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hey hey hey! sup? my names sami and lets see what do i like to do.... well i like to play volleyball and soccer, go shopping, watch scary movies with bf and kelsey( lol), talk on the phone, hang out with friends,talk on the computer and so much more!

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E-mail: vballqueen28@comcast.net
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hey...i've been talking to this nice guy on aim for awhile now. let's call him...bob...lol. i'm friends with some of bob's friends, but ive never actually met bob. he gave me his picture and asked for mine in return. i told one of my other friends this, they he thought that it was a terrible idea, and that something bad could happen from it. i no its not a good idea unless u really trust the guy, but i dont know what to do. should i send him the picture or not?

well i personally think that you should get to know him more before you go and send him a picture of you. that would definetly be the safest thing to do. hope i helped! write back and tell me how it goes.Good luck

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Hey Sami its Matt Wakefield. I was wondering what I should do... It all started yesterday at lunch when I got an empty table and invited Jill and my other friends to sit with us. Well I asked Guy if he could scoot down so Jennifer could sit with us and Jill was all like, "No! Not her..." or something like that. So I got kind of mad and today Suzanne asked if I was mad at her and I was because she wouldn't let Jen sit w/us so I went to sit w/Jen instead. Then Suzanne told me that Jill said she didn't care if I was mad at her because it was only me, which kinda hurt my feelings because I thought she was my friend. So I wrote her a note and she wrote one back only hers was extremely mean and hurtful. Here's my question, I will forgive her but she's already done something like this before, so should I be her friend again or not? I don't want to really but maybe that's the anger and pain talking. If you want to read the note she wrote, meet me outside Mrs. Standifers room before 5th period or right after school by the busses. Thanks...

hey matt! well personally i think that u should still be her friend and all but if she keeps doing this to you then forget it! good friends never treat other people like that! i dont think that was nice at all! maybe she said she didnt care becuase she knew she did something wrong! i dunno! um meet me at my locker in the morning or around 6th period! my locker number is 4093 and i will talk to you! ( bring the note k!) email me back at vballqueen28@comcast.net or im me at sweetangel62891 to tell me that u can meet me there! hope everything works out!

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well one of my best friend john has recently told me i've changed and we just entered high school and i dont think i have changed. i think i have just found a new group of friends that i like and i hang out with and i dont doubt that they rubbed off on me, but i told him ill try to act the same around him but now it seems like he thinks hes my boss. he treats me rude and disrespectfully and acts like im nothing to him anymore, and ive done nothing but be nice to him..i've invited him places and try to talk to him but all he does is shut me down and im like one second away from yelling at him because i dont think i deserve him yelling at me. what should i do? i think if i approach him he'll just yell at me saying i've changed. -14 female

He could be jealous of the fact that you found a new group of friends to hangout with. And now he's just using the "You changed" quote to make you feel bad about everything. Maybe you should give him sometime to cool off. Then try to talk to him. If he still doesn't listen, write him a letter or e-mail. Your going to have to tell him how you feel sometime and he should hear you out. If he's your true friend, he'll understand, if not, his loss. Just give it sometime and I'm sure he'll realize you didn't change at all. Your just growing up!

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My two best friends are in a fight. I used to be in it but I got myself out. Today Friend #1 tried to settle it by talkin to her but she made her cry. What should I do to help them and not get myself in the fight again?? PLEASE help
Thanks sooo much

You have to talk to them both. Maybe try to get them into the same room as you, invite them over to your house. (But don't tell them the person their fighting with is coming, so they'll actually come). Once everyone is there, have a talk and explain that this fighting is stupid. You don't want to be in the middle, but you have to try to help them because their both your friends. I hope everything works out with both of the girls and you can all be friends once again!

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Could i maybe perform in a theater. I would like to. I love to perform. Should i try?

You can do anything you set your mind to. And if this is your dream, make it come true. You should always follow your heart, no matter what!

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: My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?

oh this has happened to me before to! i would personally talk to her and ask her why she isint waiting for you! if she doesent say anything or change then well this may be hard to here but she isint a good friend! sorry~

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3-m What clothes should be worn on a regular day when ur trying to impress people.(im on a budget so no p diddy stuff.)

well when your trying to impress girls then i would sugest like a nice t-shirt ( doesent have to be churchy) and like so tan shorts/pants! i think what is really cute is a striped shirt and tan pants! what ever you wear is probley fine, just make it snazzy!

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k, there's this one guy right? He's really intense with the game and stuff, and he's really cool and all but he can get really agressive and if you do anything wrong he will get mad and stuff. So this one time i just wanted to have fun.. (it was an afterschool thingy) so im like can i be QB? (im really bad at throwing too) and he's like moaning and getting irritated over there being a Wide Recivier (person who cathes the ball) so i throw it and it sucked and the other team got it and scored a touch down. Then i beg the QB to throw it to me and stuff like that and i only get like 2 yards, and he tells me to stop so i kinda just ignore him thinking he didn't say anything mean. And somtimes i just randomly get the ball and start running around and stuff and he gets irritated and he tells me to stop and play the game, so by the time he is done with his non-sense i had just about enough of his crap. and i just like go all out... i'm like "dude, im playing around, people just wanna have fun! if you so intense then why dont you go off into the side line and play by your self, im not kidding anymore. So if your going to act like a fag go away or do somthing, your really pissing me off Ok?!?!" and i really think i hurt his feelings because he looked alll sad and stuff....Should i have done what i did?

Ok if he was being a total jerk, then of course you should've done what you did...as long as you didn't like attack him haha or like do something drastic, then you were right to have gotten mad..It didn't seem like anything you said was really mean, what else could you have done? Push him down? Im serious, dont worry about it...If hes your friend than he should understand not to be so rude to you. How you are treated means just as much as how he is treated..Sounds to me like he's bossy..but hey thats your call..hope it works out

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my best friend has this other best friend n my best friend n their best friend always get mad at eachother n i want to help them n stuff but they always stay mad over stupid stuff then they forgive eachother n then get mad again for another stupid thing i hate them being mad at eachother because i hate it when people are mad at other people especially my best friend ya know? what should i do cuz i hate them always being mad at eachother

Theres really nothing you can do if you're not involved. I guess the best thing to do is let them "vent" through you to get off some steam or whatnot, but don't take sides on it...You can't force them to be friends...it just doesn't work that way..the only thing to do is hope for the best and try to stay mutual on the whole situation...hope i could help.

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hey ok i have some friends that im not guna name ok but anywayz her is what happened! ok well it was thursday and friday and they wanted to walk home but i didnt and everything because i had to get home so i could go to the movies with some other peeps and they asked if i wanted to go and i said no and then they just started to walk off and leave with out saying bye or ok i will see u later! they are always getting on my nerves and it seems that they have been better friends then all 3 of us! they just leave me out! what should i do??

hey, wow this is a pretty complicated question! to tell you the truth i had the same thing happen before! i know how it feels to be the third wheel on a 2 wheel bycicle! it suxs! i know this might not be the advice you want but here i go. a good friend ( a best friend at that) would never do that at all! before you call the friendship off, talk to them about it! if they dont wanna listen then make them! i hope everything goes well!

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hey sami im not guna tell you who i am because i dont know if you know me, but all im guna say is that im an 8th grader at mckamy! i think you are one of the nicest people i have ever met! your always so sweet and you care about everyone! i admire you and look up to you! you are so sweet! i wish i could be like you!~sigh~!

awwwwww thankyou! i wish you would tell me your name thought so maybe we could become friends! if u ever need advice be sure to come to me! i will help you with anything dont hesitate!

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