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Q: lately my bff has been getting on my nerves. everything i like, she has to like too. but evrything i cant do, she makes a huge point that she can do it. and every time i like a guy she always decides she likes him a couple days after i tell her i like him. and theres other little things but enough of them to make me want to scream! i will rate 5s 4 good answers!
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Well I'm gonna say what adults told me when I was little. *sigh* It might not make you feel any better (It didnt when it was told to me) But it's almost always true, and it'll explain why your best friend has been acting the way she does.
"When someone copies you, they envy you"
So I believe that when she makes the point that she can do something that you can do, she wants to be like you. I think the same goes for your crushes.
Since you two are friends, she obviously likes you for who you are.. and I think some part of her wants to be just like you.
I really really do think that you should bring this up with her. If you two are best friends, then I can't see why you can't talk about it. But the way I'd tell her if I was you (which I'm not) if to bring it up casually in a conversation.. face to face if you can help it.
Well good luck to you and your friend.. Hope I helped!! -Ce
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Q: This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!!
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I'm so sorry! This is such a heart-wrenching situation... what your feeling is what most people go through in the grieving process. You should definatly go to the viewing, and pay your respects.. people WILL understand if you don't go to the casket.. find people you know.. if you want to see the casket, that's up to you! Memories are so important, and even if you see the casket, you'll have more memories that you can tresure forever. Reassure yourself that he isn't in pain anymore.. I am SO sorry about your loss, no matter how many people try and reassure you, you are the only person who can make YOU better. Good luck, and make the right choice for yourself. -Ce (Lots of love, girl!!) :)
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Q: okay, im a sophmore this year and ive been going to the same private school since the 5th grade so obviously i know everyone in my grade well and blah blah, the problem is, the ppl that i have been friends with in the past years, are jus really annoying, childish, and down right lame, im jus so sick of them i dont want to be their friends anymore, dont tell me that im mean, becuz you dont know the whole situation, the point is ive dropped them, anyhow, now how can i make new friends becuz i dont like anyone in my class and im not sure if we are getting any new cool girls this year, what can i do! and most the ppl that i would wanna hang out with, its liek theyve already got their own friends, and i have no one! help plz!
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I've got this quote from a movie "You have to try and forget about what pesters you about your [friends], and embrace the good things" or, ignore what annoys you, friends are friends. Look at this from your ex-friends' point of view.. they are acting like themselves, then one of their friends dump them for just being themselves. If you think that they are 'annoying, childish, and down right lame' then they prob think the same way about you! I'm not going to sugar-coat this for you. You are dropping them for stupid reasons and you should get over yourself. You may be mad at them now, but soon you'll realize you've liked them all along!
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Q: well i have a boyfriend but i really like my best friends boyfriend…but so does she…she absolutely loves him! my boyfriends really nice…and i like him and my friends boyfriend the same…which is a WHOLE lot…please help!
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Well, don't feel confused. You need talk to your boyfriend and see if you can get some reassurance from the relationship! You're obviously not happy with YOUR relationship if you feel the same way about another guy.. don't try to start something with your bestfriend's boyfriend.. that's being a boyfriend-stealer, and you don't want that on your rep. I'd wait atleased a month after they break up, that's IF they even do if you want to start something with this other guy.. Make the right choice! -Ce
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HELLOOOO! I go by the name CE and I love to give advice. I give almost everyone I know advice and it seems to go well.. be comfortable about asking me any question at all. Don't let my age thow you off, I know what I'm talking about. It seems like most of the time, I have a reasonable answer, and sometimes they are reeaally looong. I like to talk! Sometimes, I think it's all I ever do!
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Massachusetts Occupation: Student, 11th grade Age: 17 AIM: Yahoo: MSN: daydreamer7788 Member Since: August 17, 2004 Answers: 44 Last Update: October 17, 2006 Visitors: 4649
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