Hey, lots of people say I give great advice that (usually) comes through in the end, but I'll let you be the judge of that.
I love reading, rocking and getting high. [:
I play bass guitar and I am bisexual.
I am a purebred metalhead, but I'm really into peace and love and all the hippy crap... probably because I'm a pot head. XP
I don't have many chick friends, I just don't get along as well with females. My bestfriend's are the greatest. [:
I like to meet new people and have fun. So, got a question? I'll do my best to answer it.
Peace.
xx
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I don't want to see my friends get hurt at all. I tend to get a little too involved and concerned though so I end up being really controlling and overprotective. This has backfired on me because then they are afraid to tell me things they would normally share with me. I just don't want any of them to be hurt by anyone/anything, but how can I learn to be less controlling? It's frustrating because I always feel like I need to take charge and make the situation "safe" for them...even if it means controlling every tiny detail! (link)
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My bestfriend is EXACTLY like that.
I still love her though, I know she's just trying to help, because she loves me.
I think, what you need to do is give your friends some space and try not to flip out when they tell you things. Even if you think what they are doing is totally fucking crazy...
I don't think you should stop being controlling ALL TOGETHER, I think your friends might like that you care enough to want to step in. Just... back off a little.
Good Luck.
xxx
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My friend told me that she is gay and I do not want to be friends with her anymore. It's not that I don't like her as a person but I cannot grasp the fact that she has become a lesbian. Just months ago she was dating men and now she is claiming homosexuality. I don't like it and the entire thing makes me uncomfortable. I'm trying to avoid her now more than ever since she has confessed her sexuality to me and I feel that I need to just tell her to her face why I no longer have interest in our friendship. How should I tell her? What should I say? I don't want to come off as cruel by saying, "You're a homosexual and that makes me too uncomfortable to continue a friendship with you," but at the same time I think it sounds most appropriate because it is the truth.
I know it isn't fair of me to not tell her why I have been avoiding contact with her. I know I should tell her but I'm not sure how I should go about this. I was thinking a neutral setting would be most appropriate but I don't want to embarrass her if she gets upset in some form.
Does anyone have experience with this or any ideas of how I should handle this matter? Thank you. (link)
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That's awful.
I'm sorry, but you are a horrible, horrible person for wanting that.
I'm sure you'd get use to it after a while... ?
Holy crap.
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Theres this guy im almost sorta going out with. I seen one of his friends and thought oh hes cute and seen how he acted and thought maybe he'd be good for my best friend. I told my best friend about him and I want them to meet. I haven't formally met the guy either though. so how should i tell my crush that his friend and my friend should get to know eachother? And he doesn't know my friend either. I could say oh my friend thinks that your friend over there is cute [even though she hasn't seen him] and/ or what else could i say? I have it set for them to go out, i dont know why but i really want them to. (link)
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You could just say to him:
"wouldn't it be funny if you friend and my friend went out or something, we should totally introduce them"
Peace.
xx
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long story short, my best friend was acting really strange and un-like her usual self, so since i know her myspace password & email i logged into her account. I read her messages, and found out she had been forwarding some of the private, personal messages i sent to her, to other people! she was also talking really badly about me to behibnd my back.
My question is, do you agree with my being mad at her? I mean, she asked me what I thought about this guy, so i messaged her the answer, and then she forwarded my message to him! thats just one example. shes telling people things ive done and said that she promised to keep quiet. so, who is wrong here? (link)
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What a bitch!!
Yes, you have every right to be mad at her!
Some best friend.
Don't feel bad about being mad.
What a cow!
Well, laterz.
Peace.
xx
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