Hi..my name is Skyla. I'm 18 and I luv 2 give and recieve advice and just luv 2 talk. So, if you ever have a question or need advice, i'd luv 2 hear from u. I'm not the brightest person in the world, but I'll try to fill u in on what I know... or if you ever wanna just talk, you know where to find me!! =)
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15/f.... i have this friend who i met in the september of 2007 in gym class. it was like an instant friendship and we got along so well. we never faught or anything, the only difference we had was that she was a year older than me but it was not even a big deal. we joked and could talk for forever. then out of nowhere a few weeks ago an akwardness started between us everytime we spoke and it was obvious. our conversation would run dry within a few minutes. i try to keep the conversation going but i don't know, it seems like something about me is bugging her or like she always has something on her mind. i dont know what to do because she's a real good friend of mine but i can't even talk to her anymore without feeling like a stranger...i need to know what to do. (link)
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there may be something that's been bothering her.I know it may seem awkward, but it'll probably be worth it in the end if you just try to talk to her one on one. She may want to talk to you about something, but feels like she can't. It may be up to you to see what's going on. I hope everything works out! write me back if it does, it'd like to know how it went. hope i helped. ~ Skyla ~
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i think my friend is gay because she allways be rubbing on gurls do you have some good advice that i can tell her (link)
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You can kinda just bring up the subject and just openly ask her if she's gay.. i mean, i know it may seem kina awkward, but if there was any way that you could kinda just start talking about it out of the blue and see if she says something or states that she's gay, then there would be your answer... if not, then kinda point it out to her, and ask her if she's always that touchy with other girls, and does that mean anything.. Yeah, that would be hard to ask her, but honestly gay is just wrong... wait, if you think gay is fine, then sorry if I offend you in any way... but yeah, it'd be really nice to know if she's gay or not (on your part)...just kinda out of the blue bring up the subject.. i know this isn't much, but i know wat i'm trying to say just writing it is the problem...lol... tell me how it goes, Skyla
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im 15 years old and i have never kissed a boy and i dont have any friends. i used to but i dont know what happened. my family hates me and im so lonely and i want to die and i really need help/advice. (link)
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woah..i'm really sorry you feel this way.. i'm sure your family dont' hate you.. i mean, they may act like they don't but deep down i'm sure they don't. and well, i'm about to be 17 and I just got my first kiss, so I think your ok, just wait for that special boy, then it'll be more worth it ;) trust me.. please don't say you ever want to die, b/c I don't and I don't even know you.. nobody should ever feel like they don't deserve to live... I would love to be your friend.. maybe we can talk more!!!! i hope i helped.... * Skyla *
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ok, so i'm 13/f, and i have to 13/f friends who have been best friends since forever. one feels like she's been living in the other's shadow (lets call her Alma), and doesn't know what to do about it, so finally she gets mad at the other girl (Ana) for no reason. actually her "reason" is that the girl didn't tell her that there were beta club elections for president, and so now she's all pissed. it's so retarded. now she won't even talk to her. and we've all been in a group together since who knows when, and i'm still friends with them both, but they won't talk to each other. Also, "Ana's" birthday is this Friday, and we don't know what to do! if they don't make up before then, i don't know what we're all gonna do. help! (link)
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yeah, i agree with the first person's reply, you can't really do much other than just sit down and talk with them.. it may just be a little fight that they'll resolve, and hopefully before Ana's b-day... best friends always go through little fusses and fights, but they usually get over it, i know me and my best friend does.. but,if talking to 'em doesn't help, just hope things will patch up soon between them.. hope I helped =)
* Skyla *
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f/14
okay so me and my friends (let's call us Linda (me) sammy, becky, tyler and julie)K? well anyway "Julie" and i are like the leaders of our group mainly because we the first of the friends and b/c we are a lot more confident than the rest of our group (some people mistake it as being cruel and bitches). Either way me and Julie are also the closets. Don't think to badly about us, but we also like each other most, but sammy gets so angry and crazy everytime we are together b/c she knows we like each other more. I really love sammy, and i don't want to hurt her but she has changed thanks to being corrupted by the devil reincarnate ( let's call her Danniell.) Sammy is also a constant liar i am not sure if i can trust her. The only reason we formed this group in school is becasue eveyone hates us because they think we are spoiled bitches, ut we are so not bitches! anyway i would hate to leave sammy. i love her so much and we are her only other friends other than Danniell who is ruining her.
remeber we really are good people! lol i know me and Julie sound evil lol :-)
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well, if you don't wanna leave Sammy, you should talk to her about how you feel about her, well the part when you said your not sure if you can trust her or not. the least she can do is listen since you said ya are her only other friends, other than Danielle.. just tell her that you think Danielle is ruining her and that she isn't a good example for Sammy. Remember, you need to be able to trust your friends, so just talk to her about it, maybe she'll listen and understand.. i know it's not much but I hope I helped... =) * Skyla *
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okay, so i had this friend, let's call her Em. and she was seriously my bestest friend. but then all this drama happened during sophomore year of high school and our friendship fell apart. now we're juniors and we're cool now. like we say hi and we're friendly to each other and stuff, but it's still pretty awkward between us. like we don't talk like we used to and we obviously dont do all those things best friends used to do anymore. i really miss her. but i don't think she misses me because she has another best friend at school. i want to gradually become close with her again, but i don't want to seem SUPER CLINGY to her because that was one of the reasons why our friendship fell apart. what can i do to get my best friend back? any advice is welcome. thanks so much in advance! (link)
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well, that would be kinda awkward.. but you can probably just go and talk to Em and let her know that you miss her.. the least she can do is listen to wat you have to say. you never know, deep down she may feel the same.. sometimes, we have to make the first step, it may get you far. if she doesn't act like she listening to wat you have to say, well from my perspective i'd just pray about it, and if you don't pray, then just talk to her and hope for the best....at least you'll know you tried first, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that... lol.. i know i wasn't much help . i tried lol =) * Skyla *
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i've been shy forever
but it's my sophomore year now
and i'm willing to do anything to make this year great
i've never had a real boyfriend, i want one
i want more friends, i wanna go out every weekend and have fun
i just want to enjoy my life, i'm content now but i want more out of life
i'm definitely no doubt about it going to join some clubs, MAYBE do a sport, if i find one i like and just be more outgoing around others.
unfortunately this year, i dont have lunch with my 2 best friends :[ and i sit with this girl im friends with and her friends. so it's good-im gonna try my best to become friends with them. except what do you do when they're sharing inside jokes and talking about stuff you totally have no clue about?? i just like sit there. i wanna show people i'm funny and talkative, cuz i really am. but it doesn't show. what do i do/say??? especially when stuff like that happens. thanks so muchh!
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Well..souds like your starting off pretty good and making really good steps toward making friends. You don't have to just throw yourself out there though just so people will like you.. Always remember to be yourself around others and you'll make better friends that way.. About the guy, you can't make him like you...again, just be yourself to him and if you he starts talking to you then that's a good thing and a good start. But, there is gonna be times where you have to start talking first and kinda just hang out with random people, well people that you would be interested in being friends with, and somebody's gonna take interest in you!!! trust me ... well hope I helped alittle lol..... 16/f * Skyla *
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13/f (I am going to use nicknames)
So, I have a friend, Murray. She and I hate this girl, S. S and I used to be friends with Murray. Well, I'm not friends with S, but with Murray. Murray said she hated S like me because S did rude things to me and her. Well, S called and invited me to her B-Day party Friday. i said I was busy because I was, Murray was coming over so we could watch Naruto. Murray said we should go to S's B-Day party because she said that S had changed. Now, I am so confused. First, Murray hates S, now she wants to be her friend! I never trusted S and my parents don't like her. Neither does my boyfriend. I want to know what to do at this point. Murray keeps sayign I have done bad things to S to make S do bad things to me. I did not. I did bad things to her after S did bad thigns to me. It's called revenge! I JUST NEED HELP!!!!!!
If it helps, I kinda used S after we got in a fight. I was going to use her to get some money cuz she shares money with friends all the time. Murray was in on it too, until she got her bad feeling. Now, I am confused. Please help!
Thank you!
Izzy Uchiha &hearts (link)
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Well, I believe in second chances so maybe you and Murray could go to the party and see if she really has changed, that way you'll know for sure. People can change, whether it be for the good or for the bad, that's something your going to have to decide, but this is your decision, i was just saying you could go to the party and see if she really has changed, then you'll know whether ya can be friends or not...hope I helped
* Skyla *
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