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Okay well someone asked a question 2 someone else on advicenators that said ::: ok my friend is a bitch and she a bitch that uses me and she like trys to be my best friend but when ever this chick katie comes around shes ignores me waat should i do ::: it sounds like one of my best friends. the whole name katie and the word chick make me think its her. i dont wanna just confront her and be like 'did u write it' cuz i dont wanna feel stupid if its not. but it rely does sound like her. i dont know what to do

if you really think its her, i think you should answer the question in person & talk about it. if your not shure what to do, answer the question on here. i dno.

hope i helped.

XO0- Nat.

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ok i have these friends n i thought we were good friend but it seems as if there are talking behind my back alot n if u were talking behind my back then what would you want the persont o do??

confrount them & tell them how you feel.. if they are bitches about it, they arent your friends.

hope i helped.

XO0- Natalie.

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Okay. Me and my friend were like really tight at the begining of the school year. But she has a lot of friends. And you know i would be there freinds but they all totally hate me. She seems like she has good freinds. also i meet one of her friends and we became freinds. But im sad because like she has aim and like she lists her freinds and what fun they have. But not ever not once has she put me in there. And if we r hangin out and she sees one of her other friends she kind blows me off. And i try to not get mad but i mean how could i not. And i dont want to stop bein her friend because shes real nice and we have alot in comin.

i think yo should just talk to her and tell her how you feel !! hope i helped. x0o natalie

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ok my friend is a bitch and she a bitch that uses me and she like trys to be my best friend but when ever this chick katie comes around shes ignores me waat should i do

talk to her and be like hey whats up you treat me diff. when shes around and tell her how you feel if she still treats you like this mabye you dont need her as a friend. just ingore her

hope i helped

x0o natalie

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I'm not normal. I never have been, but I used to have friends. When I went to college I stayed in touch with two high school friends for three years, then lost touch with them. I graduated from college six years ago. I have no friends from college. I had a friend where I worked during school, but when I got a new job we lost touch. I even swore to him we wouldn't lose touch, that I wouldn't make that mistake, but it happened anyway. All my acquainances now are co-workers, and I don't hang out with any of them. My brother is three years younger than I am, and we spent two years together in college, where we grew very close and spent a lot of time drinking together. But that was six years ago, and since then he has lived 2 1/2 hours away. We don't drink anymore. We have common interests, such as backpacking, hunting, and skiing, but lately I get the feeling that he does these things with me more out of obligation than anything else. He has a closely knit social network, people he's been friends with for years. It's me. Something's wrong with me. I've rationalized that I didn't need to make new friends because I have my wife and my brother, but now I feel him slipping away. Life at home is business as usual--not an active, close friendship so much as a partnership. Our common interest is our child. I guess I'm feeling lonely and alienated. Yet I aknowledge that I've alienated myself from others, not the other way around. I didn't mind losing touch with my other friends, because maintaining long-distance friendships is a burden to me. But I never thought I'd lose touch (emotionally) with my brother. I'm convinced he enjoys the company of his friends more than my company. He's on his way up to see me for a few days. We're going deer hunting. I thought he'd be staying for the weekend (it's Wednesday), but I spoke to my parents today and he told them he'd be leaving Friday night, because "sitting in the woods for two days is enough." This is what's eating away at me. Is two days with ME long enough? Why didn't he tell me he only wanted to hunt for two days? Why hasn't he considered the possibility of staying the weekend and doing something else with me besides hunting. It's as if he's only coming up here to hunt with me, and only to please me. And once he's fulfilled that obligation, he's going home to be with his real friends. You're all going to tell me I'm reading too much into his comment. But the fact remains that I feel as if we're estranged, and it's really upsetting me. He seems to get irritated with me easily. I feel as if I have to walk on eggshells around him. Obviously, considering the backstory I've given you, I don't blame him for this situation--I blame myself. He's the one with a group of old friends, and I have none. But I'm afraid to tell him what I'm telling you guys because if I'm imagining it all, I'm afraid he's going to be put off. (Eggshells!) OK--what are your reactions to my story?????

:`( im so sorry.

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13/m
There is this kid at my school who annoys me and I can hardly focus on my work in the classes we have in common. I told the adults about the sitiuation and they said I had to deal with it.
Im usualy a calm person but sometimes I get pissed. Can any1 help? fives go out to the best answers.Oh, and by the way, he's still 12.

i say you talk to him and be like hey dude you cant talk to me in class i have to get my work done i mean and like if not talk to the teacher about maby moving your seat so you can get to work ! hope my advice helped

x0o natalie

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My friend got mono a couple of weeks ago and she came to school for the first time since today. She said she's not really supposed to be back-doctors orders- but she wanted to come. But I don't really want to be like near her bc i don't want mono! Can mono go through the air? Obviosly I won't drink after her or anything... what should I do and can someone give me info on mono?
Thnks!

ok umm you should be fine if you dont like makeout with her. and i have dont share drinks like you said and try to avoid useing her lip-gloss or letting her use yours.

hope i helped

x0o natalie

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ok it's kind've long & full of drama, but if you're willing to listen to what i have to explain, thank you.

i've been friends with this girl & i've known her for awhile. i guess you can say were kind've best friends as like girls go, but she was best friends with another girl before this. they were pretty good but the girl turned mean. during ms i was friends w/ her too. soo to make this less confusing, my friend will be named J and the other girl will be named A. ok soo me and J were friends, and J and A were best friendssss er whatever. soo i became friends with A too, and suddenly she juss turned mean. i guess she was never a true friend to J and i was er still am. so that was a problem. me and J are best friends now, i mean im her best friend & stuff. soo since like 7th grade she's been going back & forth. saying she hates A & then shes best friends with A again and now she hasnt been her friend for a few months. now theyre talking again & she invited me to hang out with her and A which was weird but i couldnt go anyway. what im asking is what i should do. i mean, A and J are gonna be friends & then A will make J mad & she'll come running back to me again on how she hates A like every other time. i like J & all but it's really starting to get annoying. if there's anyway to stay out've the drama let me know. i really can't talk to her about it, because i tried so many times. yet were friends & so are our parents & we do stuff together so it isn't like i cant be her friend. idk i dont want drama anymore.

thanks!!!!

so you are saying that a and j are friends but you dont like a ... if that is right then when a and j hang out and you are with them be cool and if you cant even be with her then let a and j hang out and you have your own time with j .. if not im sorry

hope i helped !!

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I'm really close to this guy named Kevin. He's one of my best friends & I just met him about a month ago when I first moved to this state. He told me he was gay when we first met. It didn't bother me at all, seen as I have a lot of gay friends. But, this was our conversation tonight:

HIM: I love you a lot! :)
ME: Hah, you can't you're gay.
HIM: No, I'm bisexual. I just prefer guys more.
ME: Lol, well youre 75% gay.
HIM: Yeah, but the other 25% is you.

Okay, Well, basically my question is, do you think he really likes me? Like from that 25% thing? Just wondering.. Thanks a bunch.

well how does he act around you ?!

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Ok. Sp there is this guy I ave liked for four years. When we went to camp together for church. Me, my friend, and him all hung out together. We flirted and had the best time. When I asked him if he liked he said yes and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with me. Time passed and nothing happended except us becoming really good friends. I didnt want to say anything about it but i just let it go. We went to homecoming and prom twice together we had a blast. He always talks to me when he sees me and he will sit on my lap and pretend and like say hey baby or say how you doing in a way that is hilarious. Does he like me and is to afradi to date. I think about him all the time. By the way i am 18 and he is 17. We have never had a fight before either.

if you guys have had been so close you guys should be able to be open and there should be no reason why you cant talk to each other about this. so one day when its you and him talk to him. hope i helped

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