well id like to help everyone in the world but ill have to start with you and work my way up
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My friend asked me if I was goth, I didnt know what to tell her. . I mean goths dont usually go right out and yell IM GOTH! But she asked and I always tell the truth, I said ya. She said ew ur weird. . . She asked me this online, she hasnt seen me for weeks. . and I have maracuously changed, not because this lifestyle has become popular, but because I found it deep down in my heart. She got mad at me and everything .. she gave me a necklas and now she wants it back, she said she'd call the cops if i did anything to it, which i didnt and anyways its mine she gave it to me, is being gothic worth it, i rlly ant to be and i like being this. . but should I give up our friendsship and go gothic, or forget gothic and be ehr frined, I think I should forget her, but please tell me if Im right! (link)
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after reading this ive realized that
a true (for the lack of a better word) "gothic" person does not believe in labels so therefore i do not believe that you really belive in what you say but are doing it because it seems to be the new fad
i myself when asked if i am gothic will respond
"why dont you tell me what gothic is and ill give you my answer"
basically this takes care of that persons miscinceptions
i was once asked and responded that i was only to find out later that the person thought a gothic person was nothing more than a satan worshiper (lucifirist not a satanist) and when i told her i wasnt she didnt belive me
basically if shes your friend then she wont care what you look like how you dress or anything like that. shes not your true friends if she feels that way
im sorry to say that i belive you will have to make a deescision of either keeping a friend and lossing who you are or no conforming to what people want you to be and stick it out what comes will come and if someone realizes they want nothing to do with someone like you forget them you dont need them
hope this helps if you need to talk abot it anymore email me at yoyofire.cr@verizon.net
or my aim sn is poeticinjsts i love to talk and meet new people with the same interests as i ^^
-me
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ok heres the deal, if u know who i am then u know what this is about if u dont know me then dont worry bout it.... ok so we all know it was my idea to break up with her, i didnt want to do it but i figured it would be better if we had time to get over eachother and then we would be cool and be friends when i leave for college, good idea no? so yeah its been about a month since that and i find out that she has a new man, i mean sure i flirt with other girls, but i dont call them and i surtantly DONT go to THEIR HOUSES! so i dont know what the fuck to think, is this a good thing that she over me, are we gona be cool now.,.. wait, hers the kicker... i cant believe i forgot.... we talk and she tells me that she still wants to get back together cuz she still has feelings for me and everything and then i have to find out from a person who i dont even like, and she doesnt like me ither butshe felt i should know this, and i appreciat her telling me but FUCK what the hell is the deall..... im asking a wanna be goth punk for help with my life what have i come to? damnit chirs what do i need to do? (link)
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lol love the wanna be goth part
well i hate to say it but i think her dating someone else may have been my fault i told her to move on and that if she still liked you to give it awhile
and yes it is a good thing that she was trying to move on but it shows that she hasnt really and i think thats shes only using this "other guy" to make you jealous.
i personally think that you should say fuck it
do you want to get back together
then do it now if not then isnt it a good thing that shes with someone else then you wont feel bad about going and finding another girl that you like and asking her out
you can always be friends after a break up
im friends with half of the girls thats ive broken up with and the ther half i talk to everyonce in a while i try not to loss contact with anyone the world is too small for someone to pass up a friend
just know that it will probably never be the same between you and her and if you know that she likes you dont get into a position that she may try something on you like if you go to the movies take some people with you or better et take another date to show her that her staying with your choice
if you need to talk about it man you know my number and you see me sometimes come talk ill listen and give you my two cents
-me
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Dildo sword fights are all right arn't they. I'm playing with my cousin ryan. Jon and Adrienne (link)
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i belive someone has been trying to get people to say once again this saying
"it takes all kinds"
-me
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My friend(not best friend) is moving! What do I do!? She's moving to Florida and she doesn't want to go. her mom is getting remarried. What do i do?
I don't want her to go and she doesnt want to go. (link)
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florida isnt that bad...she can come see me ^_^
-me
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I have two beautiful Shih Tzu dogs who had puppies together. I adore my dogs and their puppies. I gave one of the little darling puppies to my friend and her daughter. Her daughter has health problems. I made it very clear if she was unable to keep the puppy, I prefer her to return the puppy to me. Less than a week after I gave her the puppy, she has given the puppy to her friend Heather, a woman I do not even know. She says that she gave her the puppy until it is housebroken because she does not want the puppy around her daughter. I gave her this puppy that I could have easily sold for over $500 and now she has given it away. How can I make myself clear that I want the puppy back? I made it a point to place these puppies with people I know because they are such important little animals to me. The parent dogs are like my children and the babies are like my grandchildren. I feel insulted, angry, and hurt that my friend went against the direct conditions of me giving her the dog and I want the puppy back so I can place him with someone I know. (link)
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tell your friend the truth....she should understand did she know your reasoning behind giving her the puppy...that may be where this whole problem started misconmunication.....just comeout with it the sooner the better before the puppy get attached -me
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Ok, I don't wanna sound brutal or anything, but my BFF (let's call her Emma) is so freakin' boring. I'm getting into going to parties, dances, and other fun stuff. Emma is the total opposite. She'll sit at home, watching TV, or sitting on her computer for 5 hours. I really feel like she's holding me back. What should I do? (link)
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ok well i have to say coming from a strict family i wasnt able to do anything when i was young...maybe she cat go because her parents said so and she doesnt want to tell you about it or maybe she doesnt like going to partys....maybe the atmosphere isnt for her....talk to her tell her how you feel about the situation and if she is your true friend shell compramise...but keep in mind maybe youll be the one making some comprimises -me
p.s. stay out of trouble at all those partys
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i dont really have a question i just wanna know if you can guess who this is >^_^< luv ya (link)
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couldnt be lindsey could it....love ya kittie ^^
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