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Well, what can I say? My name is Sarah. I am currently a junior in high school, and am having some trouble deciding my future. I know I am not the only person with this problem, so I though by helping others I could figure out where I want to go in my future ^_^
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well as you know.... iam asking you about friends. iam in grade 8 and i have lots of friends and i think demi linzey jennifer lily kim kelsi sammi and jordana are my best friends..but lately demi, linzey and jennifer have been kinda zoneing(i think thats how u spell it) me out. whats up with them??
The friends that are zoning you out, they could just need some space between them. Eighth grade is a time where there will be a lot of changes, because Ninth Grade starts high school. Try to talk with them about it, if it is true that they want space, be understanding. Make them sure that you will be there if they ever need you.
-Sarah
I have this one friend named Jenna and she is SO sweet but about a month ago, she totally started hanging out with some other people. She still claims to be my friend, but I feel like she has just ditched me. So I told Jenna how I felt and she said she just has a hard time juggling friendships, but it seems like she has ALL the time in the world for her 2 new friends. So what can I do to help Jenna see the light or snap out of what she is doing? Would the silent treatment help at all?
Although she may be changing with her friends, it is best that you don't hold a grudge because of it. In most situations, the friend may "drop" you so to speak, for new friends. The best thing to do is wait it out and make some new friends too. Watch out, make sure you are there for her, in case her new friends "drop" her too. Good luck to you, it will be difficult, but work at it!
ok my friend is really mad at me because we joke around and she took a joke personly so her mom called my mom and her mom told my mom wat i said.now im really in a bad situation /wat shud i do???should i joke around anymore???
sincerly,
xxmystary-girlxx
Although you will always have your jokes to tell and make-up, you might want to think before you speak. Think about what others might think of it or how they might take it. Don't change yourself though, just be more considerate. As for your situation right now, I'd definitely apologize and explain that you were only joking.
is it just me?...or is it just the way my friend acts?...or are others like this also?..
there is this girl Angie...ive known her for about 4 years already..theres time where were close, like best friends. but lately shes been so annoying!..i get so irritated by her!..juss things she does!..shes so fake! and just doesnt know how to be herself! and she'll be so loud just to get attention!!...
anyone else hate this about someone?!
Maybe you are becoming irritated because you see too much of her. When you are hanging out, instead of noticing the negative parts right away, try looking for the good things. That should make your experiences more enjoyable and you may forget to notice her annoying habits. YOu could also try putting some space. Don't make it seem like you are trying to push her away, as you could lose her friendship, but just put some space when you guys hang out. That way you can aprreciate her habits all the more and your friendship will be better. Hope I helped ^_^