Ok so on Friday i am going to my freinds house for a "movie night" we're going to paly volleyball outside earlier and then later we're going to watch hide and seek. well no big deal. she invited 4 guys and 3 girls (shes the 4th girl). well its kinda like a paired off thing. she invited couples. except for me. she invited this guy. i kind of like him i guess. same with him. he told my freind he kind of likes me. well i dont know i thnk it's goign to br really weird. because all the other people are goign ot be with their girl/boyfreind and then there will be me and this guy. i like him and all but i dont know i think it will be weird.and im kind of worried that he's gonna like try something, because thats just the the kind of guy he is...so i guess i dont know what to do.
((14/f))
if you don't want to do anything with this guy don't do it. push him away when he trys to make a move. or if you like him just go with it. but if you don't like him then don't let him try anything.
hope i helped a little :)
x0x0-vanna :)
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okay i always seem to be the friend never THE girl. i mean its always this way. i'm really funny and i make jokes alot, but i cant seem to stop. i am also really sarcastic some of the time. i'm the girl who is playing football with the guys at parties or shooting hoops or playing some video game with them or seeing who can chug their drink the fastest..i just have more fun hanging out with guys and i can talk to them more than i can girls because there isnt as much *drama* with them. i really want to be THE GIRL for this kid named matt. hes a great soccer player, amazing football player, smart, funny, hott, helpful. just all around what i want, and i want to know how i can change some of the ways i am so he'll like me, or atleast notice i am a girl and i've got the potentional to be a girlfriend. hes never made out with anyone and neither have i but i know i want to be the first person he ever makes out with! can anyone and everyone PLEASE help me?! thanks so much. 5's help!
wow.im the exact same way with guys. i mean it took me forever to get a boyfriend and even when i did it was hard cause i was always hanging out with the other guys who are my friends. now i went into the same situation with my boyfriend and what i did was told my boyfriend that i have guy friends and not to be jealous cause i only like him. what to do to get him? let him know you're interested. joke around with him and pay more attention to him then you do to the others..
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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?
i know how you feel when i was in like 2nd and 3rd grade i had like 2 friends and it sucked big time. and noone deserves to be treated like that. but eventually i got more friends and people relized that i was cool and started being nice. i suggest getting some new friends. find someone who seems nice and try to make conversation chances are that person will have friends who will eventually be your friends and itll work out. give it time
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I have a friend but the thing is i don't like her as a friend any more because she is very mean and controling. she still thinks we're friends even though i haven't talked to her in months. she called me and asked me to go to her birthday party how do i tell her that i don't want to go without hurting her feelings? also it is a sleep over thing and i said i could sleep over because of something the next day which is true but she still wants me to go for a few hours the first day! please help i don't want to hurt her feelings!!
tell her the way you feel about her controling behavior. if you don't tell her shes doing something wrong then she won't stop doing it because she doesnt know you don't like it. so let her know how you feel and if she still doesnt stop drop her as as friend because obviously she doesn't want to be friends anyway if all she does is be mean
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