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Hey. I love giving advice. I enjoying giving advice about the sexual things, I've been thinking about getting a degree to be a sexual education teach or, or a sex therapist. I my second best would be friendship[s] and relationship[s]. I am 21yrs old. I have a pit bull named Zip. I work at a middle school as a nutriton assistant. I have 4 god children, 1 boy, 3 girls.

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ok, well here's the story. i'm having my 14th b-day party and i am not having a big thing, all my frends r from skewl but 3 of them kno each other and the other on doesn't rele kno the other one. i'm thinking about a slumber party but i dont want to make the last girl feel left out. wut do i do???? help plz!!!

set up a game that yall all can play so she don't feel left out...but also. when you have a lot of girls get to gether there is always goingto be one sigled out or people or going to go off on there own. so set something up watch movies talk about boys share stoires...kind of like truth or date but w/ out the dare just ask each other questions. as long as you treat everyone equal and make sure everyone is still intact w/ each other and not being a loner then things should go well.

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i feel like none of my friends like me b/c no1 ever wants to hang out with me and im gettin rlly upset about it

this is kind of hard to answer cuz...i don't know how you are n how ur friends are...but i do know how ya feel cuz i feel like i have no one to hang w/ n i feel like i only have two friends...but jst make the most of it...n u shouldn't put ur self down like that or think that way...cuz i'm not saying you are/do...but ur friends not wanting to hang out w/ you also has alot of the way ur attitude is...like if your a depressing person they don't wanna be like that cuz it would get on there nervs n if ur a bitchy person they wouldn't want to be around bC well u know wat i mean

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im startin to realli like this guy and im realli not sure how he feels bout me bur we flirt and stuff but i need a majo flirtin move or sumthin like that lol but i wanna let this guy kno i like him alot but reguar flirtin doesnt seem to b workina dn im 2 scared to jus straight out tell him...can u give me sum details as to wha to do

hmmm lets see! well since yall are always flirting then i mean it jst str8 says hey i like you! but have to look at it this way...it's better to jst str8 out say hey i like you then not cuz then he could be like i like her but i don't know if she likes me...cuz yall both might be shy...n yall want know yall like each other (srry if this isn't makeing since) but like if you don't str8 up tell them then how is he going to know u like him...think of it like that...but if you don't want to str8 up tell him then jst flirt twice as much...don't be clingy though cuz there are some guys that don't like clingy girls! jst do some mager flirting!!

i so0o0o hope i helped!!!

~b

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ok........i met these two really great girls and i feel like we are getting really close.. but i dont want them to feel that i am *copying* them or trying to be someone i'm not... i really want to be best friends with them, but i dont want to come off as pushy or annoying ya know? so what can i do to know if they think that or if they think i am "copying" them?


well when u hang out w/ someone for a while u start to kind of act like them or say some of the things they say n u don't even mean to..like my best friend Jennifer she always says blah! n now thats all i say...well have you changed ur style?...ur attitude? do they notice it...i mean it's really not that big of a deal...i mean i know some ppl that act like me but thats cuz they hang out w/ me n it doesn't bother me..cuz i know they don't mean to be like that...like wheni started saying Blah i told Jennifer i was like dude i so stole ur word i didn't mean to but i can't stop saying it...she jst laughed at me n said it was str8..i mean don't wrry about it...they kow how u really are by the 1st time they meet you...jst try not to act like them catch ur self before ya do it ro soemthing like that...i so0o0o hope i helped..haha

~b

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ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

omg! that so sounds like me n my good friends..i'm always getting mad at my friend Kelleye and Hannah...but the thing is Kelleye understands y i get mad at her n i always tell her i'm srry for getting mad at her she jst pisses me off n i jst go off on her...n Hannah...shes a slut so i yell at her about that...but i mean i try hard not to yell at them n stuff...jst after u cool down go back to her n tell her ur srry n u didn't mean to bit her head off but she jst gets on ur nervous sometimes..n u can't help it...n most likely shell understand...cuz Hannah n Kelleye do...plus i'm also the type of person that has a really BAD attutide problem...but ne'ways i hope i helped let me know...

~b

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Ok.. I have 2 friends... friend 1 and friend 2 we will call them.
Friend 2 is still in love with her ex-boyfriend.. and now im dating him. Shes mad at me because I am dating him and she wants to be with him. She keeps telling people she miscarried his baby and stuff like that.. which we ALL know isnt true. She said she was 6 months along.. but she NEVER started showing.
Friend 1 keeps getting in the middle of all this. Shes mad at me for dating him too. She says i have no right to date him just because friend 2 still loves him. He SERIOUSLY hates her because she caused him ALOT of problems.

Should I break up with him just because she wants me to.. ?
i mean.. i wanna be friends and all.. but this chik has some serious problems. Someone PLEASE help me!

don't wrry about it! there not ur firned if there going to act like that...so jstbe like f* yall...stay w/ the kid that the kindof crap that messes up relationships...so screw them other girls

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i used to be friends with this girl but we started fighting over stupid shit and we've worked things out quite a few times but something always fucks things up...i said a lot of shit i didnt mean jus cause i was pissed off...i dunno what to do..but itd be nice to be friends again...

i miss you blazey baby = (

idk wat to tell you!

~b

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theres this girl that i dont really get a long with ok i REALLY dont get a long with and i keep trying to work things out with her and we get them worked out but then something messes things up again...

i've been there to! Do things jst keep getting wrose everytime it goes wrong? well i mean try and talk things out and don'tjst start yelling at each other...or jst don't try anymore and not to wrry bout it cuz that's wat i did w/ the last person i kept getting in to fights w/...but if you really want it to wrk out then jst try and talk to her ask her y she gets mad at things you do...or tell her y u get mad at the things she does

hope i hlep let me know

~b

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