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well..okay. i like this guy and he has a gf..oh wait. it gets better..haha well he's always leading me on and hinting that he likes me.. well i talked to his gf and she said she isn't really interested in him anymore. well what do you guys think? should i tell his gf(my friend) that i have feelings for him and if she doesnt have feelings for him then she should let go? or whatever else you guys think! please help!
yess definalty.. if shes getting over him then this is ur chance to get him!! :D good luck!
well i have this guy friend that i talk to right but it the thing is the is like in his 20 and i really like him. and i can tell that he likes me...the bad thing is that i have boyfriend and i dont want to tell this guy that because he will be heartbroken... i mean he really wants me to go see him like everyweekend i have no clue what to say to him. god i really need up with this one... i really want him what should i do...PLZ HELP???
u need to tell this guy that u have a bf b4 something happens that u migt regret.. but if u want to see him and n want him, then i guess u have to decide whos more important to you, him or your boyfriend..and once u pick then u can spend time with whoever u want every weekend. how old r you?
What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!
i would tell him to just try to get to know my best friend bc they will prolly be seeing alot of eachother n i dont want anything to change between us. just ask him if he'll be a little bit more considerate when he sees her next time =)hope i helped!
I need help. Ive just recently started dated a guy i really like. My friend was really excited for me when she found out. But then both of them got into a big fight and now they hate each others guts. They always get into big fights. One time he called my friend bad names to her face. I stood up for her tho. cuz the reason why he cursed her out wasnt a good reason. But since he cursed her out shes been getting mad at me lately. She thinks that im putting him before our friendship. But im not. I value our friendship more than ever. She thinks i should break up w/ him because of the way hes been treating her. But i dont want to break up w/ him because he is sooo sweet to me. I feel like i can talk to him about anything. Plus he hasnt done anything to me. I know it wasnt right of him to call my friend bad names and i stood up for her even. but i guess thats not enough for her. My other friend told me that im putting him infront of my friendship w/ my friend since hes my first bf. Everybody is getting mad at me just bc im going out w/ him. Today my friend told me that i was hurting her by going out w/ him. She keeps rubbing things in my face and shes making it seem like im a horrible friend. and it hurts because i dont want to be. I dont think i did anything wrong. She told me that i should put friends first. And i do put friends first. i stood up for her did i not? i dont know what to do...i really need ur advice!! because i like this guy alot and he doesnt treat me bad or anything but my friend hates him. and sooner or later i might have to choose between them. but i dont want that to happen. please help!!!!!
well it is friends 1st and it seems like u did put her b4 anyone else so thats good. it seems like to me shes just jealous bc she thinks sooner or l8er ur gunna want to stop hanging around her and more with him.. i dont think u did anything wrong, i think ur friend is overreatcing and she needs to get over it =) so just tell her that u love both her n ur bf and ur not gunna break up with him just bc he cussed @ her.. my friends bf cusses as me all the time its no big deal. let it all out hun n speak ur mind to that so called friend of urs!
the boy I like is goin gout with my x-best friend. (thats ok )he made a promise at the beginning of the year that he wouldn't go out with anyone. my other best friend asked him out and he said no because he made that promise.is this boy worth worrying about
~x0x0er girl~
hes just one guy out of a million your gunna like.. dont worry bout him go find someone worth being with :D
One of my really good friends has been really really depressed ever sence her and her bf broke up. A few days ago she started to cut herself.I am really worried about her. Only me and a few of her friends know that she is doing it. I really want her to stop it because I am scared that she is going to do something she will regret. It hurts me a lot to see her like this. I am in practically the same situation that she is in. I want to help her and we always talk about it. ButI feel like there is not much I can do for her right now but try and always be there for her. What should I do?
tell her that shes scaring you by doing all these things. in a situation like this, u need to be by her side at all times n nvr leave her out! just try to get her into whatever there is to do so she will become occupied w something good luck!
ok, Me and my friend have been BEST friends since 5th grade....and now I am going out with this guy....I love him sososo much!! and I think that she is getting jealous over him b/c I dunno....but she like plays childish games with me...like (sry, this is long) on friday night, i was talking to my b/f and hse was over at my house and we were in the same room and she calls me on her cellphone to tell me that she has to pee....WTF?!?! and I love her to death...I would never choose him over her....how do i let her know that without actually telling her....
shes probably feeling left out.. sometimes people tend to do whatever they think of just to get more attention, bc they think they r loosing their bff. all u need to tell her is dont worry bc ull ALWAYS b her friend and nothing is gunna change between u two just bc u have a bf
Hi well like u know i lost prety much the friends that i was really close to before and well laitly i have had hard times of making new friends and well usually i'm really good about talking to people and introdusing my self to them but i just dont know what to do anymore.....what do you think is wrong with me..? and well i hope this site will help me to make some new girls/guy friends that i can talk to when i need some one to hear me out!
u dont need to feel like you cant do something, bc im sure u can.. u just need to get up n go around n make new friends. be VERY outgoing! dont think negative, u need to always think positive n im sure ull make new friends ur first try! :)
Okay so i need some help in helpin out my best friend.. so here goes with some background information. my friend met this kid over the summer at her camp, well it turns out he lives in the neighborhood where we go to school at. well my friend chills with him sometimes and she really likes him ALOT, but the thing is he says he doesn't want a girlfriend and everything but he's trying to get my friend to have sex with him!! i mean she asked me for advice and i told her she shouldn't because i mean she's 14 and she shouldn't lose her virginity to this guy who she doesn't even go with.. and it's kind of obvious that all he wants is to hit it.. well she went to 2nd base with him and i'm afraid she's gonna do it with him and he's gonna like stop talkin to her or just use her for sex. i mean i don't want that to happen to her but she won't listen to me she like wants him to like her. and he'll say all this stuff like yea after we have sex we'll go out, and i'm like yea bullshit. but she believes his lies and she needs to wake up and smell the coffee..lol.. so what can i do to help her out? help me out please. thankies i'll rate you too.. buh bye.
just tell her what kind of guy u think he is, that hes only into her for sex.. b like im ur best friend i wouldnt lie to u. does she know condoms rnt 100% safe? if not, tell her.. good luck!
Sorry this is long, but i rate high! :)
I have a friend...lets call her Jill. Well jill is really cool to hang out with...when she isnt around guys or we arent on the subject of guys. She always uses guys and she flirts with them, and leads them on all the time and then she ends up crushing them. She always steals the gusy her friends like (including the guys i like...) and we are all sick of it. I really want to tell her off because i have talked to her about it before but just talking to her wont get through to her. I want her to really realize what a slutty jerk she has turned into. because she used to be really cool. Please help!
just let her know how you feel, just like you told me.. im sure she'll thank u afterwords bc she mite know how shes acting. so just sit her down n tell her everything about how shes acting n if she doesnt get it, then u need to show her. fine some way for it to get thru her head n make her realize she needs to change