ok so my birthday was like a month ago..i started planning my sweet 16 but couldnt do it the date i wanted because one of my good friends is having hers that day. I was ok with that and decided to wait until June because my aunt who works there said i can get a deal this one weekend. I checked with everyone to make sure i didnt interfere..my one good friend is having hers the day after mine..im having mine on a friday. Today she asked me if i can change mine because she was talking to her mom and her mom doesnt like the idea because she said it will be hard for people to go to to parties in one weekend. She asked me to change mine because she cant change hers. I was like WHTA? her dad works at the firehouse (thats where shes havin hers) and i know she could probably change it if she feels that way. Every weekend there seems to be a sweet 16..i have to wait 2 1/2 months after my actual bday to have my party..so i think ive sacrificed enough. I dont mean to sound stubborn or anything..its just im sick of accomadating others...plus i can get a good deal on the catering that friday night..and i have double header softball games on saturdays..between everyone elses parties,plays for the schools,and talent shows,this is my open date and i dont wanna change! do you agree? how should i say this to her
you should jus tell her that you have had to wait all this time and that you have a full schedule and you should be able to have your party that weekend. if it bothers her so much then she should change it. she can replan jus like you did.
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hey.. i have a friend and shes really sweet and all but my boyfriend was talking about her earlier this week.. im one of those girls that everyone comes to for problems and everyone tells me everything but this time what he said about my friend just got to me so much and thats weird because i can always keep secrets. lets just say that him and her when out before and he think she still likes him and he said "i bet she made up that kid so it will make me want her" i dont get that haha.. and he also said "the only reason she wants you to go out with him instead of me is because she wants me" and those two things that he said really got to me.. now dont get me wrong i really love him.. okay well i told my friend what he said because she slept at my house last night.. and she was like I HATE HIM OMG!! and stuff and im like dont tell him pleaseee. and shes ilke i wont.. but something tells me she will.. and if she does then that could ruin my friendship with her and me and my boyfriends relationship... i already know i ruined their friendship :'( .. i feel so bad and i dont know what to do.. please help
well first of all did you ever think that maybe your boyfriend is actin like that cuz he dont her? maybe since they broke up he hates her. so what he said might have been bullshit. and if you promised not to say anything you shouldnt have. at least not to her. you should have talked to someone else that had nothin to do wit the situation. now you done fucked yourself in the ass wit all this crap. you gotta make it right and not believe errything that errybody says. even if they love you.
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well i have this friend that likes the same girl i do and me and that girl have been going out but i havint told my friend i dont know if i should or not lemme no as soon as possible.
i think that he should know that you go wit her cuz if not he might ask her out or somethin and she will be like naw i go wit "joe" (thats you) and he will be mad that you aint tell him yourself. let ya boy know whats up wit you and that girl.
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Okay so i need some help in helpin out my best friend.. so here goes with some background information. my friend met this kid over the summer at her camp, well it turns out he lives in the neighborhood where we go to school at. well my friend chills with him sometimes and she really likes him ALOT, but the thing is he says he doesn't want a girlfriend and everything but he's trying to get my friend to have sex with him!! i mean she asked me for advice and i told her she shouldn't because i mean she's 14 and she shouldn't lose her virginity to this guy who she doesn't even go with.. and it's kind of obvious that all he wants is to hit it.. well she went to 2nd base with him and i'm afraid she's gonna do it with him and he's gonna like stop talkin to her or just use her for sex. i mean i don't want that to happen to her but she won't listen to me she like wants him to like her. and he'll say all this stuff like yea after we have sex we'll go out, and i'm like yea bullshit. but she believes his lies and she needs to wake up and smell the coffee..lol.. so what can i do to help her out? help me out please. thankies i'll rate you too.. buh bye.
you need to let her friend know that if she is still a virgin then she needs to keep it that way.she should lose it to someone that really cares about her.havin sex is not that great. if she gives it up for a dude she dont even go wit people will start to talk about her and she wont want that.jus talk to her and if she dont listen and she is jus tryin to get wit this guy and dismissin errything you sayin then let her make her mistake. she will see that you were right even if it hurts her after its all over. sometimes the only thing that can help a person is let them make the mistake. good luck ~*Alexis*~
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i have this friend and shes like real bossy!!!
i don't hate "her" but i hate the way she acts!!
i can't tell her because she says i don't care and shes going out with this guy and she like always comes up to me and says "oh this make to weeks that we been going out"!! everysingle day ...but he just broke up with her and now i am kind of feeling bad for her what should i do???
i rate high
if she dont care that you think she is bossy and all that and you hate how she acts dont be her friend. and if she keeps tryin ta rub tha whole bf thing up in yo face she aint even worth tha time. friends dont do that shit to each other. you can do betta. good luck suga ~*Alexis*~
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I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah
thank you in advance, I'll rate you all
~Allysa
if she is only usin you for her bf then thats not a true friend and trust me girl you can do betta than that.you need ta let her know whats up otherwise she is jus gon keep doin it. if you talk ta her and she dont change then you need ta cut her lose whether she has other friends or not. it will teach her not ta use people like that. good luck suga ~*Alexis*~
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i'll rate anyone a 5 who reads this and helps thanx!!
me and my best friend have been great friends since 8th grade (were both in 12th now) so we've been friends for pretty much 5 years. i love her to death and i dont know what i would do without her. Were seriously inseperable. About a month ago she met this guy. All of a sudden its like she's dedicating her time to hang out with him EVERY day. I mean all three of us do hang out sometimes but i dont really like it bc i kinda feel like the 3rd wheel. Her ex boyfriend just told me that he likes me but i told him that i only like him as a friend. i told her that he said he liked me and all of a sudden she asumed that i liked him too and now she is mad at me. the reason they broke up was because she was lying to him and cheating on him with this guy she is with now. The guy she is with now wants to get an apartment. He said i could move in if i wanted but i dont want to because i cant afford it but i dont wanna loose my best friend to him because i lost her once before and i was miserable. Well today i left this guy a voicemail saying mean things and everything to him which i shouldnt but he is really rude to me. He calls me a slut and everything. i've told my friend this but she said well im falling in love with him and all that. I really dont wanna loose my best friend at all! i dont know wut to do and its killing me inside. I tryed to talk to her about it but she doesn't wanna listen to me at all. She told me a few weeks ago the only reason she is with this guy is because he gets her w/e she wants (he got her a diamond ring...a $500 stereo and lets her drive his new car and she doesn't have her permit or license) i dont know what to do!! someone please help!! since this is long ill rate u a 5!!! thanx!!!
ok i think i can help u wit this one i have a friend just like this and for a while i did feel like the thrid wheel cuz i was always with her and so was he so i got sick of it and i just don't hang out with her as much because of him i dunno why but i just don't so heres my advice for you cuz seems like u r goin down the same road as i did and it didn't turn out good so heres what u should try ...... talk to your friend and tell her that you feel like the third wheel and you don'tlike it when they are together all the time because theres times when u just need girl time and if she doesn't understand then try to explain a little bit more into it and just try to explain how your really feeling and see if she could hang out with u more without him cuz u miss it and if it doesn't work out try and spend more time with other friends because she will prolly just hang wit him all the time i understand what you r goin through and it is really hard i am still going through the same thing and to tell u the truth there's nothin u can really do but tell her how u feel bout errything but yea do that and see how it all works out if u need more help e~mail me or im me i hope it really wokr out cuz i know how it is to loose a friend to a guy well hope it works with u n ur friend good luck ~amanda
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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)
if it is bothering you u should let your friend know you don't appericate her boyfriend treatin you and others like that and it's not right anyway but if she doesn't understand then it prolly won't phase her because they have been goin for a year but u should still let he rknow how u are feeling hope i helped ya
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