is there any tricks to making a best friend? What should I do about these so called "friends"? Keep talking to them? Ignore them?
I mean, if I start talking to them, they'll just change their mood into like an annoying mood. Suuuure they'll talk to me, but its about something really stupid like "what was the homework assignment for monday?"
Sometimes, if one of my friends, doesn't have anyone to talk to at the time, they'll come to me and start talking to me, but it's not the talking you think it is... its probably more like bragging. Like one of them likes to dance, and if she doesn't have anybody to talk to, she'll come up to me and say "oh my gosh, I can't remember my tap dance sequence... Oh yeah it goes ____" and then she'll like dance infront of me, and like show off.
I don't know what's wrong with me, it's like i'm a back-up friend to everybody... I feel so alone and my subject said "what happens to a lonely person in life?" well... what happens? Will I turn out to be some person who doesn't have a purpose in life?
How can I fix this? I'm SOOOO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!
HELP ME!
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The easy way to get involved in a group of friends is to just talk to them. I became friends with this group of people who have been best friends since kindergarten and they all went to the same elementary school and everything. All you have to do to make friends is just talk to people, adn be yourself. Don't act fake. People cna see right through you. Joining clubs and things could help as well.
Hope it helped =)
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Q: my friend follows me EVERYWHERE and does EVERYTHING i do. if i hang out with someone, she doesn't let me hang out with them she will just invite her self over to where we are and start hanging out with us. ITS REALLY ANNOYING! i'm actually starting to make new friends but its impossible if i keep hanging around with her.
Shes really bossy and controlling. What should i do? Should i keep ignoring her or tell her to stop following me around?
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The reason from mye experience that she is doing this is because shes insecure which is often why people act bossy or rude. to try to hide that fact, and my guess is that she's hanging out with you because she doesn't feel that she has any other friends and she doesn't want to lose you, so what you need to do is just talk to her in person adn just tell her how you feel, but do it nicely because chances are she's just feeling bad about herself.
Hope that helped =)
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Q: ok well im 14 and me and my friend have been best friends pretty much sense we were like 3 or 4 and like ever sense i can remember she has always been kind of like jelious when ever i get a new realllyy good friend she like freaks out. like right now in 7th grade i became best friends with my friend bailey, and now she has like been oh my gosh is bailey taking my spot? am i just like some annoyance that thinks shes your best friend? and i don't know its like really bothering me and i keep telling her no one can take her place, but like today i told her i wasn\'t gonna ride the bus home because my boyfriend was staying after school and hes been sick so i wnted to like hang out with him, and she left me a voice mail saying ok what is up with you, i mean if bailey is your new best friend then maybe i should just get some one to act like my bew best friend and i dont know she is just like totally going over board and i don\'t know what to do, like the more she does this the more i am getting annoyed with her and not wanting to hang out with her, but how do i tell her to stop? please help me with this guys!!! thanks!
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I definately agree with Cherise, but I also think that you need to just sit down with her and have a long conversation about it. I understand that you have told her that no one is taking her place, but you need to do it extremely sincerely, and I don't think that you should get annoyed with her because generally when people get like that it's because they are feeling left out or maybe even having a low self esteem. If you have more friends than her, then that maybe one reason. So just talk to her. One on one and in person and see what that does for you.
Hope that helped =)
Good Luck
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