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Well i have a friend lets call him fred.. well fred is usally really happy.. and i cant picture him being sad at all.. i dont think i have ever seen him sad.. and ive known his since 2nd grade (in 10th now) so ya.. and today i went online and his away message said dead inside.. and i asked him if he was ok and he didnt say anything.. and im worried about him cause hes one of my really really good friends.. what should i do? please answer i rate high..

your friend could be feeling like that he has no one left in the world to care about him. make sure that you dont see and cutting scars on him. if he starts that please stop him. i started doing that not too long ago and its hard to stop when you feel like you dont know who you are.

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I hate my friend!he has been annoying me so much lately and not just me but every one else!today he was messing around and was trying to trip me up but i just didn't take any notice and didn't look at him but then he kicked me really hard and i hit my leg off the corner of the table!and instead of appologising he just laughed in my face!so i just turned around to him and said "you fucking prick!" i thought he was getting the idea that i didn't like him any more but now he's annoying me even more!!what should i do???

beat the shit out of him that will give him the idea. thats what i do if people piss me off. anyway i hope i helped

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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?

ha i went through the same. the only time any one liked me was in kindergarden. except for a few girl friends i had in the past. need some one to talk to you can always e-mail me. salem_22_@hotmail.com

ps im 14/f and my name is joe

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ok well this might be long but please stay with me.

in the beginning of last year i made a knew friend. he was popular and so funny. we got close.and then at the end we got in a argument about the stupidest thing. and now he hates me and even if i tell him sorry it doesnt even work. and hes just so mean to me like always talking behide my back and i cant stand it cause i never talk about him.and like he'll even comment my myspace pictures and go EWW or something and if im in my friends he'll do the same thing cause im friends with a alot of people who he is friends with except for some and like i cant delete the comment either =[ and its not like im ugly, im really not. like i had boyfriends and i have alot of friends and now like he is turning everyone against me and when i try and talk to him .. like you just cant..hes just so friggin mean and i dont kno wat to do. like hes close with my friends and all and when he hangs out with them and im invited i wont go just cause i kno how mean he'll be to me and its embrassing.

please help..and please dont leave mean advice..i hate when people do that and i already had that done to me on myspac =[

thanks

this is pruff that popular people are just plain ass holes. dont waist your breath on this guy. he'll find out sooner or later that you're not there to hear him insalt you around his friends. he's probably just doing this to become more popular. i also had the same thing happen to me back in grade 6 she said the fucking shitiest things. but i fucking beat the shit out of her because of it. it could also be in his zodiac sigh. is he a sagitarius? well if he is inbox me please.

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I just got back from a two 1/2 week vacation to california. Me and my best friend hung out so much before I left. When I got home I called her immeaditly and she was like Hi. I told her i wus home and i missed her and she said Uh-Huh. *not in a sarcastic way* Shes busy hangin out with all of her other friends right now, i dont mind that she hangs out with them, but Ive been home for a week and she never calls me or anything and she didnt act like she cared I came home! Whats going on?

what could be going on is maybe you've bin gone so long that she's tired of missing you and moved on. you should sit her down no matter what is happening. demand that you to need to talk. ask her what is the deal with not missing you. except be a little more gental

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my b/f called while me and my fam were away this weekend. he left a message it said stuff like, "i miss u so much, i lve u babe, we have to get together and do it again some time." i was so embarressed than i listen to it again it didn't sound like him. I never "did" anything with him. he kissed me like once but that was it. i know i should call but i don't want to cause i'm waaaaaaaaaaaaay to shy. somebody please!. i'm soooooo upset cause it might have been a prank call, my parents are freaking out, i'm freaking out and i've goptten myself soooo upset i've throwen up. I have no way to trase the call cause my grandma called after. I'M ONLY 13! my parents won't even LET me date yet!please some one.

just phone the ass hole back and freak him out.
1.leave a message on his phone saying oh sure i'ed love to have sex with you some time(i not saying that you have to mean it)
2. sneak into his house and got into his room with red lip stick. write on the wall. I need you.
3.Leave get a please report file for herassment from the message on the phone.(that'll make him shit his pants.)
4. sit back and relax he might phone back but if he does you can get a nother herassment file.
5. have fun with this and laugh your ass off.
this may not be good advise but i did this once when i was 12. someone phoned my house and said hey lets get together and all that sick crap.

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