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how is everyone? i basically just want to let you know im here for you always, srry if it takes me a little bit to answer your question:) lots of love and hope i can help you!

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This boy hes my friend and i think he likes me as more then a friend and i'm a bit scared if he asks me out bc i dont want to go out but hes like really nice so i dont know how to say know if it happens...Like in gym were doin like mounts and every time he says can i do mounts with you guys and i'm always like sure but i dont want him holding me up i'm shy about that kinda stuff you know? What do i do? :(

i think i know what your going through, i kinda had the same thing happen to me, where you want to say no but you still want to remain friends without anything changing? here's my advice: when you do mounts, try and change the subject, casually of course, but like pretend you didn't hear him, talk to your friends about something that just happened at lunch or whenever. if that doesn't work you could have a convo with him, tell/ask him who he likes, or you tell him first who you like (make someone up if you have to)...or truthfully id be real honest and say "i don't really see you in that kinda way" if hes a true friend he'll understand. yes he will be a little hurt but he will understand and be glad you told him rather than keep him playing for your attention. hope it helped, and sorry it took so long for me to answer. good luck

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I have crash on this guy for a while. I asked him out the first time, he said yes, but cancelled on me on the day we suppose to go out. And second time, he asked me out, but cancelled out again. Now he appolized and said let's go out next week. Am I going to say yes?

I don't want to show how easy I am that he can just cancel on me all the time without considering my feeling, but in the same time, I do want to go out with him.... What should I do?

Here's just a suggestion, when he calls you, ask him what night might work for him, THen tell him you'll check your calendar, don't talk on the phone for a few seconds, (like you just went to check)tell him you already have something else planned that day, even though you may not, then suggest another day. again this is just a suggestion. hope it works out for you!

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This is adressed to girls...
What do you think us guys mean when we say things like "I just want to be friends". I'm asking because my best-friend, a girl, told me she loved me, but I don't lover her, i like her as mayeb more than a friend, but i don't totally love her. Back to the point, I'm as king because that's what I told her and she seems to not want to be my friend at all anymore. Do you girls see that comment as a "leave me alone for a while" comment? Anyways, a little help plz.

this typically means, "we need a break" its usually a break up line a guy gives a girl when he wants to no longer see her. maybe you could say instead, just what you said in your question. Girls would rather have someone who's honest, instead of using the same old same old break up lines every guy uses even if they are not true. Talk to her, smoothe things out!

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