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Q: My friend stopped speaking to me beacuse of her other friend. I tried to apoligize but it didn't work. We haven't spoken in like 6 months and I never see her anymore because she moved. What would you do in this situation? What do you think of my friend?
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i tihnk its kinda dumb she stopped talkin to you for that but if it really is that important to you she mustve been a good friend so write her a letter and tell her exactly how you feel and hope for the best.
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Q: i have 2 best friends and we all hang out all the time but my two best friends have known eachother longer and they tend to leave me out ALL the time! Its annoying, it comes to the point where i dont want to hang out with both of them at the same time. When they arent together and im just hanging out with one of them its is soooo much fun! i have already talked to them about it so that wouldnt work...any suggestions?
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been there, done that. 3 is an odd number so... dont do it. make at least one new close freind and hang out as 4, if they feel left out and talk to you aobut it explain that they ddi the same thing. also that way they can make new freinds other than eachother to. its not likley that they will do something as a 3 without you. but if 2 of them hook up, you can hook up with the other one. i wouldnt completley forget aobut them right away though, sometimes people dont realise whats goins on untill itsbeen done to them, so make new freinds and see what happens.
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Q: One of my best friends, let's call her "Patty", well, she doesn't really know how to say "NO" to this biotch, let's call her "Betty". And "Patty's" bf, me, and another one of her best freinds r sick of it cuz "Betty" will just grab "Patty" and take her away from us when we r talking to her. We have tried to teach Patty how to say NO to "Betty" but "Betty" doesnt listen at all and she thinks she is ALL THAT and she isnt. "Patty" is a great friend and she doesn't really like this biotch "Betty" but "Betty" thinks that "Patty" is jk when she says No to her and we love "Patty" a lot but........how else can we help "Patty" to say NO to "Betty"??????
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i know exactly what you mean- i have a friend like "patty" who has the same thing with 2 people like "betty" and what we did is everytime one of he "bettys" cmae up we gave her a look and she always tried to say no! and now she doesnt even have to worry aobut it nad whenever she didnt say no we just walked away because we didnt wanna b around "betty" so just tell your friend "patty'' that while shes with "betty" you dont want to be around her and maybe then she'll realize that you are more important than being nice to someone she doesnt like
hope i helped
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Q: My so called "friend" just told my other friend that i said i hated her. Then that friend got mad at me. I never said i hated her though because she is my friend.I told her that and now she beleive's me, but the one that told her i said i hated her is being really mean now. Then i told her that she needed to figure out what her problem was before she lost all her friends not just one. I don't know what to do. Should i be mean back to her or should i just ignore her?
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neither. the three of you should get together rither at the counslers office at school or somewhere outside of school - mall- your house etc and the three of you should all just say whats going on and try 2 work it out hope i helped
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Q: ok i like this guy.. that ofcorse everyone dosnt like. they say hes dirty and bad. all because of one suspention. i guess i am infact the kinda girl who shouldnt hang around him. but i want to be around him. i confince myself that i dont like him. and when i c him i feel like i love him so much.*if i idmited that i liked him.. my rep. would drop and id loose friends. but is it all worth it? signed -confused
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sit down and make a pros and cons list (good and bad) and write the good things that would happen if u admitted u liked him possibly asked him out under pros and all the bad things that could hapen , see wich collumn has moe nad c which reults u would rather have and most of all follow your heart thats the most important thing , and try 2 at least be friends with him - every good realtionship starts with friendship
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Q: I keep loosing friends b/c my g/f is a bioch to every 1... wat should i do
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well, friends are always more important than b/fs or g/fs , u should either talk 2 your g/f and ask her 2 respect your friends or you should dump her cuz ur friends will always b there, and girlfriends come and go. hope i helped
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i enjoy hanging out with my friends and giving advice. im only 5 ft flat but thats ok. i have long brown hair and dark brown eyes . the majority of my friends are males , always have been. i listen to all kinds of music mainly rock tho and love riding my bike. im a cheerleader for the bloomington Knockers thats about it
*nosliwojyblehs*
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Gender: Female Location: Blomington illinois AIM: Member Since: November 10, 2004 Answers: 27 Last Update: November 9, 2005 Visitors: 3652
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