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Q: tonight, jill came up to me and asked me if i went to julie's house the night before. i said no and asked her why. she said "oh, she had people over" and i was like oh. no big deal - i wouldn't have really cared if i wasn't invited. so, later on jill came up to me again and said (i didn't ask her to ask julie this, but she did anyway), "julie said that you were invited and she told mary (my other friend) to tell you about it, but she said you couldn't go." mary never told me anything, and the fact that i couldn't go was a lie. should i talk to mary about it? like, what should i say?
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Yes, I think you should talk to mary. Just tell her everything, like what you heard jill say. Also, you should probably ask mary why she would have done something like that - if she even did it.
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Q: This may take awhile but you have to know the detail to get it.One of me bestfriends[jessica] went out with this kid named jon.She went out with him for about 5 months and they broke up. A day after they broke up jon got a new girlfriend. Him and my bestfriend still had a little spark,but not much.He went to her house and they kissed and made out, while he was going out with his new girlfriend.So one night they were having a fight,and my bestfriend got so mad that she threatened him to tell his new girlfriend that he cheated on her, and she told her. When jon found out he was pretty pissed,he made almost everyone she was friends with against her.He use to 'prank phone call' her, with things saying that hes going to cut her throut and things like that. Now its been about 5 months since they broke up and hes still prank phone calling her. Its gotten so bad that whenever the call comes on private shes afraid of answering her phone. For example one night he called her 26 times in a half hour. He hasnt called in awhile since then.But just recently she went out with this kid. They went out for 2 weeks, just before he broke up with her a new girl came into the picture.The new girl who came into the picture and ruined their relationship,and that wasnt helping that she isnt liked by my group of friends because of reasons, and that she is one of jessicas enimies.Now its been about 3 weeks since her ex and enemy is going out,and jon has been calling her again,but this time I think its really getting to her. He stille threatens her and tells her how ugly she is, but he only does it in prank phone call and not in person/to her face. Her parents didnt know they were going out so she cant really tell them, so what im asking is, what can we do to make him stop? He just started calling again,I think its because her recent ex is going out with jons bestfriend...
In my opinion fighting physical will stop him, but i think its just me thinking that and no one else.I appreciate you reading this.
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Tell her to do the exact same thing to him and prank call him like every two minutes. He'll eventually back down and stop prank calling. Tell her to be as annoying as possible, a little revenge never hurt much =).
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Q: a couple of my friends lied straight to my face last night. i can't explain the whole situation, but they could have told me the truth - they didn't have to lie about it. i don't want to talk to them about it because they make me feel like _ _ _ _ when i try to tell them my feelings and they always go and talk about me and tell the others what i said afterward. what should i do?
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I have a friend who is exactly like that. I'll tell her things that she knows she's not supposed to tell anyone else, but she tells everyone anyway. And when I ask if she did, she always says she didn't. Well, what I did was get a friend I could really trust, and wouldn't even think about telling someone else my secrets. Get a friend who can be honest to you about anything and would never tell anyone else your secrets.
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Q: Most of you who answered my last question about what to do because I found out my my friend (who's a guy)is smoking. Well, I talked to him about it today and he started yelling at me and saying that he didn't. So, now he won't talk to me. I don't want him mad at me, but I don't want him to be doing drugs either. Now what do I do about him?
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I think the best thing that you can do in this situation is at least try to talk to him. Don't get mad but just talk about it. It would be better than avoiding him and just let him do drugs, you are a good friend for caring, and you should definetly help him out.
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My name is Samantha, Sam for short. I'm a pretty average person, I have a lot of friends, and I love giving advice, I will always think of the best answers to all of your questions. I love music, and absolutely hate homework. But I can always be trusted, and I can help with most anything. So if theres anything you have a question about, please feel free to ask me.
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Gender: Female Occupation: student Age: 13 Member Since: October 28, 2006 Answers: 9 Last Update: November 1, 2006 Visitors: 2124
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